 Further, moving on, talking about the guidelines for therapy termination, there are the cases when we met unhappy clients. Terminating Therapy with an Unhappy Client Clients may terminate the relationship when there are certain issues like they are unhappy with the therapist's services. So, it is not always the case where the therapist is unhappy with the client, but there come certain cases in which we find that the client is not satisfied with the therapeutic services which are being provided by the therapist, objects to therapist's philosophy. Now, this is something very crucial to understand. Everyone has its own, you know, life philosophy. And when it comes into therapy and we get to know, discussion ke durmean, therapist ki jo life ki philosophy hai, wo uske therapeutic intervention ka ek part ban rahi hai, aur wo apni life ki philosophy ko endorse kara hai, clients ki life ke upar, whereas the client is not satisfied and is not aligned with that particular philosophy to vaha pe clash develop osha hai. And client will eventually become unhappy. For instance, agar client jo hai, wo ek bahut hi conservative aur ek bahut hi background family se belong katta hai, aur aisi hi thoughts wo rakta hai. Aur ek bahut hi liberal aur ek bahut hi past thinking ka therapist usko apni life ki philosophy se examples de rai, that in certain situations we might be doing this, this, this, but wo pati client ko pasan nahi aari, because wo unko morally, religiously, ethically aur society ke perspective mein righteous nahi samajta. Wo vaha pe life ki philosophies ka class jo hai wo emerge hoga aur us situation ke andar client therapist ki kisi bhi consultation se apni aap ko satisfied nahi kar saka, jaha basic philosophies hi differ kari ho, vaha pe jo consultation ka process hai usko align ya smooth rakna difficult ho jata hai. Accuses the therapist of wrong doing. So client kayaate ki je therapist ki toh zindagi ki sochi galata hai, wo toh baati galata hai. Toh aise process ki andar ek un happy client ke saath therapy nahi sustained ho sakti. If the client does not, the therapist must assess whether the relationship can continue or not. Aisi stage bhi aasakti hai ki ye baat client apni moose toh nahi batara, but wo ye feel kar hai. Toh ek ache therapist ka kaam hai ki wo iss baat ko assess kare, usko discuss kare, put table ke upar khe, ki points discuss kare aur fit decide kare, ki whether they can go together or not. When there are the serious disagreements between therapist and the clients, the relationship usually must end. So you can respectfully disagree that you just do not want to be in therapeutic relationship with a certain person. The following strategies may help in this case, avoid defensiveness, ye to her therapeutic relationship ko chaya sustain karna ya end karna. Defensive ho nahi toh ek ache therapist ka kaam hi nahi, the client is a customer and the goal of the therapy is to help and support them, not to defend yourself, not to protect your ego. So yaha par egoistic ho nahi ka toh kaami nahi hai ke mujhe rejection mil rahi hai ya mujhe koi kah rahi hai ke mai aapke saath aapki philosophy se agree nahi karta, rathar usko respect karna aur defensiveness huye bhaag hai to terminate karna is the rightiest thing. Listen to the client's feedback, since it may help you to be a better therapist. If we do not listen to someone's opinion, if we do not incorporate it, the chances of getting better in the future will be minimized. Explain why therapy must and without acquisition or blame. Kisi bhi acquisition or blame ke bhaighar therapy ho nahi chahiye aur agar uske andar yeh cheezin aad ho jaayin, toh wo toh woh hi srisla shuru ho jayga, jiski bhajya se therapy lene ke liye client aap ke puss aaya tha, kyunki usko life me bohot sari jingon par blame aur acquisition face karne pade hi, jinse wo cope nahi kar para tha. Agar bohi cheez therapy me bhi shuru ho jaayi ki toh fir us therapy ka objective hi patam ho jaayega. If the client accuses you of wrongdoing, take careful notes about the incidents and consider to record the termination in a letter. Agar client aap ke mooper batke saap pata raha hai ke aapne yeh ghalad kiya, yeh ghalad kiya, yeh ghalad kiya, just take it on a very serious note uske points likin uske notes likin, accept karna chaathe, accept karein, agar aap usse accept nahi karna chaathe usko ek termination letter issu karein that I am not a good fit for you, you can go and seek consultation from this very therapist. But the process should be very respectful, addressing the termination of the treatment is an important phase of the therapeutic process for termination to be handled properly, discussion between the therapist and the client should occur in advance and address in the thoughtful and a very sensitive manner, hi sara process bohat sensitivli, bohat hi protected way me, bohat open and fair way me, discus ho na chaayi ka ke iss termination ke result me koi aur nahi psychological disturbances na emerge uske.