 This is what a lot of you do. We people bond oftentimes through their experiences. And this is a different form of trauma bonding. You're bonding through the traumas you've had in your life. But that's not really getting to know someone. All you're doing is getting a recap of their past. Now, this is critically important to get a recap of the past. I'm not saying that, but actually going deeper. How did you heal from this experience? And my suspicion is this person had no healing.