 Welcome back to the 21 convention 2019 of Warsaw, Poland. Our next speaker is a returning speaker to the 21 convention stage, first taking it in 2018 and recently the Patriarch Edition in Orlando, Florida. He likes his coffee black and he's a retired heavyweight boxer and a fucking badass. Without further ado, please let me welcome back to the 21 convention stage, Ed Lottemore. All right man, good morning, good morning, good morning everyone. I'm gonna start this one out a little light because it's a bit of a heavy topic we're gonna talk about here and starting out light I chose that image off of something you know I think I just googled red pill right and I got the image and I just noticed when I was pulling up the image and getting it ready that the pill inside of the the stuff inside of the pill are shaped like hearts and that just tickled me for some reason I just I didn't notice it before so what I want to talk about today though is this whole idea of red pill knowledge saving lives and keeping gods alive and the original idea came from the same we used to have back home and I guess to say used to have is incorrect we still say it and that's game saves lives and the whole idea was that when you look at guys who are doing all types of crazy shit like running people with vans or shooting up places we go man if they were only getting laid they only had a better understanding of the world and women they wouldn't really be interested in doing that you know they'd be too busy getting laid but instead they're not in there angry and they go do stuff well I had that idea and I said that's a really good topic to speak about at the convention and then it got really heavy for me because I started doing research to to you know confirm or deny some of my ideas and I'll go through that a little more some things that I actually pulled out but a lot I kept in a lot I found not only reinforced what I thought but took me down or an even deeper rabbit hole so so let's get into it first there are some tragedies that I discovered number one divorced men are 2.4 times more likely to commit suicide than married or single men in other words you know I don't think being in a relationship you know hopefully being in your relationship is happy but I don't think being in a relationship is any more or less a protective from suicidal thoughts but certainly getting your heart broken makes it way more likely that you want to end your life and leave this planet and I put Mary I put the slash for single in the original style I looked up it had Mary but I just figured if you're with somebody for four or five years and you break up with them your heart's not going to know the difference I mean yet there's going to be the legal ramifications and everything for separating the marriage but in the relationship that's still a sting and that's still heavy but that's not the worst part the worst thing is what I discovered next divorced men are non times more likely to commit suicide than divorced women and those of us in the know maybe even if we're in the know we're not quite sure what that is but I'm gonna break that down though but what that tells me is that even though the event apparently affects both sexes equally clearly some is going on that makes it more difficult for men to cope with being broken up with the women that's just the first order you know things go badly you feel badly but what about the second or what about it comes and what comes after that well 63% of you suicides are from fatherless homes how the father becomes absent from the home you know that I would imagine that the the smaller percentage and I even imagine the smaller percentage of God up of fatherless children you know the father died right but many times it's because he left our divorce or those kind of situations one one or the other but mostly he left and why the father left is going to tend to what we want to talk about and the last thing 70% of inmates did not grow up with both parents in the home and I did dig deeper into this and we found or they found that I'm reporting that having just a father in the home is no worse than having a mother and a father in the home having just a mother in the home is where we see this they put this stat and they phrase it this way so you're not hip to what's really going on but the issue is a lot of inmates grow up without a masculine influence in their life and why is that well what you do or don't do resonates down beyond you your failure or your inability to grasp the nature of women and the nature of the red pill is going to lead you to do things like have children that you're not going to be able to stick around with not because you don't want to be there but because the state's going to prevent you when it if it fails and it fails because you're not prepared for how to deal with these things but we get into all this a little more but there are some more tragedies these are the big ones we hear about guys like Elliot Roger if you don't know Elliot Roger he's the guy over in Santa Cruz California who decided that he couldn't stand out of Chad's and Stacy's getting laid while he was living his miserable life so he went and killed with six injured twelve and killed himself have no choice but to exact revenge on a society that did not me sex and love Scott Barrow down in Virginia I believe walks into a yoga studio kills two industry and commits suicide here's a guy with a history of sexual misconducts and arrests issues what relating to women and figuring out why don't they like me right no one is saying they should like him but he can't even understand why and refuses to Chris Harper Mercer the Oregon Community College shooter nine killed 800 commit suicide what's he say here I am 26 no friends no job no girlfriend these are quotes taken from the manifestos or the writings they leave behind on social media right before they go out and do the deed I didn't even know about this guy this is the biggest one or one of the bigger ones Mark Lapine in Montreal 14 kill suicide what's he say you're all a bunch of feminists I hate feminists now we we rag on feminists a lot but no one no one ever calls for the murder of feminists and it's not like he was able to and this was in 1989 by the way it's not like he was able to go out and had these these superglasses on the set you're a feminist and you're not no he just targeted women he suspected were against he and he and his ideologies or his existence as a mammal George Sardini George Sardini was really interesting to me when I looked into this guy because here's a guy when you look at George and I didn't put his picture of George's a good-looking guy I believe he was he was a high-income or he did he definitely had a high income I want to say doctor but that doesn't seem right in my memory but George Sardini also I'm from Pittsburgh that's where this happened Pittsburgh Pennsylvania in the United States walks into an LA fitness at random then they're not even where the girl is that he was interested in our felt rejected by who he just went out on a date with believe the week before kills three and commit suicide taken directly from his writings women just don't like me there are 30 million desirable women in the US my estimate he actually wrote that I cannot find one but the worst Alec Manassian 10 dead 16 injured he drives a van up in the road in Canada the incel rebellion has again we were through all the Chad and Stacey's all hell the supreme gentleman Elliot Roger the guy I referenced in the first slot Nicholas Cruz 17 days 17 injured this is the Parkland shooter obsession with the girl who rebuffed him and tensified up into the final days where advances a pushback during a day of shooting so I've written did a lot of research into his the shooting and discovered that the timeline of the shooting there was a girl that was his interest and he was chasing chasing chasing until the day of he actually texted her and she was like get out of here you're weird and kind of he was a weird guy no one's saying that the only reason these guys do these things is because of the failures of women but they all have that in common and there's in all these and I actually took out a guy you guys yours Europeans probably familiar with him this is slot originally had three names on her Alex Manassian Nicholas Cruz and Anders Lovitz the guy who flew a plane into a mountainside because you know and they blamed it when I first did the research they were saying okay he just went to a break up he bought his girl an Audi and she she divorced or done even divorce I think they were engaged she dropped him and I did a little more research and finds out the guy was just sick I mean it just so happens that event happens so I didn't think that would be fair to include but I want to highlight that to show you that I'm not just choosing these guys around them who happen to have a a difficulty in romance or difficulty accepting a nature woman and adapting to it I'm choosing these guys because that seems to be a significant motivator and more importantly and I couldn't find much on the other guys but more importantly there was a Nicholas Cruz was the subject of an article that came out a little while ago where they talked about 26 of the 27 deadliest shootings in the United States have been by guys who didn't have fathers in the home now that's since been edited that research shows it was more like 19 or 20 not 26 of 27 but that's still significant we're still seeing that an inability for men to form connections of women what I say at the beginning not just the first order with these guys do with the second order with their offspring do is an effect now what's the problem here few role models from masculinity in the media guys don't turn on the television and see an idea of a stronger man or a man that's capable I think the biggest show or one of the bigger shows right now in the United States and perhaps over here is modern family where we are our portrayal of what a man is in that show a man who leads his family no less is not something that I personally would consider to be a strong man a male role model and I know if I think that and I'm from a single mother home then I know that many guys must feel the same way perhaps they don't articulate it as such but they know that what they're looking at is not something that strongly reflects what they will naturally want to become few male role models from masculinity in the home because so many of these kids are growing up without the father in the home now why the father is not in the home is is you know the state is one aspect of it absolutely but the other aspect of it are guys making terrible choices with women coming from single mother homes themselves they never figure out a bond and relationships themselves and as a result the relationship they do have you they get together they procreate and then they depart and these kids are left without anything in a house to show or and this I don't know if I would say this is worse but it certainly approaches the same issue is the guy who is in the home has been completely emasculated he has no control he has no agency kids don't respect them kind of like a man we see it a soy boy except a soy boy with kids and that can't be good for society and we can see that femme centrale society a few weeks ago my girlfriend brought up this article to me about how more children today are being diagnosed with ADHD than ever in history and my first stop my very first thought this how you know you've been too woke right you in this ship for too long my first thought was does it break the stat down by boys and girls I didn't so I went and did my own research and I found out you see in the next slide what but I found out in terms of the ADHD diagnosis but we're treating young boys as defective girls as they say boys are between four or five times more likely our four or five times more represented in the ADHD diagnosis than young women than girls so guys clearly either there's something completely wrong with all the boys and we're all defective right or there's something wrong with how we're going about approaching men approaching would be men is they grow and develop our worst our focused on and vilified and our best are ignored and marginalized back in the United States they made a really big deal you know first of all everyone is familiar with the me to movement and how that got started was everyone coming forward against Harvey Weinstein and his treatment of actresses and you know forget the ones that got the role for doing that which focus on the ones that felt vilified all of a sudden and they took them down I was good and then that led to them going after Kevin Spacey who turns out he was like the gay equivalent of Harvey Weinstein and guys were being harassed it's a crazy thing right in response to that though they they look in other fields and see where this is happening or why it's not happening and we discover that Mike Pence he is he's got this rule and his rule is that he will not have any type of dinner meeting whatsoever what a what a what a what a woman by herself there's got to be someone else there always it ain't just going to be a one on one and he says he does that to protect his marriage and because and the protectors rep you know he's he's involved that there are vice president right and you would think that that would be greeted with applause but it was not he was criticized for that so how we supposed the how women supposed to make advances you know well our job our job is menace to create these safe environments and we attempt to do that right because because what does Mike Pence not all he's done is look at human nature and go okay I can't change people and I might do some off the wall shit so let me just put myself in a position to why can't do any off the wall shit and and not only they kill him for that in the media a recent survey just came out that said 60% of male managers are now afraid to have any type of one-on-one meeting with their female subordinates and the first thought of course is what would you expect these there's a fucking witch hunt man guys I'm trying to get strung up right but what was more entertaining to me is that rather than look at these guys as a model of what to do right is a way to kind of deal with the problem they go well that's awful how a woman ever supposed to get any type of promotion or any kind of raise you're not gonna meet with them so we take these guys who are supposed to you know we're making strides and really responding to things the best they can and we ignore them and we marginalize them and and we are even worse we we criticize and go after them and the worst of what we focus on when when you know the worst people in the group they're the ones that are magnified their message is the one we hear the most they get the most attention that's unfortunate that's human nature right here's some examples mothers receive primary custody 68 to 88 percent of the time fathers receive primary custody 8 to 14 percent of time and equivalent residential custody is awarded and only two to six percent of cases this blew my mind I wasn't aware of this like I said you know this putting together this presentation was was very enlightening for me because I just followed the facts and if I saw something I went and follow more facts so what we see here is obviously and very clearly the state is favoring putting boys in a situation are all children not just boys because those effects so on the daughters too and we'll get into that in a situation where they're going to be raised with a mother as they primary figure they see what we're moving those masculine role models males are generally more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD than females with male to female ratio of approximately four to one and community samples I remember my original research it was a little closer to five to one but then they they played with some wording and got it down to four to one but the point is are warmly clear that they're looking at young boys as something wrong not something right otherwise we would expect to see it like more closer to one-to-one lastly you know putting together PowerPoint reason tages is fine you know why because you got to find pictures that fit right the picture I wanted to use for that she didn't look so happy it was that picture from the Houston floods and that soldier is carrying a girl a soldier he looks like an ex-soldier he's just that Jack the masculine came that woman her baby I wanted to use that and it was flooding but it didn't fit right and I found a few aspects and didn't work but this one is hearing it and it makes the point that I'm trying to make which is toxic masculinity has no female counterpart and is grouped with masculinity in general if you doubt this go ahead and mention something about masculinity on social media and see how you are vilified and how it quickly turns into toxic masculinity that adjective is just gonna sneak up you know there's not only are you not allowed to separate the two but try and bring up a conversation about toxic femininity and see what happened you will find that that should apparently there's like Santa Claus and the leprechaun had a baby and he was the twin of the Easter Bunny right he doesn't exist but toxic masculinity is real a lot so we got these examples what's the solution I don't want to just bring you down the solution is for you to understand