 Charity begins at home. Justice begins next door. Charity has left the home. She left the home when she decided that the critical task of raising your child to be a decent human is someone's health's responsibility. Charity has left the home because we are now raising children without discipline, without instruction, without direction, without boundaries, and ultimately without a conscience. Charity left the home the day you chose that meeting, that appointment, that event, that friend, that similar or gendered line, over your child. And on that day you excused bad behavior for, oh, he's just a child. Oh yes, he is a child. And yes, badly behaved children become badly behaved adults, badly behaved parents. Listen, badly behaved children more often than not are the ones who become criminals, drug addicts, rapists, and murderers. So think about it next time you make an excuse for that child and say, oh, he's just a child. Child on child crime and abuse has carried over the past 20 years to as much as half the percentage of adult crime. Let me put that in context for you. For every two adults and there's a criminal, there is one juvenile child. I shudder at where that statistic will be in another 20 years if we do not take drastic actions starting today. I can see in my parents words as early as I remember saying, remember the son of whom you are. That phrase as simple as it was carried weight. Carried weight because they were not just referring to themselves as parents. By saying those words, they were opening a whole itself instruction, discipline, direction, and yes, home training. I mean, it's called home training for a reason. Many parents today look at their children in the eye. Sorry, let me say that again. Many parents today cannot look at their children in the eye and say, remember the child of whom you are because there is nothing to remember. They haven't done the hard work. Many children today are bad boys and bad girls and are celebrated for it. We must start to reprogram our kids to respect plain old decency in a world where good, bad, moral, and immoral have been heavily subjectivized. Without taking the responsibility away from schools, the task of raising a decent human is the primary responsibility of the parent. I repeat, the critical task of raising a decent and responsible human is the primary responsibility of the parent because if you don't raise your children right, somebody else will. In some cases, that's awarding the prison facility or other inmates. Social security is what I advocate for. Criminal legions must be truly criminalized. Parents must be held fully responsible for neglecting their roles and let's bring charity back home. At that point, just drop the mic and we'll... I mean, I don't know. I really think that what you have said is so true. You've hit the nail on the head and the question that comes to mind immediately is that where did we get it wrong? What is happening in the home? Where did it all go wrong? At what point? Yes, and I really think that maybe when we look at it, when you see the situation, is when they crush the desire for the finer things of life and how I don't want my children to suffer the way I suffered and how I want to give them a good life, all that stuff becoming the norm. But because when you talk to some parents and you're trying to tell them that, oh, this doesn't make sense or this shouldn't have done it, look at it like, what are you talking about? I mean, there was a time when I was in love with etiquette classes. And at some point, every time we say, we almost got that sense of, oh, really? Do they really need it? Well, maybe they need to learn how to use their fucking knife. And I'm thinking, do you think that etiquette about fucking knife alone really will take about behavior or social skills? And so do we, the parents don't think it's that important? So let me tell you something. So I left Nigeria at six years old. I went to boarding school at the age of six to the age of 18. My parents never relocated. They were here. I can tell you, every day of boarding school, my father was in my head. He had done that walk at six years old. To this day, the man is still inside my head. So it's really important in those initial, we call it the early intervention years in the special needs community. Those first six years, especially those first two to three, that you really impress the values on children because that is the time the brain is the most spongiest to understand, to absorb, and to be able to become part of their DNA. So it's really, really important that parents clue into this. You cannot leave your child for the nanny. Absolutely Niger. What I'm going to say, I was just thinking about something. You called the remer, it came to my mind. There are two things here. Parents should think about the future of their children. What kind of child do you want your, what kind of adult do you want your child to grow into? If you go to the, if you go to America, George Bush, George H.W. Bush, Betty, George W. Bush, do you know the amount of work he impacted in the life of his children? That he had one of his son, a governor and a president, another one, a governor, right? Do you think it was just because he was a president? That's why they became president? No. That was intentional parenting. And then the other aspect from, away from parenting, the school, those that go into education, I want to be a teacher. Many a time they don't go for the glory of teaching and impacting life. They go because of, oh, that's the work I really want. I just want to do it. I don't care. My only just to collect my money and leave it. Please. We need hello to talk. You hit a, you hit an issue. And I know how you're sitting there wanting to say something particular on this point. Yes. In fact, I think I love all of you. That's what I'm saying. You're all speaking my language. You know, I think it's really, really, really, I'm always one for trying to be against our home. And I, and I concur with Tonya because I also went to school in the UK and every time I wanted to make a wrong move, I would just remember my father. My father would tell me that he would kill me first before I would disgrace his family. That was his words. Do you understand? So I sit down in my quiet moment and I'm thinking the parents of these young boys who have now been identified as the suspects of killing this young man, what would those parents be going through? You see, it's a tragedy all round. It's a tragedy all round. Absolutely. And I'm very, very sure that if you look at it holistically, we have to mourn for both parties. Sylvester's parents have lost a child and five to six other parents are more or less going to lose their children as well. It's a very bad time. I had a total hit on something towards the end of his intro, which kind of hinted at, do you prosecute the parents? Like I kind of got that thing in terms of this, the ramifications for the parents security abroad. You know, I mean, if you're badly behave parents, they take your children from you. Well, in Nigeria, that might be in Nigeria, that might be a bit of a relief for them. Just take them. We should probably have those kind of things in place. I think it's a good time to have a moment of silence for the daily part of children over the last couple of years or whenever that's having victims of bullying or physical abuse. I mean, their souls rest in perfect peace. Well, time is never a friend on this program. 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