 No matter what situation you're in in your life that feels Unpleasant misaligned. It's something that you feel may be stuck or trapped in there is always Okay, there's always a way to get out of it to pivot to change directions And sometimes we might not always feel that way. Hello, love bugs and welcome back to my YouTube channel If you're new here, I'm Sarah and I created this channel to help you build a more fulfilling and loving and positive and beautiful life with a dash of Spirituality and today we're gonna talk about pivoting and changing the direction so that you don't feel trapped in a situation whatever that may be and This could range from so many things. It could be a Relationship it could be a job. It could be a living situation. It could be your health It could be so many different things So you have to think of something in your life that doesn't necessarily feel right to you something that makes you drag and feel Not energized and makes you feel unhappy You might be thinking well, well, no, Sarah, you know, let's take a job For example, I might need this job because I need this job because I need to make money so that I can pay rent and Put food on the table and blah blah blah blah Right But that doesn't mean there aren't other Jobs or scenarios that you can use to your advantage to change the situation You know, sometimes you have to look beyond the short term Sometimes you have to look at the the long-term benefits that your decisions are making because here's the thing on average Do you know that we make 35,000 Conscious decisions a day So don't you think you can use some of your own decisions to change your life and to get out of the Situation that you want to get out of and the thing is is it's hard to do that because essentially we have set our own traps We have set our own ceilings as I've said in previous videos for feeling like there is no way out There is no other alternative. There is nothing else that we can do But the thing is that is self-imposed That is something that you have decided You have decided you can't get out of the relationship You have decided that, you know, you've been in this career path for 10 20 30 years. So you can't do anything else Well, why not? Because you say so. Oh Well, I've already invested all this time in this relationship. I just want to make it work I don't want to start over Okay, well, you're making that decision You're making the decision to stay in something a job relationship, whatever it may be that makes you unhappy Because you've told yourself. There's no alternative when you know deep down There are the thing is is it's one it takes so much courage to Change the situation It can take a ton of faith. It can take a lot of faith in yourself and trust in yourself and you know The higher power that's out there But the thing is is if you don't have faith in yourself and courage and trust in a higher power Then you're not you're gonna be stuck You're not gonna get out of this situation because only you can make that change. Let's take a Romantic relationship as an example You're in a romantic relationship. You've been with this person for three four five plus whatever how many years, right? And you're unhappy and you know, you're unhappy But you've gotten accustomed and used to the situation. Oh, well, that's just how this is This is normal the relationships get stale Relationships do that and of course that kind of thing does happen but you know what I'm talking about if you've been in Either in either physically or emotionally abusive relationship and you feel like there's no way out You know, maybe they're threatening you. Maybe they're doing this but the thing is is Life is so limitless and if only you decide to take the courage and get rid of your fear and make that step and do what's Necessary and guess what it might not be the number one thing you want to do You know, if you're in this terrible relationship where you're being abused or you're unhappy or whatever But you want to be in a loving committed beautiful Relationship You're not going to make one single move and go from level one to level 100 There are all of the steps in between but you can't get there if you don't take the first step Okay, all of these decisions are about taking the first step and then the next little step and then the next little step And the thing is is sometimes we get so paralyzed in the situation that we're in because We see all the steps and it's overwhelming. It's more comfortable to stay in that situation Because taking the next step to remove yourself and replace it with a different situation is Unfamiliar and it's uncomfortable But you have to understand that if you never make that first step You're always going to be where you are and nothing's going to change. So I'm making this video to encourage you Take the step Take whatever step it is and it's not going to be you don't have to have the whole plan in place You don't have to have a to z in place to take the first step You just have to take the first step and then when you're ready you take the second step And then when you're ready if you take the third and so on Okay, stop Getting so much in your head where you're paralyzing yourself Because you can't see Every single little tweak and stuff in front of you to get to where you want to be Think about all the greats that have been out there in history and currently Do you honestly think they got there because they had every little step planned out and nothing went wrong? Like that's that's not even it's not even realistic the bottom line is if you are 50 pounds overweight and you want to lose those 50 pounds You have to make the first step. What's one thing you're going to start doing? What's one thing you're going to cut out of your diet? And then maybe a month later you add on another step and a month later you add on another step Okay, it's something that Accumulates over time but you can't Stop yourself and you can't let's be honest You can't lie to yourself and say there's no other alternative Just because you you're too scared to take the step Because you don't want to feel uncomfortable Just because you haven't decided that you want whatever the other side the grass is greener Okay, that side just because you haven't decided that that's worth it to you enough Doesn't mean that it's not possible and probable If you do start making those steps So I hope this video encourages you to look at the things that are making you unhappy and things that are unfulfilling in your life and Just guide you, you know guide yourself. Listen to yourself write down what you want to do. What do you want to change? What's the next step to get there? Okay, something that I'm personally working on right now is you know, I really want more inner peace Well, there's a million things that go into that and one of the biggest things due to my research is obviously meditation I have a huge block with meditation Okay, it's just something that I mentally just feel like I can't do and I'm not good at I'm never gonna get good at it Well, if I keep doing that and not trying meditation Then I'm never gonna be good at it Right So you start off with a baby step, okay? I'm gonna try meditating one time a week for five minutes And then you increase it maybe to ten minutes or two times a week And you just keep on taking those little baby steps and then you get there and before you know, you're like, man I'm so glad I started have you ever done something or realized something and you think to yourself man, I Wish I made that decision sooner I think we've all been there and the thing is is you can get there sooner with this next thing in your life You don't want to be looking at a situation that you're in right now Okay, and think I can't get what I want and then when you do eventually 20 years from now Are you gonna be sitting there saying hey, man, I wish I made that decision sooner. I wish I had done this earlier or Are you gonna listen to Sarah? Okay Do it now take the first step And guess what if the first step you take is the wrong step That's fine. Just take another step Imperfect movement you can't wait for everything to line up perfectly to take the first step So take it now You will be so happy that you did later. I Love you guys so much. I hope you found some value out of this video if you did please give it a like and Subscribe so we can hang out again next week and don't forget to hit the notification bell So you never miss a video with me because we have so much fun on this channel I love you guys so much and don't forget be limitlessly yourself