 Y'all, I know my camera is trash lately. I'm so excited y'all my dreams has finally came true after being in a cesspool I don't like Arizona y'all. I don't like Phoenix with it six to eight percent of black people in the entire City not just an area the entire city. It's gotten better, but I'm over it So my husband finally not first of all let me back up. Y'all know I've been mentioning my husband and I We've been doing stuff around the house and but he's really been kicking it into over gear The last year or so this Lee year well the last two years He's been really kicking it into over gear and it's a sellers market. So he's like, okay What part of Texas are you gonna move back to? I'm faking him, but I'm like really he's like, yeah If you were part of East Texas, you want to move back to y'all He's like he even moved back to East Texas, baby He's like, yeah that way, you know, you can be closer to your family and friends So, you know, even if you want to move back to where you're your best friend my best friend love we can he doesn't mind We could live there. I'm like, thank you y'all finally so Moving back y'all within the next two years two years We have a two-year plan to sell this house and this is sellers market. So these houses Girl bank, I don't know how much this is gonna go for we bought it for a little under 200,000 Billy was like 185 to be exact, but someone with the same floor plan sold their house for 360 Yes, and I get it right now. It's a sellers market, but also when buying so we would definitely buy somewhere in Texas We were looking at cities right now We were more than likely rent a condo or you know ran a house for a couple of months and then find A house, you know in Texas y'all in the Dallas area My place is I want to move to a small town that has that small time feeling hell I'll be okay. We're moving back to Denton where you and T wear with the college Denton, I don't know if my best friend likes for me. So I don't know about for me He's like, do you want to move back to Long Beach? I'm like, hell no There's people trying to get out of East Texas now Um Yeah, so to your plan to move back to Texas is so simultaneously We're gonna passports Yeah, I already have my passport I need to get it updated get my name changed and then we have to get JB his passport Because we will be traveling to East Africa. My husband has been saying for years He doesn't want to work forever So if he can make some type of business ventures in East Africa specifically Kenya It's time to do it now. Like he's in his mid 40s It's time like it probably would have been time when we were in our 30s, but it's time to make our money work for us So I'm like, okay, you know at first I was scared. I'm still gonna probably pray about it But look, I think it's no coincidence the way that things have been happening in my life so I'm gonna pray about it and Really, I want to support my husband and whatever he decided. I'm gonna pray about it and just take the leap y'all Not too many people can say that they're willing to you know, go to Africa And invest in whatever there is to offer because there's tons of different investment opportunities for people who have a little bit of something We ain't got a lot of money, but we got something So yeah, I'm not gonna share a lot about it Because I know there are some people African-Americans that have moved are done different things and they share they overshare on their platforms I won't be doing that, you know, so and plus my husband will be doing most of that traveling Of course, we're gonna go with him. I think he said he's gonna try to go next year To visit depending on how things are And then we will go with him as a family in like three years after that But definitely girl, Texas in two years and so yes, I'm excited y'all I need to be close to my family right now I it really does help, you know to be because we don't have any family and I just got my tribe of friends here and Phoenix within the last five years, but that's not enough for me right now. Um So I'm excited. Yes, I just want to share that y'all and I will be Joining joining that of logging that process of Hey girl, here is a real a real chit chat all the way. I'm gonna be doing shit And girl, this is a real chit chat for a change And I got notes here that I emailed myself cuz I'm slow Let me go ahead and bring it up y'all We're gonna be talking about talking about a different What? Girl, that scared me. We're going to be talking about all types of things girls stuff in the news Recent deaths Nothing too personal y'all, but so anyway, I know how we do this. I talk about what's going on in my personal life I talk about what I'm watching on YouTube and what I'm watching on TV. So how you doing girl? We made it is over a year We've been up in these Pandemic y'all sometimes when I wake up I'm like, I can't believe it. I cannot believe this is happening I mean, does it feel like you're living in a dream? Like can we go back? No, we can't it is what it is Home is going well. We finished homeschooling last year night. We finished homeschooling last week JB like most kids his age don't like school. I mean if you can ask most kids Who go to school? They really don't care for school now There's parts of it that he does like he does enjoy all of the breaks that he's having He told me I gave him a little interview and I asked him, okay, baby What did you like the most about you know homeschooling? He's a girl like all the breaks I have now I like that I get to play Okay, so what are you like the least about homeschooling? He doesn't like reading cuz JB It's dyslexic and he struggles with reading and so but my baby has done really well. I've been so proud of him Maneuvering through this is because this has been difficult, you know, we We as adults, it's really easy for us to Complain about it, but these kids are really y'all you have to understand We took them out of their school talking. They couldn't see their friends for weeks Um Put them into virtual learning. So when you have small children to make those type of changes when the children are used to A routine and as you know, at least some of them are used to a certain type of routine. It could be difficult So I printed him up a little Certificate congratulation of finishing second grade and we look forward for third grade And so for this summer I've gone ahead and signed him up for swim lessons The city of Phoenix is offering swim lessons for all the kiddos and we are also going to be doing girl The reason why it's quiet right now is because his butt is a kids park, which is a drop-off camp Which I'm so ecstatic. So my neighbor, um, they're gonna they're gonna do the camp together So he's gonna go there two to three times a week and then we start homeschooling again mid-August So one of the things I definitely have to do my goal and I know I feel like I'm repeating this This may be repetitive. So I do apologize girl hold on My husband had some hour of blinds two of the blinds redone. So this man's gonna come in here girl So one of my goals before we start with homeschooling for 2021-22 oh my god y'all is to make sure that I have as much planned because this is my first year So I don't want to be too hard on myself, but I have learned a lot I definitely want to have most of the lesson plan for the half of the year already done Ready to go because we switched up. I think we switch our curriculum is over all three times this year before we got we found you know a Schedule and before we got into the swing of things, you know, and it may be that way and so One of the things that we we really enjoyed for this year was was called project-based learning Which is where you take a project and you incorporate different topics or subjects such as math and writing and reading So one of one of the ones we did was trapped in the 80s So we had to look up several incidents that happened in the 80s. He had to draw we had to look at different We looked at movies also had a really good time I think one week where he was kind of struggling. I said, you know forget it child Let's let's just do something totally different So we had a culture week and so we learned about Wanda, Japan, Canada And so we did things like I bought him a sushi. I bought him a sushi toy He learned how to make sushi. We watched sushi videos. Oh, and we did Egypt, too. It was so cute. We I allowed him to play outside. He dug out Now River I allowed him to mummify one of my Barbie dolls Poor Mark Mark is probably still mummified child in the backyard. So I think it's crucial for kids this age to play That is how they learn that that is how they learn or one of the ways that they learn they need to play So homeschooling for us is here to stay and he socializes a lot I think there's that's also one of the big misconceptions with homeschool kids, baby We are JB schedule is jam-packed like we had a birthday party this weekend He has friends that he if I wanted to he could socialize with a child every day every day Um, besides that nothing else is going on work My job, this is something I would advise you guys my job is Getting a little slow and y'all know I am what's called a learning management system administrator by trade I and what I do in my job is I organize and I coordinate online training for our clients Okay, and so we've had five client trainees this month so one of the things that I do and I encourage you if you are a young professional is make yourself Um Make yourself a value in your company I'm already a value because I'm the only person that knows my job In my department But if we don't have client training coming in then is vivian really a value Let me tell you something everybody's replaceable Do not think that you are not replaceable because you are baby But make your make it hard to be replaced. So one of the things that I've learned to do to do Hold on y'all This is vivian So one of the things that I did was I nominate myself You know, I push myself to learn new things on the job if someone needs help If somebody does an area where I could you know do a little bit more if Christine, you know Is needs help on someone like hey, you do any help on that girl? I could do that for you There's a coordination project coming up Um several times throughout the year that I basically took over for someone else I was like, I could do this for you if you want girl. I mean you send it to me, but I could be you basically You know, I could do all of that. This is vivian What I'm watching on youtube, baby So First of all, I was watching let me pull up my notes again y'all. Um I don't know why this came up and I had no idea Y'all know who the hodge twins are life-scan brothers from I think they're they're from the south But I don't know if they're from Tennessee or Kentucky um very fair skin and beautiful eyes and I probably saw like one or two of their videos a long time ago But they are on some coon and Let me just say this Not every black person who is a conservative is necessarily a coon that is not it But it looks like the hodge twins first of all their audience was already a certain demographic If you know what I mean because they were silly as hell very silly But then they are on this big bandwagon of trump supporters and I think if you even look at their their uh Their page is like the big american flag. They wear hats to have american flags and that's fine Be be patriotic, but at what expense? At the end of the day you you still black. You know what I mean and you gonna yeah and so I was a little surprised by that to see that they own some kandace Owens type of BS and I'm like wow very interesting So girl anyway, I didn't look at their videos any videos I just saw I think I was looking at Tyrone Magnus and he was reacting to them And I was like what they are totally have their Do a little bit of political stuff and I'm like but y'all are not They don't come off as that smart to me. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, but they don't Girl, I said I didn't want to talk about it. I said I didn't want to talk about it. Y'all apparently Your boy Kevin samuels Um was caught No, he wasn't caught. I guess he was filming. I'm telling y'all black women Women in general not even black women women in general or nosy as hell They will look at everything you cannot run anything. You you can't sneak nothing past us So let me see if I can break it up on lipstick alley because I was trying to look at it this morning I was trying to look at it this morning now. There was already The only thing I can agree with with that flippin Tommy Sotomayor is I believe that Kevin is I don't believe he's gay. I believe he's bisexual He is giving me I feel like at night he'd be laying down in his bed with one hand under him And you know, he has a bonnet on that's So apparently um The thread is called y'all come here. Kevin samuels has a man in his bed So 20 pages deep ks is a piece of work There he is the epitome of it's not what you say is how you say it um black women women in general need to stop going on that show I think it's absolutely ridiculous One thing I will say I do think that he took a lot of points from Talking points not necessarily points from Tommy. Tommy is right about that because I saw a little bit of his video Um, they were dragging him in his in his comments because a lot of being love ks If I'm looking for advice, I want advice on getting a man and keeping a man and getting getting married I'm going to mourn it from someone who is married Not with someone who is twice divorced like ks um You know what? I mean some of the stuff he says has some value, but again A lot of it is bs. I'm sorry. Um So yeah, we ain't gonna give this man too much attention y'all because I don't want his trolls coming over my page So now we're gonna go ahead and keep you pushing keep you pushing. So what else I've been watching y'all Oh, so I came across Some another young lady's post about dating in 2021 not mind you. I haven't been on a date At all because I am I've been married girl. What is this girl doing? This same person has been driving around in this neighborhood. Is she doing a drive by in her minivan? I mean girl anyway y'all Dating in 2021 so this one girl was basically like We didn't even go on a you know Is there do people even go on dates anymore? Y'all like those are people even dating in the pandemic y'all Why is it nobody's talking about all the weird stuff that is going on? UFOs Now the pentagon is investigating. I know some of you've already seen that video of The unidentified flying object or UFO and now they are legit Looking into it Baby a couple of years ago. There was something here called the phoenix lights very i'm pretty sure most of y'all have heard of This very very popular tons of people saw it um There are some strange things that happen in this desert every so now that I see a thread People are like did anyone see all the lights up in the sky a lot of people say well it was um It was satellites they're satellites. I'm like, okay, because I don't want to see nothing I don't want to see nothing um oftentimes in a desert Especially when my girlfriend used to live here We used to text each other and we would see these armored cars all padding Like four or five of them. I know they're been military are padded up and racing through the desert And I'm like what the hell this is this was before this area got really big and built up Y'all there's some strange stuff going on another thing that I read on Yeah, I'm a nerd So apparently there is a group of scientists that have discovered Some what's called ghost particles in Antarctica So they have been um Looking at all of the matter and the reason why they call them ghost particles is that They go outside our standard of physics so they can't explain it And I read I can't even discuss this in layman terms because I just can't because I don't even fully understand it myself but the thing is is that We are finding that Not everything operates the way that we thought it did. Isn't that amazing not everything is Is Operating the way the way that mankind has thought because if it it really boiled down to this especially with the The um particles that were found up in Antarctica That would change our standard model for physics because the particles are not operating the way our three categories go Or whatever how many categories there are it's not operating that way So it's got people stunned. It's got the scientists stunned the ufo stuff I'm not surprised. I think that our government has known about it a long time I'm very curious as to why now. They're just now Why they are emitting to it now Why why is that happening? Yeah, I make sure you cover yourself and make sure you be very very careful very careful Um with what you with what you do say and all that and I want to say this I don't know how many times I have to tell y'all I tried to tell y'all before you know that the storms in texas in the south last winter make sure you prep Make sure you have plenty of water plenty of food plenty of tissue before this winter Make sure you the global global warming is is a real thing Oh y'all hear about that huge iceberg that just chipped off the size of new jersey or something like Bigger than new jersey. I think like seriously. So anyway, besides that, please make sure that you are prepared Um, not only that but honey, I was at the dollar tree dollar tree is the one of my favorite place The dollar tree is one of my favorite places that I go to To get you know supplies prep and supplies And sure enough one of the first things I saw there last month because I don't go there a lot anymore I don't even really go out at all anymore One of the first things I saw was a big sign that says It was something like get your emergency supplies here get your Like they are literally telling us what to do. So you better start listening like this is nothing to be The world is any type of stuff All I'm saying is just make sure that you have enough supplies at home to help your family just in case something happens Just in case there's another winter storm. Hell just in case our ac goes. I will we have solar panel, but still Just have water food medical supplies, especially medical supplies because We don't know what's going to happen now. They have these new what the variants of The virus and we don't know how things and how this thing is going to mutate So please just make sure that you're able to care for your family and your loved ones at the end of the day So y'all enough of that what I'm watching on tv girl I don't know why I started rewatching married to medicine. I started rewatching married to medicine I believe it was season six. It was the season before um Dr. Jackie's husband Was cheating on her that season before what they was looking for a new home y'all So they were looking for a new home And this is also the season where lisa thought that she could get pregnant like How old was lisa that she was in her mid 40s trying to get pregnant and Dr. Damon was his name dr. Damon. He was not feeling that child So y'all I'm watching it again and They really even though mariah could be dirty They really did her wrong. I mean She deserves some of it And I think that mariah is the type of person to where she holds grudges Because I remember one time I think it was either I sent quadra message And it was the episode where mariah will quad went over to mariah's house Mariah was wearing this beautiful green gown child mariah's always slays I will say that And she was basically giving quad the cold shoulder love why so I You know sent quadra message. I'm like, why would she invite you over there? Just for her to give you a cold shoulder and treat you that way. She's like, y'all I do not know That's what I was thinking Anyway, um Honey miss lucy, which is mariah's mama miss lucy is a whole mess. I ain't gonna talk about nobody's mama though So anyway, y'all, uh, yeah, it's really funny to see how Relationships operate on tv before you before You know stuff is about to hit the fan. So I could literally see the tension between Um, dr. Jackie and her husband Not to give him a pass for cheating because there ain't no there is no Excuse for that behavior. Um, but I can see that he was really it was almost like At the point of or maybe he was even doing a thing at hell. We don't know. Do we know was he cheating them? I'm sorry, dr. Heavy. You know, I love dr. Heavy leaving her a little ass giggle I think it's weird as hell that she calls her husband daddy I think that is strange Does she have a good relationship with her father? I don't know But I just think that's really weird that she calls him daddy. Um, y'all what else with us? What else? I saw Um, brandy's little brother unblocked me a while back Y'all ray j blocked me a while back. It was been a couple of years then he unblocked me I don't even know what I said Like I don't know if I called him brandy's little brother or well, whoever monitors his instagram have blocked But you are brandy's little brother ray j like why you get mad? I mean Dang, so anyway, y'all Paul mooney Paul mooney I He passed away He lived a long life. Okay 79 years old. He ran a good race. I'm sorry. Some people don't even don't even make it to 60 So 79 is a blessing and y'all didn't know that he had twin sons and they're very handsome in my opinion 79 comedian Genius and the thing that kind of irks me with our people is we get so So Clearly Paul was on was was one of the girls, you know what I mean? He was more than likely bisexual Who cares and so was Richard prior he even said that he had sexual who was that? Who was that Marlon Brenda like why the hell was it now morning Brenda was fine and it's that girl Well, yes, he was but not not the Marlon Brenda and and the island of dr Monroe, that's how I remember him the island of dr. Monroe you with some damn cheetahs and and and and uh That was a weird ass movie y'all Have y'all ever seen that the island of dr. Monroe Monroe? That was so weird as Monkeys walking around with titties and stuff. I'm sorry. I may have to watch that movie after this Just to laugh at that fully. So anyway, um Um Richard prior was bisexual at least he I don't think he necessarily Considered himself these people were fluid with their sexuality. So, um, such a loss I love that he told it how it was, you know, he he did not hold back A lot of white people couldn't handle that they really couldn't I don't think they meant I like a lot of white people couldn't handle that I think that a lot of a lot of celebrities also Distanced themselves from him because of that because he was like that, you know, I mean not all of them But a lot of a lot of celebrities dead Hold on. Nikki's calling me Hey girl, it's my niece bunny. Why are you home? Baby, it's my screen. I on hold on Now can you see me? Look at my babies. See you bunny. Y'all. Sorry about that. My baby's called me. Oh Yeah, it's so funny. Like my niece and nephew um There are just to get off not to get off subject. There are like Six or seven No, yeah about five or five of us cousins that had kids all in the same year girl And my niece and JB or three months apart and when I tell you she looks exactly Like my sister. I think of course JB looks like me, but I think that if he was a girl That would have been my twin Like when I tell you this baby looks so much like my sister. It's scary. It's literally scary. Um Okay, y'all so what I'm watching on tv. Sorry, so um top of the lake Absolutely phenomenon. It stars the actress that plays in the handsmaids tale. Um, I forget her name She's you know what I like about her is that Hollywood has put this almost um She breaks through the barriers because she is not your stereotypical Uh, beautiful actress. You know what I mean? She's not tall. She's not super skinny. Um, she's you know She basically has made her. Um, hold on y'all This is Vivian Y'all I keep getting So sorry, I keep getting interrupted y'all that but this was work. I mean, I'm technically a working home This was work and I'm putting out a mini fire So let me make this hurry up and make this Quick so what I'm watching on tv Laura y'all top of the lake great show. Like I said has a woman Uh from um handmaid's tale I'm now on season two again, and it's called top of the lake and it is on hulu Um good girls speaking of good girls. Um, they better give me what I want So it looks like we're taking a break from good girls And I guess the new episode should be up today. So I need to go ahead and watch that I am digging real. Um, I did see like a Thread or something when I'm talking about make sure that you sign the attention for good girls to stay on And I guess are threatening to cancel it y'all but It's okay. This season was okay is okay so far um Jacobs ladder Now this one is with what is his name with the pretty eyes from four upper shop. Y'all know I'm bad with a name Michael E. Lee Michael, you know y'all Michael E. Lee is very private. I don't blame this asshole girl Michael E. Lee playing is he playing the um Guy with PTSD or I think his brother comes back but something follows him so Well starting to watch that didn't finish it, but I think I will go ahead and finish that one I saw speaking of the things following him. I saw the preview for the conjuring um The conjuring part three which I love the conjuring one and two but y'all I can only watch those shows Those type of shows so many times and after that I get too scared. I'm like no, I can't I can't be doing this girl Um, anyway girl. I'm I'm just so random handmaid's tail I know that it's a bit much but I'm telling you guys if you can get past it some of the scenes It is a very good series and so um I'm not gonna give any spoilers away, but I feel like june is slowly losing it. I really do She's she's losing it. So yeah Um, what did I say? Okay? Yeah, so I'm married to medicine, but there was something that I wanted to say about the conjuring three There was something I wanted to bring up y'all that was kind of like I don't know girl, but that is it y'all this chitchat is all over the place I need to get back to work or pick my baby go pick me up some chicken and that order So that is it if you want to thank you so much for watching. Take care. Bye