 So what are some things that I think that all women should know one is that men want to be loved for who they are not evolved into what you want them to be right this this is true for everybody actually like I get all these women that come in and they're like oh well he'd be so perfect if you know and it's guys feel the same way when they meet women right they meet women and they're like oh you know she'd be so perfect if and it's one of those things where it's like okay am I going to try to fix this person and try to make this person into who I want them to be or am I going to accept them for who they are and love them for who they are and and the thing is is if you can't love a man for who he is right now not you know who he's trying to be not his potential not falling in love with his potential if you can't love him for who he is right now then you probably shouldn't be dating the guy and you should probably go find some other guy if okay so if you're here right now and you're in the chat make sure that you say hi in our chat and let us know where in the world you're watching this from and we will continue on with that yes so so you know a lot of guys they'll you know they're they're probably over here like oh man she'd probably be so perfect if she just leave me alone and stop trying to fix me right so so men want to be loved for who they are and if you can't love them for who he is then you should probably find a different man