 And Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck have been spending time together after her split from Alex Rodriguez. Oscar-winning actor Ben is thought to have visited singer Jello at her home in Los Angeles numerous times, according to sources. Ben and Jen previously dated in the early 2020s, 2000s, and got engaged in 2002. However, Ben, who went to the separate ways before Jen married singer Mark Antony in 2004.