 What does she argue about well every little thing if you sit down in a long chair or something like that Doesn't like the stuff he gets to See have you always tried to please her yes Always tried to please her he's to clean her house for them. That's a small well Now why do you think she argues like that? She doesn't try to control a template. I see Mm-hmm. How about your father? He's a swell guy. He's a swell father. It gets kind of hot tempered Since my mother's been sick, it's lost a lot of money He's lost a lot of weight about worrying. I see my mother. I guess letters. You must know where the money is I don't care about that. I think turns out. All right. Well now this jumping. What does that make you think of? Think about it. I Can't help it just jumps How about the legs? You know anybody had any trouble with her legs like no, sir Come on several seven years ago. There was one fellow He had something wrong with his right leg Watering to me, but he's walking today. That hasn't bothered me. Is that anything like your life? I Don't know. He couldn't walk at all. He couldn't walk at all What do you think of when you can't walk like that? What do you think of it comes to your mind when you find you can't walk? It's maybe I think my mother thought it should be okay. Sometimes I wonder what warrants so Things like that. I see a particular Now the shakes are going out. Yeah, how about your legs? They're good and strong Move them. Let's raise them. Oh, I don't see the reason before but I can't walk. How about them now? They feel all right if you're good now, isn't even walking with you don't they? Toes feel numb, but that's going your way, isn't it? Yeah Raising them fine, isn't it? Yeah, now you're gonna be able to walk aren't you? Well, you're going to aren't you? Yes, sir. All right You love walking always been very fun to walking now you found yourself unable to walk now you're gonna get right up and walk Right now. All right now. Let's sit up Here you are, that's fine All right, don't stand up Look at that All right, now walk out here. Walk over to the nurse all by yourself. That's the boy Walk over to the nurse. You're just a little woozy. That's the medicine. I'll come back to me Come back to me. Hope your eyes. That's the boy That's mine. No wonder for sure. All right now again. What's more? Oh, it's going to stay that way It's going to stay because that's taking care of your worry now All right now come on back to me and I'm gonna let you go to sleep when you wake up You'll keep on walking perfectly well. How about it? Thanks, right? All right, now let's get up in here and go to sleep I'm gonna have you go right to sleep when you wake up. It'll be all right All right sleep Joradi The fact that he can walk now does not mean that his neurosis has been cured that will require time But the way has been opened for the therapy to follow Now a new way of living begins very different from the old one whose purpose was killing and trying not to be killed Now in an environment of peace and safety all the violence behind them They are building rather than destroying Men have their choice of occupational therapy Some find relaxation in mechanical jobs Certain types of cases obtain relief and precision work which answers their inner need for order and certainty For sons and daughters and nieces and nephews and neighbors kids Hobby horses are turned out by the car alone Physical reconditioning is not the only purpose in sports Which also serves to bring men out of their emotional isolation and back into group activity One of the most important procedures is group psychotherapy Here under the psychiatrist's guidance the patient learns to understand something of the basic causes of his distress As one of a group he also learns to understand that his inner conflicts are with variations common to all men And I think of it a little bit like this We want to get you out of your own feeling of isolation To get you to feel that you are like other people In order to get to that We have to use knowledge as one thing and Something else which has to be added that is an experience of safety You could say it is almost a core of all our treatment methods Development of knowledge of oneself with the accompanying safety that brings I'd like to see if we can get some illustrations of how One's personal safety would stem from childhood safety And how the childhood safety self would stem from the parents safety And my illustration as a child Whenever I underwent any experiences that were frightening to me. I never told my parents I kept it to myself while I was alone at night my role might go on good Well, I did anything wrong. I was ashamed of I was ashamed to go to my parents and tell them What I had done so I kept it to myself And I used to I know I used to be in constant fear that my parents would find out my feelings Well, I wonder if there's any of your mother's troubles that you would know about No, I'm another never Gave any of the children any part of the troubles that would be the same thing that happened to you She didn't tell her troubles. You didn't tell yours You took your troubles to God and she probably did the same thing probably didn't even find in your father In other words the kind of method that you use to get relief from anxiety was really we'd have to assume Learned and felt right in your home the same kind of thing I think it's all caused by They cannot conditions the world. I mean people try to Compete one another trying to get a better job trying to keep up with Uprising living things like that of course a lot of arguments in the home Well before I think about the price of the food and has been flexed on the children things of that So I think that was one of the cause of worship not having enough food to eat for the arguments between I mean, there was which was the worst Well, I just can't I just sure they've crossed the as I can There you are. You can't even remember about the food or the lack of food. I have in mind my own childhood We're Moderate in the sense that the family had some sense of security What happened there was we were told that We I mean my myself my brothers and sisters we couldn't just play with any of the kids who wanted to play with Unless their parents in turn had the equivalent of what our parents had and as a result We were kept in a narrow circle very very narrow however I have found that there has been a strong yearning with my part to break out of this environment To be able to play with taunted and happy. I say the net results like this Your mother did not feel really so superior She felt inferior when she tried to make you take the attitude You were better than the other children so that now in certain experiences in the army have brought that out more clearly Because you've been thrown in with Tom and Harry. I need to get along with that It's not necessary to be in the army. It's not necessary to be in the war These kind of troubles have always gone on in all time through all the centuries I'm never spoke until I was seven Yes, and I started very bad at 14 and 15. I couldn't recite in school Can you explain how you get started to talk how you began to get over that? Doing doing the war the first word I ever spoke Psychos is brought me on a walking on my brother broke it Not really get my gun I Was I just says wall dick somebody's both my son. That's the first thing I say You're angry because someone broke your gun. So I would say all those symptoms Like being unable to speak Stuttering so on they have an underlying anger and resentment In the deeper parts of the personality you could almost say it like this underneath. I can't You usually find I won't As soon as I came here You've stopped studying completely since you came here. That's good I don't know whether that's a tribute to the doctors or a tribute to your fundamental health No tribute to the doctors at all