 Hey Psych2Goers, welcome back! Ever wondered what signifies in making one seem attractive? Do you think you're not good looking enough, smart enough, or interesting enough for people to like? Whoa. Stop. Right there. Chances are, despite being able to rate others attractiveness, you can't make accurate enough measures of your own attractiveness. Oh yes. Truly. And though it's only natural to wonder what other people think of you in terms of looks and personality, sometimes your own self-doubts and insecurities keep you from seeing just how much those around us actually like and admire us. So if you're one of those people who have a bad habit of putting themselves down and underestimating themselves, then we are here to prove you wrong. Here are 7 signs to look out for that mean people secretly find you attractive. 1. They like to look at you Ever been the one to send longing stares at your crushes while you think they aren't looking? Or have you been at the receiving end of one of those dreamy gazes? Chances are, if you have been, you probably took it the wrong way. Because when people tend to stare at you and pay special attention to you, it makes you feel awkward and self-conscious. So much so that you start to wonder if there's something weird about the way you look or how you're dressed. But if you notice people looking at you a lot, it may be because they secretly find you attractive. 2. They enter your personal bubble Do they seem to have a problem of always invading your personal space? Are you annoyed when people take liberties with your personal space? But hey, this doesn't necessarily have to mean something bad. Whether they're good friends or just acquaintances, people gravitate towards you a lot. Strangers sit close to you on the bus or the train. People often greet you with hugs and warm touches, and everyone you talk to seems to lean in and try to get as close as possible when you speak. According to a study, all of these examples are nonverbal cues that signify romantic or platonic attraction. Isn't that kind of sweet? 3. They seem flustered by you Have you heard of good stress? Wait, what? Stress and good? But here's the thing. According to psychology, feeling attraction towards another person often triggers a feeling of good stress within us. And this good stress is what causes us to have nervous reactions, like fidgeting, stuttering, laughing a lot, walking awkwardly and stroking the back of our neck, or feeling at a loss for words. Sound familiar? If people often seem flustered, nervous or intimidated by you, it could very well be because they're attracted to you and are trying their best to hide it. How cute! 4. They often come up to talk to you Are they constantly vying for your attention? Do they always make a beeline for you whenever they spot you out and about? If so, are you reeled in effortlessly by their witty and interesting conversation? When we feel attracted to someone, it makes us want to talk to them and spend more time with them. They want to flirt with you, banter with you, share stories with you, make you laugh and have fun, interesting conversations with you. How nice is that? 5. They rarely compliment you Yeah, it sounds counterintuitive, but hear me out. In reality, when other people think you're attractive, they'll rarely compliment you anymore. Why? Well, because they assume that everything good that they find about you, you already know. Did you dress up in a cute new outfit today? Or impress yourself by giving an important presentation? Those who already find you attractive will most likely just give you an apathetic acknowledgement. Like, you look nice, or... Oh, good for you! And nothing more, because they think that you're aware of your own attractiveness and don't need any reminding about it. 6. They're surprised by your insecurities Absolutely. They're caught off guard every time you talk yourself down or open up about something you don't like about yourself. This is because, from their point of view, someone as attractive as you shouldn't be insecure about anything. Think about it. Who's the most attractive person you know? Do you think they have anything they should feel insecure about? No, right? Well, the truth is everyone has insecurities and struggles with self-esteem from time to time. Attractive people aren't any different. 7. They act extremely towards you Finally, but perhaps most importantly, if you are an attractive person, people may display a more positive or negative attitude towards you than they normally would. Some people may become nicer and more polite, offering to do favors for you or being more understanding of your mistakes, for example, while others may feel jealous, insecure and resentful of your attractiveness. And so, feel like they have to compete with you for everything and tear you down by criticizing you or gossiping about you. Yikes. Focusing too much on all of your flaws and shortcomings keeps you from seeing all of the things that make you wonderful, great and unique. So it sure would help to take a page from everyone else's book and start to look at yourself through your most admirable qualities and characteristics a little more often. We hope we are able to give you insight into some of the signs that you can tell if someone finds you attractive. What do you think? Did we crack the code? Do any of these describe your experiences? Are you starting to realize that people may find you more attractive than they let on? Leave a comment down below and please feel free to share any thoughts you have as well. If you found this video interesting, be sure to hit the like button and share it with those out there musing over their attractiveness scale. 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