 She will not go to the dance with you, and that stuck with me for years. So I didn't talk to girls that smiled at me and were nice to me. And I didn't talk to girls that didn't smile at me and weren't nice to me, because I didn't think they liked me either. So I learnt girls don't like me. That's what I learnt. Bullshit! That's not what it was. That was bad learning. I'd conditioned myself to learn the wrong thing. That's the issue most of us have. It's not that we can't get girls, you have all had girls. You can get girls. You just don't know when they want you. You can't tell. So how many of you guys, I don't even use to raise your hands, how many of you have got a female friend and you think, you know, I think she likes me but I'm just not sure. So I'm not going to push it. So I'm just going to be friends. Oh, and now we're stuck in the friend zone. And then she says to you, I would have dated you once, but then we kind of became good friends. You guys had that experience? Some of you guys? Yes, right? We're used to that. Because we didn't see the signs. Wasted opportunity. Or you meet a girl and she's flirting with you in a bar and you're like, man I kind of like her. I don't know if she's going to give me a phone number. And then she kind of walks off and then you're like, I should have asked for it. You don't get it. Because you didn't know what the signs were. So I'm going to show you a whole bunch of the signs. I'm going to take you through them. Now there are too many to do in this talk. There are literally too many. So at the end of the talk I'm going to talk to you guys about, I'm going to speed some up and try and give you a bunch of them very, very quickly and sort of like try and help you out. I'm going to put some videos online for free so you guys can watch them and catch up with it because I literally just can't do it all in there. So let's start. Very first sign of attraction. You guys are going to get very careful with this, okay? There's three of them in this. These are the three glances. Glance one, glance two, glance three. Glance one's very simple. You've got a group of girls all hanging out, maybe two girls. I don't know whatever it is. They're all hanging out. And one of them, or the one that's doing the type one glance, isn't looking at the rest of the group. So imagine two girls in deep conversations. This is a good way of thinking about it. And one of them is like, oh my God, so today this thing happened. And the other girl is like, oh my God, yeah, that's great. And they're looking at each other. No glances there. But if one of them is like, oh my God, this new nail varnish, it's from Nas, it's awesome. It's silver. And then the other girl is like, oh, it's cool. And she's looking around. That's a type one glance. She ain't looking at you. She's not looking at anyone. She's just looking around. That says she's bored of this conversation. She wants to talk to somebody else. Type one glance. Your success rate in there is like 35%. It's not 100. But you have a better chance than normal. You've got a group of five girls. Watch Pick Up Eyes all the time. They go, go for the ugly one. I'm like, you talk to the ugly one, dude. I'm going to talk to the really hot one that's given out a type one glance. See the difference? You talk to the fat ugly one. And you try and work that and deal with it and deal with all her anxiety and all her bullshit. And when you finally win her over, try and get away from her to get the hot one. I'm just going to talk to the hot one that's given out a type one glance because she's bored of her friends and she wants to be approached by a male to give her some interest. See the difference? So much more effective. Since using this in my teaching, my students, the results is so much easier. I just go, dude, you know what? I'm going to open that girl. Forget that one. He goes, but this book says, fuck the book. Talk to that one. That book ain't here right now. Yeah? I leave the book. The book doesn't know. It can't see. It can't analyze this situation. I'm telling you, that girl wants someone to talk to her. Type one glance. Type two glance. Exactly the same exception makes eye contact with you. Not for long, a little bit. So if I was looking around there, it would be like this. Trying to make eye contact with everyone once. That was really difficult. But it's like a quick glance, right? It's just a very quick glance. That's type two. Type three is the one that everyone looks for. It's this one. That's the obvious one. That's the one you've been waiting for, right? But that's too obvious. Why wait for that one? Type one and type two are fine. Type one and type two are going to let you know. Girl looks eye contact with you across the room. She's looking around the room. She wants to talk to somebody. It may. Go get it. Go talk to her. They are three types of glances. Okay, we'll go on to the next one. How about the hair flick? This is my favorite one. How many of you guys have ever heard? If a girl flicks her hair, she's attracted to you. You guys ever heard of this? Raise your hand if you've heard that. What if her hair was in her face? She wants the cock. No, she's moving her hair out of her face. How about my hair is irritating me because it's dragging down the side of my face. I'm moving it back. Obviously, she wants the cock. That's exactly what it is. No, I think it was Moore did the study in, like, the 70s. So I called it. She analyzed this as part of the study on teenage girls. Here's what the hair flick looks like. It's repeated removal of the hair behind the ear within 10 seconds. That's what you're looking for. Not just hair behind the ear, repeated. That. You guys ever seen that together? That's the one. That is attraction. Anything else, the hair is in her face. So you're talking to a girl. Yeah, I mean, for some of you guys that are all about, like, you know, whatever, I'm just going to, you know, she wants the cock. Fine. If you want to just go for it, go for it. I'm just saying if you want to know if she likes you, if you're getting repeated hair behind the ear, there's a lot of reasons for that. One, she's exposing her neck to you. Two, she wants to make sure she hears everything you say. There's a lot that goes into it that shows that she's interested to you. But that's what we're looking for. We're looking for that. The next one. This is a fun one. Who's here? Who's out of proximity? You guys ever heard of proximity? Yeah. This is like one of my favorites. Bullshit. Parade and approach. Very different. Similar, but not the same. Proximity is the girl's next to me, therefore she wants to be open. How many of you have ever stood at a bar and then girls come to the bar and you're like, they all want to talk to me? Dude. They want the cock. All of them. Every girl. And or they just want to get to the bar and you're a dude alone, so it's easy to move you from one side to the other. Yeah? It's not proximity. They want a drink. Really badly. It's not that they want the cock. Maybe they do, but that doesn't necessarily equate. Parade and approach is different. Parade and approach is where the girl actually takes time to move in front of your walk so you can see her first. Then she makes a beeline to approach. That is the exact thing you should be looking for. Parade, approach. Now, if you guys ever want to see these things, there's a really cool place you can go where you can see them all. Now they're fake, but they work. Go to a strict club. You go to a strict club, you'll see girls parade and approach you all the time. They walk by, they look at you and they're like, do that little sassy look or whatever, and then they approach you afterwards. Parade, approach. That's what you're looking for. Or the hair flick thing. Oh my God, you're so interesting. Tell me more. They're all fake, of course. They've learned how to do this, but that is what you're looking at. Parade, approach. The hair flick or the glances. Again, the girls do it again. If the girls are sitting on a phone like that, she doesn't really want to work at the moment. But if she's sort of looking around, she's interested. So you can analyze these things. If you want to see them for real, just go there and watch. Just know that they're not actually really doing it. They're just trying to get you. Maybe they do want my cock. Who knows? Find out. Now, like I said, there are a whole bunch more of these. For example, I'm going to run through some of the very quick ones that you guys should all know. If she touches you, it's not an accident. You know how I know? Because girls would do this if they don't want to touch you. They would like move around you in the club, and they'd be like, sticky. They'd do that, right? That's what they do if they don't want to touch you. So if they don't want to touch you, they will just move around you. If a girl touches you, she likes you. If a girl's walking by you in the bar, and she runs her hand across your back, or she actually moves you out of the way, she wanted to touch you. If she didn't, she'd be doing that. I had a friend, I was out. I was out with my wife and her best friend one night. This is like the funniest thing I've ever seen to this day. She comes up to this girl and he's going to approach her, but he doesn't do it straight away. He does this thing with his hand, which is like the awkward lurking out hand thing. He does that. You know the hover hand thing? And then he brings it out and he goes to touch her and she knew he was going to approach and she suddenly just goes, ew, ew, ew, ew, ew. And like moves her body away from him. And it's like, she didn't want to be touched. The girl won't be touched. If she touches you, it's interest. If she smiles at you, it's interest. If she starts asking you for help, that's interest. Requesting help is another great sign of interest, yeah? Like, oh, could you help me out? My purse has come off my wrist or whatever. Oh, my shoelaces need untie. I don't know what the fuck girls need help with. Whatever they need help with, they are the things. They're the key elements. They're going to help you out with that. You know, another good thing, if a girl whispers to you, do you know that's a really good sign? If you're talking to a girl, how many of you guys are like, I can't hear what the girl's saying? And so they're like, so you know, so I'm going to lean in. Like, I much prefer leaning back and then saying to them, dude, I can't hear you. Come back closer. And the girl moves into you and she whispers. If she will come close to you and whisper, that's a great sign. Which is obviously great.