 Hey everyone, I'm out here at the Breckenbeegans, coming to you live right now. I just checked out two really great waterfalls down there, but unfortunately I can't show them to you because it's so deep in the forest that there isn't good signal down there. But there is another waterfall down here, a bit of a smaller one, which I should be able to show you, and also I will have pictures or videos of the other two waterfalls on my Instagram very soon. You can follow me on Noxviver YouTube on Instagram. This is a Q&A live question and answer, so if you have any questions please send me a superchat, so then your your question will stand out amongst the comments and also it's good. We give out value and we receive value in return, so just send a superchat of any amount if you have a question and I'll be sure to answer it for you with a detailed response. We're just coming down to a waterfall down here. I pass it on the way up, it's quite a nice little one. If you have any questions please send me a superchat, so then your question will stand out. You can send a superchat of any amount. I can show you this little waterfall live. Maybe I can get a better shot of you. There were much bigger waterfalls further down there, but as I said I can't take you down there because there's not really any signal. But I will have pictures or videos of the two waterfalls that were further down there on my Instagram very soon. You can follow me on Narc Survivor YouTube. I've just been out here now for probably the last couple of hours, just enjoying the nature, enjoying the birds and the waterfalls. If you have a question please use the superchat to make good donation and I will provide you with a detailed response on your question. Or if you are a member of the channel I will also answer those questions as well. Delicate Lace asks why do Narc's advertise a new supply? The main reason why the Narc is going to advertise the new supply is for supply. It's to get attention. They're going to get attention from people if the new supply is physically attractive or successful and they're also going to get supply from here in you. So you can be sure that those are the two reasons why there will be uploading pictures and videos to their social media accounts of the new supply. It's to get both positive and negative attention. They like to think that people are envious and jealous of them when really they're the ones who are envious and jealous of everyone and also if the new supply looks relatively good or they're successful or whatever naturally that might attract some people into giving them admiration especially people who don't really know what the Narcist or the new supply are really about. I hope that was a helpful response to your question. Delicate Lace, any other members of the channel feel free to ask a question. If you are not a member of the channel please make a donation through the super chat and I will then provide you with a detailed response to your question. By becoming a member of the channel or making donations through the super chat it allows me to reduce the amount of ads in future videos because you will then be supporting the channel and the channel needs support to keep it running. I invest a lot of my time energy and money into this channel. It's my full-time job now. It's my purpose in life to provide this information to survivors all around the world to raise your spirits and prevent you from being involved with any more narcissists in the future. Yeah I did hear a birdchip in there. There's a lot of interest in birdchip. I got a question from Jenna. Met with two narc sisters after ten years fall out and met for sake of our kids who never met. It went well. They want to meet again how to avoid fall out. I can tell you how to avoid a fall out with them. I always want to provide you with the raw truth. Now the truth is if you meet them again and you want to avoid another fall out you basically have to comply with their demands. You have to do whatever they want you to do. You cannot bring up any truth or reality that they don't want to reflect on because that will cause a narcissist's injury or make them angry at the very least and then they will turn against you. They don't want anything to do with anyone who brings up certain parts of them that they don't like. If you want to remain around these kinds of people to validate the false self and the illusion that they are portraying to you of the person that they want to be. The image that they want to display to you. If you can't do that there will be a fall out at some point. So although that may not be the answer that you want to hear it's the raw truth that I'm giving it to you there. So I hope that helps and I hope things go well for you with your two narc sisters. Melissa Kay asks what can be done about the self-blame left in the aftermath and processing wondering what were my own issues. It's completely normal to blame yourself. The narc was blaming you the entire time I bet. So it's only natural that we begin to blame ourselves but you have to identify that you weren't all to blame. You actually played a very small part in it but at the same time we have to acknowledge that we do play a part in it. We have to be responsible so it doesn't happen again and the part that we played was in overlooking the red flags at the beginning of the relationship. If you look back you will see some things that they said or did. There was sometimes where they cross your boundaries. They said or did something that you didn't like but you still wanted to continue the relationship with them. So that's where we have to take responsibility. So that doesn't happen again and in that sense is actually very healthy to feel guilt unlike the narc's. We want to be responsible. We want to acknowledge our issues but as I said the issues that we had during the relationship were very minimal compared to the narc. Thanks for the super chat Caroline. Dorothy to become a member of the channel. You just click the join button underneath the video. Anyway that's all I've got for you for now. We do have a premiere tonight starting very soon so I hope you can join us in that and then there will be another two premieres tomorrow. But I hope you enjoyed that little walk with me through the Breckham Beacons. It was great having you with me to share that experience and I hope we can do this again very soon. Thank you all for joining. Hopefully I'll see you in the premiere. If you are planning on joining us. Thanks again. Talk to you all very soon.