 Does the narcissist fear you? Does the narcissist feel fear or anxiety When they are around you are they worried that something undesirable will occur or be done When you start to figure the narcissist out They do fear you they feel like they are at risk of danger or harm They begin to see you as a dangerous person because now you know what they're really about You know their game You know that they're not genuine and this makes the narcissist see you as a threat Because you have the potential to expose them You have the ability to reveal their true objectionable nature They see it as though you could potentially damage their image of reputation And there's nothing more important to a narcissist than that That's where they created their false self Because they want people to view them in a certain way They want people to admire them so when you know what the narcissist is really about It does make them fear you Because you have the potential to expose them You have the ability to reveal their true objectionable nature And that is very scary for the narcissist Because there's nothing more important to them than their image of reputation That's what gets them supply that's what makes them feel special and important Powerful and significant But when you figure out their game They feel like you're taking the power away They feel like you're taking away their authority Because deep down they know that what they're doing is not right They know that they are at fault They just don't want to entertain that idea for long periods of time Many people think narcissists have no self-awareness But that's not completely true There is a small window where they do reflect on their behaviors. They do realize what they've done wrong They just don't feel any regret or a moose They push it away They fight against it Because they always have to be right They can never be at fault But it's so obvious when the narcissist knows that they're wrong It's so obvious when they know they've done something that is not right Because when you confront them or you bring something to their attention They always deflect it. They will always shift the blame on to you or someone else They're not going to entertain anything you bring to them. They're not going to explore the depths of that idea with you Because they're already aware that what they've done is not right They just don't care All a narcissist cares about is getting what they want And they know that if they were to be honest with you that would pose a threat to them getting what they want So they're not going to be honest They're going to do whatever makes the situation more favorable for them Which is why they will blame you Which is why they will make you feel like you're at fault Because it makes them look good It makes them look innocent When you start to figure them out They will fear you. They will fear that you might try to expose them And this will often cause them to react in very inappropriate and irrational ways They will seem very illogical and unreasonable They will be very emotional and they will do whatever it takes to throw you under the bus In order to save their reputation Because that's all that really matters to the narcissist They never really cared about you You were nothing more than an object that they could use to meet their needs But you're only useful to a narcissist as long as they can keep you under their control Once you start thinking for yourself and trusting your own intuition They can't stand it. They can't deal with that Because they need you to live in their fantasy world Where whatever they say is right or true They do not want you to think for yourself Because that is a threat to the narcissist That is a threat to their image of reputation Narcissists are very impulsive They will want to do whatever benefits them in the moment Even if it's unfavorable to you But afterwards they do not want to answer for it They do not want to be held accountable for their actions In their minds they shouldn't have to answer to anyone anyway They are the ones who have authority over you So you have no right to question them But if you do question them You then become a problem Because you're not supposed to see it as though they've done anything wrong You're supposed to accept it You're supposed to make the narcissist feel more comfortable You're supposed to ignore the elephant in the room And if you don't you become the elephant You become the problem Anything that you notice Or bring to their attention Will only be used against you They're not going to entertain anything that is unfavorable to them They always have to be in the superior position And they will dismiss anything that threatens their position They will shift a blame onto you Or they will minimise it Or blame it on some unfavorable circumstances But they will never own it Or admit that they were at fault They will never admit that they gave you a misleading impression They will never admit that they would have held vital information They will do whatever it takes to save their reputation Even if they have to throw you off the edge of a cliff If they fear that you have the potential to expose them They're not going to care about what happens to you They're not going to have any mercy for you Because once you threaten to expose them They feel like you are attacking them They feel like you are trying to destroy their reputation They don't ever consider all of the horrible things they've done to you They don't care about any of that It's irrelevant All they see is someone who is trying to cause harm to them And they will do anything in their power to destroy you But yes Once you figure them out The narcissist does fear you They feel like they're at risk of danger or harm They begin to see you as this dangerous person Someone who has the potential to expose them Someone who has the ability to ruin their image and reputation And to a narcissist That's like you're trying to kill them Because all they have is their image There's nothing desirable beneath that Which is why when they fear that you're trying to expose them They will feel like they're in a fight for their lives And there's almost nothing they won't do They will try to force you back into their reality And under their control But if that doesn't work They will try to destroy you While seeing it as though they're just defending themselves They're never going to entertain the idea that what they're doing is wrong Because all they care about is getting what they want Regardless of how it affects you or anyone else And this is why the narcissist fears you Because you stand in the way of them getting what they want And there's nothing more terrifying to a narcissist than that If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Couching inquiries You can email me at CouchnetNarcSurvivor.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon