 Believe it or not, as much as you might think that men are users and players, what most significant percentage of men actually seek a fully committed relationship. However, there are a lot of dysfunctional men out there. Yes, they have childhood wounds and traumas and adult traumas that make it very difficult for them to lean into a healthy happy relationship if the ground underneath them isn't solid. How can you spot these men? I highly recommend reading the book, The Hoffman Process, The Hoffman Process. This will be a deep dive for you to observe your own negative patterns and limiting beliefs in life that cause you, or excuse me, your childhood wounds and traumas that cause you to have negative patterns and limiting beliefs in your life.