 Hi, she was seven. I'm back. Yes. How do y'all like my hair? Do I look cute? Well, I Have this wig on for a reason This video is gonna be about how to create an online dating profile I know a lot of women have to date online and I'm gonna give y'all some tips and rules on how to create a Profile that will represent you properly. Okay, first of all Y'all know I look good, right? But this is not how I look on the daily This is not how I look normally, right? So I would not put a picture of myself That looks like this as my main profile picture. Why? Because this is not who I am Okay, this is not what I look like on the daily basis So ladies use a picture That looks like you on a day-to-day basis a current picture that represents what you look like in real life try to use as Less filtering as possible because Sometimes that filtering will take away a few years and some guys Will be like, okay, she looked like she was 25 and then when I met her She looked 45 and I'm not down to anybody who's 45 I'm just saying some guys thought they were getting a younger or young looking woman and they had You know goat, you know, they had went to meter and she looks older than them So we need to stop the filtering on the profile pictures We need to put a correct representation of ourselves on the profile picture because if someone saw this and They wanted to meet me and I came with my black curly hair And probably a lot less makeup on Then they're gonna be disappointed, you know, they're gonna be mad. They might not call me back They're gonna be like, okay. Well, I thought I was getting a blonde bombshell and I'm You know, but I got the curly hair Lady that I don't even like color, you know, I love my color. Yeah, I would never I would never Got my hair blonde. Just so y'all know So and not nothing against the blondes blondes are beautiful. This just I love myself, you know, okay, so the next thing you want to do is Take a bunch of pictures you need a body shot because sometimes we all take pictures from the neck up and I'm guilty of this The only reason it's hard for me to take full pictures is because I'm so damn tall That's why I invented the selfie stick y'all use it Okay, get yourself a selfie stick and take a picture of what you look like for real because you might be Too tall for them too skinny for them to this for them to that for them And then you're gonna waste all this time getting to know someone and you're not even their type. Okay men have types and That's where, you know, the disappointment sets in when you meet in person You're not even my type. I like, you know, I like thin I like thick I like tall. I like, you know, this I like that and I didn't see and don't put a old picture when you were skinny Or when you had gained weight use the most current picture you have. Okay Next how you dress if if you dress very nice ladylike and feminine and You know casual You're not gonna be treated like a hoochie a whore a slut Someone to just Use and throw away You have to represent yourself as a classy lady with a lot of class Nice clothing not showing everything because as soon as a man goes on Online to see women he wants to date and he sees cleavage and tight clothes and bunch of makeup. He's thinking sex He's not thinking girlfriend or future partner. He's like, oh, that's a good one to have sex with So you don't want to look like that on your dating profile You want to be covered up completely You want a nice casual body shot of you in some decent clothes that aren't too revealing or too tight Okay, you don't want all your pictures to be at the club or out drinking you want your pictures to be like You know in cool places like, you know a park or you know Maybe a restaurant or maybe somewhere that's not too you know Like you're always out and about meeting people make it look like, you know, you're comfortable at home Out in a restaurant, but you're not all about clubbing and meeting people and just partying, you know Guys don't like to see that Okay, I'll show an intellectual side like if you got if you have the option to show more photos You know, show yourself reading show yourself doing some arts and crafts or whatever you like to do Jewelry-making so let them know that you have a hobby and you have a focus in life and you have talent and skills, you know Yes show your teeth if you got messed up teeth They need to know that because you can smile like this And then as soon as they see you they're gonna see all of this and that's gonna turn them off And they're gonna be like, okay Well, I thought you know, I don't know what So make sure they see your teeth because Sometimes, you know, people like to hide things online and then they have to meet you just show them before you waste your time in your gas money, okay? And some people might think a gap is cute I know I have a little gap some people think it's cute some people say oh you need to fix your teeth I say well, I'm gonna show you what I got and you don't like it and bounce, okay? so always show your teeth because Especially guys guys do this more than women guys will not show their teeth and then when you meet them They got like jacked up teeth or gold too many gold teeth and or Missing teeth or whatever. Okay, yellow teeth Show your teeth on your hurrah, okay And the next thing you need to do like when you write in your profile What you're looking for don't ever say you're looking for a husband just say I am looking for a life partner a best friend Don't say I'm looking for Man, I'm looking for a sugar daddy. I'm looking for this. I'm looking to say I'm looking for a best friend. I'm looking for a future Life partner or something like that. Don't ever say I'm looking for marriage because that scares a lot of men away Don't ever say I'm looking for a sugar daddy because that's like gold digger alert And they figure you do that with everybody just say I'm looking for a best friend Who likes who's generous and in nature? Loving kind sweet, but make sure you have generous up in there. Okay? It doesn't have to be the first word can be like the last word because most guys Aren't gonna go about what you put first and then you know generous can be last But make sure it's in there so that they know that you're not gonna be paying for dinner. Okay? Say you like traditional Old-fashioned Gentleman if you don't want to pay for your date. Okay. I like the traditional Old-fashioned gentlemen That's gonna let them know right there. You're not for the okie-dok. Okay, that means they have to come correct with you If you got kids Don't put that you have kids or that you don't have kids that don't put picture of your kids up Okay, let them meet you first and then let them ask you if they ask you online on your profile Then you just say yes, I do. Okay, but don't put photos of your kids Don't say that you have kids. Why because sometimes people will swipe past you or click past you Just because you have kids and they will not get to know you They don't know your situation But once someone gets to know you then then they can decide, okay Well, do I want to deal with a woman with kids? Don't let them pre-judge you because you have kids Okay, plus, you know a lot of guys will you know They'll target women with kids because they think they're easier and that they'll they're desperate So don't ever put that you have kids. Okay, and unless they ask you don't put it on your profile. Okay? That's that's that's an important one and it's sad But that's just the way that you're gonna be treated equally to the other ladies. Okay Now or if you don't if like if it's this education income, I know some of these places I mean like online profiles like education income Just like ask me don't don't put it on there. Just say ask me or self-employed or You know just say ask me don't ever put all your business out because that takes away your mystery You need to tell these people this if you choose for them to know. Okay, so Just putting that out there. Anyway Also Choosing someone online you need to check all the same things the teeth the most recent picture You need to ask as many questions as you can and you need to be very observant of the type of people that Are on here because some of them are crazy. Yeah, I'm serious But remember do not put this as your profile picture if this is not what you look like. Okay? I Just you know, you're gonna attract the wrong type of people and you're gonna waste a lot of time If you change your hair often put different hairstyles on each picture so that they know that they're getting a chameleon, okay? All right. Thank y'all so much for watching thumbs up if y'all have something to add to this How about your worst online dating experience if you want to put that in the comments? I would love to read them because I just I think it's hilarious. Sometimes y'all stories are crazy and Quite entertaining to me. So go ahead and put them in the comments and I'll see y'all later. All right. Bye