 Buddy, welcome to Psychic Medium, Tony Green Relationship Edition. So today we are going to discuss everything relationships. Yep, everything relationships. I will be taking callers, answering questions about love relationships, romance. I want one and done relationships if that's what you wanna talk about, whatever you wanna talk about today, relationship-wise, we are going to discuss it. I have a show that airs every Monday at noon live on YouTube and on many, many podcasts. It also gets re-streamed or streamed on Roku, Rude Rangers, TV and airs on WSCS. If for some reason the show goes over and you don't get to see the rest of the show on WSCS or whatever streaming station you're watching, please go to YouTube or my website and you'll be able to see the show. Okay, let's get started. I'm going to go to the first caller. When I call out your area code, please have a specific question ready for me and put your phone off of speaker and Bluetooth and your name and where you're calling from. That's a lot of instructions for people. Okay, five, two, zero. Five, two, zero. Oh my Lord, I'm so sorry. Where are you from? I'm from Canada. I normally do. I'm sorry, go ahead. I'm sorry. Go ahead, no, no, go ahead. Lisa, I'm here. Okay, and you? Hi. Oh, I was going to say, and your first name? Sorry. That's okay. Oh, Lisa. Lisa. Well, how can I help you today, Lisa? Drug. Yes. Yes. It's been about a month and a half at least that he has been back on them. He is not going to be honest about it. He is, obviously he is trying to hide it. He is, I hear the word confiscating, confiscating. That can mean a lot of different things for a lot of different reasons. I do feel like he is going to have some, he's confiscating, or something's being confiscated. Something, okay, it's been, either he's been on them for at least a month and a half, or in a month and a half, something, no, you know what? He's been on them for a minimum of a month and a half again, and he is going to have some, something confiscated, and he is going to, it's all going to come open. It's all going to come open in approximately the three month mark. I need some YouTube because there's some background noise on your phone. So I'm sorry about that, but I'm going to finish answering your questions. Something is either something is going to be confiscated or he is going to be within three months or around the three month mark, it's going to be made public and you're going to know for sure. And I'm so sorry for what you're going through. It's a very difficult thing to go through. So I apologize for your suffering with him and the everything you're going through with him. Hey, I see Rude Rangers is, joins me on YouTube, Rudy, do you wanna jump in and take collars with me for this relationship Wednesday? What's your area code love? Is it the eight to eight? Is that you, Rudy? I hope he's listening and I'm not just talking. I think it's, I know his number starts with eight to eight or eight for eight. I don't remember. Rudy, if you wanna jump on and take collars with me, please call in and do it. The numbers eight, four, five, two, seven, seven, nine, one, three, one, Rudy. I know collars would love to get your perspective on things. Hey, Fawn, how are you and Steve? Thank you for joining and commenting on YouTube. I'm gonna go directly to the next caller who is 412. 412, how are you doing today? Kisha, and I'm calling from Pennsylvania. Hey Kisha, how can I help you today? Just came back around. I wanna know how he feels about me. Okay, I'm sorry. His name is Jamar and he just came back around again. Okay, so instantly I hear this song and I'm gonna get the words wrong and I apologize. What's that song? Come round the outside, round the outside, round the outside. Something sums up something, come round the outside. Okay, so that's the song and I'm sorry I cannot remember the words or sing it the way it's supposed to be sung. That is, somebody out there is going, oh my God, she just hella horrified that song. I'm gonna tell you, he is, I'm here, somebody up there is so comical. They're saying he's a player from the Himalaya. They are saying he's not serious at this point. He, and they are singing so many songs and I'm sorry but they're saying, let me love you down. And I know again, I cannot sing and I'm sorry but folks just bear with me through all the musicals they wanna put us through this morning. Oh my goodness. I wanna love you down or let me love you down but when it comes to full on commitment he can pull the trigger just not in a commitment. That's what I'm getting. He wants to be able to do that. He wants to be able to, he wants to, I don't even know if he wants to. Here's what I'm gonna say. Here's what I'm gonna say. We're gonna walk past that, doink, doink, step past that whole situation with him and I'm gonna tell you that in end of February, beginning of March and I see March 2nd on the calendar. Now this doesn't mean it's gonna happen exactly on this day. This might be the day that something opens up that allows it to come in. Somebody brand spanking, boom, boom, brand spanking news coming into your life and they are going to be, they're gonna be kind of what you're looking for is what I'm hearing but sometimes we have to really pass that test of I'm ready to let go of the old, all the old, I'm ready to take the training wheels off of the bike, I'm ready to do all of that and move on to something brand new. I'm done with the comfort zone, the old slippers with the holes in them, I'm finally throwing them in the garbage. I don't care how comfortable they are, I'm just letting them go and I'm moving on. What your angels are asking me to remind you, there's a reason this didn't work out the last go round and you have to go back and think about all of those reasons and then just like hit skip, hit skip and go to the next one. This is not going to end the way you want it to or the way he is saying it might or the way you think it might, whatever perceptions you have, they might be a little bit flawed and it's time for something brand spanking new. The new person coming in has a professional career and professional career can just mean something they've been trained in like, for example, it can be somebody who repairs computers or cars, it doesn't mean somebody who's running an office or works in an office, it's somebody who is a professional and they're very up and up and up and coming and they have their poop in a group and they are ready for a full on commitment. Now, if that's what you're ready for, the two of you will mesh perfectly and somebody on the other side and I feel like it's a grandmother, she is stepping in and she has a male next to her so I feel like that's a grandfather and they're saying it's time to, oh, the way she said it the first time was so good, I wish, okay, say it again, say it again. She's saying, oh my God, she's not saying it the way she said it the first time but she's saying, let go of lousy, let go of lousy. I'm like, oh my God, okay, I will say what they say. These are my words folks, don't get upset with me, these are not my words, I don't even know dude, I don't know if he's lousy or not but she is just saying like, it's time for you to move into something new and something filled with joy, like, so, okay, again, I'm gonna say, March 2nd, which happens to be, I think my sister's birthday, yep, yep, my sister's birthday, March 2nd, you have the potential to meet somebody on or around that date. Now, if you don't meet them exactly on that date, it might be a little bit after that, like I also see the 15th, so maybe you meet them on the 2nd or something opens up in you for it to be able to move forward on the 2nd and then by the 15th, you should be in that space where everything is like kind of flowing and moving forward. Now, somebody else is gonna come in February, this is not your person either, it's another test. The person who comes in beginning to mid-February is another test person and I do believe it's somebody from your past also. The person coming in that is brand new, the brand new person that has their life together, that's the one that has the best potential for you at this time, okay, sweetie? All right, thank you so much. You are so welcome and I hope this was helpful. Thank you, people, so that's good, yeah. Do you know what, a lot of us do because it is comfortable, but at some point, we, you know, it's like a merry-go-round. If we want something new, we have to get something new because until people heal, they can't come around as a better person. Even if we wanna see or think they're a better person, they're not gonna come around until they get some perspective. Just because they got older, it doesn't mean they got better. Not everybody's fine wine, right? Some people are just open beer going flat. That's all there is to it. Get rid of, you know, here's one thing that you really, I tell this to everybody and I'm going to say it again, make three lists, okay? And this is not about manifesting, it's about understanding what you want, what you deserve and just understanding what it is. The first list is what do you really want a man to show up like in a relationship? Like how should he behave in a relationship? How do you feel what is a healthy, what are healthy behaviors for a man to have in a relationship? And then the second list is, what do you want this relationship to look like? What are the things you wanna be able to do and go in and have? And what does a healthy relationship even look like to you? Because we've all been through so many dysfunctional relationships and dysfunctional upbringings that we don't always even know what a healthy situation looks like anymore. And if you don't know, that's okay, get a book or listen to an audio book and figure out what is healthy. And then third, how do you show up as healthy in a relationship? Because we also tend to fall back into those old patterns of past relationships. Like we have, this is who I am with my best friend, this is who I am at work, this is who I am with my clients, this is who I am with the man who shows up in my life. Okay, we have to stop playing those roles and figure out what's healthy and how we need to present ourselves moving forward in order to get that better relationship. And sometimes we need to define these things outside of what we've already experienced. And until we define it outside of what we've already experienced, we can't bring something new in, okay? So I am going to be a clearing right now for a healing or a clearing for everybody listening, re-listening. And it's at about the 15 minute mark. We are ready for a healthy, loving relationship. I get a no, we're going to start clearing that. So if you feel like a dizziness, pressure in the chest, difficulty breathing, that's just energy moving out all. How could I say? What else can I say? I'm ready for love. We are ready for love. I get a no, so we're going to clear that, okay? So I hope this was helpful. I look forward to hearing back. Thank you. Oh, you're so welcome. And I look forward to hearing back from you once you meet the good guy. And we can discuss that also, okay, love? Thank you so much. You are so very welcome. Thank you. Okay, I'm going to go directly to the next caller who is 828. 828, how are you today? Excellent. Good morning. Okay. Hi, Stan. Thanks for calling in. How can I help you today? Okay, so let's hone it in a little bit. Let's hone it in a little bit because this is kind of a whole story and I need a solid question. And here's what I'm going to tell you. Based on what you've told me so far, don't make decisions based on, okay, so let me just, let me back up a little bit. First and foremost, yes, when it comes to legal matters and you're already separated with someone else, unless you're an attorney, don't try to do it yourself. And let me tell you, I know attorneys who have gone through divorces that have hired attorneys, okay? They are attorneys and they hire attorneys because it's emotional. And if you don't know the law and some people can do a pro se, some people can go in and handle, but both people have to be on the same page and in agreement and can't be manipulative. Somebody in this situation is being extremely manipulative and thinking only of them. So just point blank. It doesn't matter who gets yourself an attorney, make sure you're protected and your rights are protected. Second, you know, you need to be a little, you should, moving forward, it's really important that you consider what's best also for your son and what his future is going to look like, regardless of the adults that are in his life. And I know sometimes that's really difficult, but that's really where your focus and your priority should be, okay, love? Nope. Okay, so here's the deal, folks. I have a call log full of people. When you call in, you have a question ready and that, as much as I appreciate every single caller and every single listener, sometimes, and I know you can call me a bee, you can say whatever you wanna say or not like it or whatever. I'm okay with that. I'm okay with that. But I can't let somebody come in and like do that. Have a question ready and let's get into it and let's answer that question and let's keep it going. Not only for me, but for everybody listening also. I'm going to go to the very next caller, 203. 203, how are you today? Hello? Oh, 203, just got, we just lost, 203, let's go to that. She went to say hi and I think her phone call dropped, so let's go to 951. I'm so sorry about that, 203, call back 951. How can I help you? What's going on with you today? What's your name? Hey, Nathaniel, happy New Year. So today is Relationship Wednesday, Nathaniel. What relationship question do you have for me? I'm sorry, if you're going to see Angie again. Yeah, I hear you're going to see her and you're going to see her sooner than you think. It's, what I also hear is don't have a lot of expectations, just enjoy it. Just enjoy whatever it is and move forward at what they're calling a very calm pace. Okay, Nathaniel? Well, I'm hearing that you're going to see her again. Do they run into each other? Nope, yeah, I feel like she is going to reach out. Give it a little bit of time, but I do feel like she is going to reach out to you and you guys will connect in that way. And possibly in other ways also, okay, love. Happy New Year, Nathaniel and thank you for being a loyal listener and calling in all the time. Thank you, my pleasure. Okay, I see two zero three has come back on. Hopefully this is the same two zero three. Nathaniel, thank you for finding me again. Yeah. I don't know if you heard anything or just did I get cut off right away? Actually, you did. The only thing I heard was hi and then it was over. So yeah, how can I help you? Oh my goodness. Well, I put in a big blurb for you. I said if anybody's considering a reading with Kodi, absolutely do it because it'll only make you want another one, you give 110% in future if you say one. Thank you, that's really kind of you. Well, okay, so ultimately this question is a relationship with myself, but I have a hard time understanding my relationship with friends and people. I put on my manifestation list this year, new friends, friends that appreciate me, blah, blah, blah. And then within two days I'm in a conflict with a friend and I'm looking at my actions, my anger, my want to walk away and wondering what's my insight towards the other person. I question myself, I don't really have a clue about if you could tell me what happened with the relationship. That's a quick thing that would give me insight, but it's ultimately with me. What am I doing as far as relationships? Is it desired income and my sincere, do I just get hurt because I'm not picking the friendship, blah, blah, blah? Okay, so thank you, thank you for the question. And here's what I'm going to say to you. You know, 2021 was a lot of turmoil, conflict, letting go of what doesn't work in our life. And when we put out there like, I want a new job, I want new friends, I want a new, I want my, what happens is let's just, let's go with the new job one and you can use it as an analogy. I want a new job. Well, you have to start looking for that new job and the old job is going to start to fall apart. So when you put out there, I want new friends that are in alignment with this. Sometimes you have to let go of the old energy and I am going to use it as energy. We get stuck in these things with people, whatever they are. And they, let's just say, we have to let go of all of that energy of the friends we have now or the old friends before we can let in higher vibration friends or higher vibration frequency people. And in between the old and the new, we might have a period of time where we are alone, where we can self reflect and we can raise our own personal vibration or frequency or get in touch with where we want to be and who we want to be and what we want that to look like so that we can match what's coming in. So what I want to say to you is during this time, if conflict happens, just let it go, let the people go and allow yourself to, yes, do the reflection that you're doing. Don't beat up them. Don't beat up you. Not everybody's meant to stay in our life forever. Not, people are just not meant to be, not everybody is meant to be with us forever. So knowing that we can let go of some things that maybe aren't meshing with us as we move into what will mesh with us. Now, one thing that I am getting is, we are all very, we're repeating dysfunctional patterns from everything in our life and all of us are doing it. I don't care who you are, how educated you are, how anything you are. So what I'm gonna do now is I'm gonna say, we are dysfunctional, I get a yes. So we're gonna start clearing the dysfunction out and healing that because then we can move forward in a healthy, loving way and we can have healthier, more loving relationships, which is always the goal. Thank you again. Have an absolutely amazing rest of the week.