 Don't weigh yourself on someone's broken scales. Some people that you are allowing to weigh your life, to guide you, to counsel you, speak into you, are speaking from brokenness and pain in their own life rather than a healing on wisdom that they have taken from their pain and difficulty. They're still wanting to have a voice into your life when they haven't figured out what that came to teach them in their life. I'm advising you guys to not allow people to weigh your life, weigh your direction, weigh your options. Don't allow people to weigh you on their faulty scales. Their scales are broken and they are not able to ever give you an accurate reading of anything you are asking them for wisdom in because they have not yet condensed into wisdom what they've gone through. They're still broken.