 Hello everyone. Welcome to another NARC Survival Live video. In this one I have a very interesting topic for you. Something I've spoken about before but I haven't spoken about it for a while and I think I have some new insights to give to you in this video. So, it's very important that you listen carefully to the information that I have to share. It could be very helpful to you because as I said I will be outlining some points that I haven't made in previous videos as well. Before I begin, please remember to hit that thumbs up button down below so that it will help to get this message out there to other survivors as well. The narcissist never forgets you. Of course there are exceptions, especially the player type of narcissist. Many narcissists who are players, they may forget you quite easily. Some won't. But what I'm mainly talking about in this video is a narcissist who are in long term relationships. So you are with them for a considerable amount of time. And during that time you provided something to them. Your qualities, your abilities. You gave them a place to stay. You gave your money, your resources. You gave them a lot of things. And they won't just forget about that. They won't just forget about you. And in fact, even though it looks like they've moved on and they've found someone else, take a closer look at that person that they're with and then take a look at yourself because you may see some things that are similar. And again this could be in your physical appearance, your qualities or something that you provided to them. And then narcissists may also customize future sources to be like you. To look like you, to dress like you, to act like you. Because what happens is after they leave you, they search for you in someone else. But they never actually find you. Because of course there is only one you and that is you. But they look for you in someone else or they try to recreate you by using another person. And you become the measuring stick for everyone who comes after you. You set the bar. So how that narcissist looks at it is like, if I got this person to do this, this and that, then this next person should be doing that as well. If I got this person to provide this to me, then the next person should be providing that as well. And not only that, but as time goes on and the more sources that they run through, they expect a certain level of privileges and treatment in less and less time. And although the duration gets shorter, their expectations and demands become greater. So they expect more and more in less and less time the more sources that they run through. Because you see they have a void that can never be filled, they are never satisfied. So they are always desiring more and more. Just as when they were with you, the demands, the expectations seem to increase with time. You were running on this hamster wheel endlessly trying to please them. And not only that, but the abuse continued to escalate. It continued to get worse with time. The more time that you spent around them, the lower your value became in their rise. Because it's essentially like a drug addict. When they first met you, they had that initial high, that elevation, that euphoric feeling where it felt like they're on top of the world. And it likely felt that way when they first began to abuse you. But with time, it no longer did it for them and they needed more and more. And it just gets to this point where they're just chasing that initial feeling that they had the first time that they love bombed you, or the first time that they devalued and abused you. That is what they are chasing. Because I mean, you've got to think like if they love bombing someone or they're abusing them, and they're getting what they want, they're getting that feeling, that satisfaction, then that should mean that they shouldn't have to keep chasing it. I mean, they're clearly chasing something that they don't already possess, that they're not already getting, which reveals that they are not satisfied. Because if they were satisfied, then why would they need to continue doing it? And that means that yes, despite everything that they did to you, the ill treatment, the abuse, everything that they took from you, they weren't satisfied with any of that. And I know you must be thinking, how could they not be? I gave them my life, I gave them everything I had. But I can tell you, people who are narcissistic, who rob you of everything you've got, that's the whole point is that they do have a void that can never be filled. It doesn't matter what you did or what you gave to them. It's never enough. They never feel satisfied. And that is why even after they leave you, they just try to find someone else. They try to replace you. And even then, when they love bombing them at the very beginning, you would think if there's ever a time where they would feel satisfied, it would be then. But even then, when they love bombing the person in the very beginning, they are using them to triangulate them with you, to make you envious or jealous, because even in the love bombing phase, they are still not satisfied. And if they're not satisfied then, you should know that they are never going to be. So when you see them fall into their new source, it looks like they're living the best life without you. That's how you know how things are going to pan out. That's how you know that things are not going to get any better, because they're already using that new source to hurt you, which should reveal to you that they are not satisfied. They are not happy, because otherwise they just wouldn't even care. When a person is happy, they're satisfied, they feel no need to hurt anyone. They're just quite happy with what they've got, with what they're doing. They don't need to harm you, they don't need to do anything to you. But narcissists do, and it's because they're not happy or satisfied. If they were, then they would just leave you alone. And even when it looks like they've moved on, they're trying to recreate who you were to them and the situation that they had with you with someone else. That's all that they're really trying to do. They're searching for you and someone else, because you set the bar. You are the measuring stick for everyone who comes after you. As I said, there's only one you. They can't replace you. No matter how much they try to deny it, there is only going to be one you. There's never going to be another. And that's the thing, because even if they could replace you and find an exact clone, an exact copy of you, they still would not be satisfied because they were never satisfied with you to begin with. But you are the closest they've got. You are the closest they've got to them actually being happy. To them actually getting what they wanted. And of course you may wonder, how do I know that? I mean, that narcissists could have had so many sources. So why is it just you? How are you the best? How are you the one that they won't forget? Of course you may wonder that. And I know that you are the one that they will not forget. Even if they do forget everyone else, they will not forget you. And I know that because you are the one who is watching my videos. Which means that you quite clearly cared a lot about them. They mattered to you enough for you to search about narcissism on YouTube and find my channel and my videos. Which likely means that you cared more than anyone else. You're an empath. And empaths are very rare. It's very unlikely that they will find another one. So that is how I know that they will not forget you. And that they will not replace you. They're not going to find anyone else. Who can do even a fraction of what you did for them. Someone who even cares enough to want to do that. It's kind of funny when you think about it, because all of that time they took it for granted, they didn't even appreciate you. But yes, when they move on with the new source, it doesn't mean that they're happy or that they're satisfied. I did an interview with a diagnosed COVID narcissist. Just a couple of weeks ago, and I pressed him for information and even he said, he confessed that, yes, in the past he had, moved on into a situation with a new source, while knowing fully well that the person he had just left, knowing that that was actually a better situation. But because they have too much pride and ego, they just can't accept it, because they don't want to give you the satisfaction, they want to punish you, because they're feeling a lot of resentment. So even though they may be moving on into another situation with a new source, that doesn't mean that they're confident about that situation. That doesn't mean that they don't feel any regrets. They can feel their regrets and still move forward with it anyway. But even then, when I say regrets, it's not like they're feeling bad for what they did to you, it's still just all about themselves. Feeling like they may have made the wrong decision. Well, not so much that they made the wrong decision, but just knowing that it was a better situation with you, but they will still make that decision while knowing that, because they don't want to give you the satisfaction and they want to punish and hurt you. So yes, an narcissist never forgets you. You're the one who has watched my videos, likely an empath. You cared enough to find out about this information. You were running on a hamster wheel endlessly in an effort to please them, but nothing you did was ever good enough. And that is the ultimate source of supply for a narcissist. And it's something that they likely will not find again. So you set the bar, you become the measuring stick for everyone who comes after you, because they don't want to go down. And of course, if they achieve something in a certain amount of time, they achieved a certain level of success from a source of supply, they're going to demand and expect more and in less time from the next source. And then the next source after that, that's typically how it goes with a narcissist. And it's just another reason why they're never going to be satisfied. Let me know what you think about what I've said in this video in the live chat below. And let me know if you have any questions, I will respond to them and I will answer them now as well. Volta Renato, the Andron de Pontes, says they don't want us to be in new relationships. Yes, narcissists, they don't typically want to see their victims move on into new relationships. And that's why they will try to destroy you before you leave and manage to do that. Of course, the reason why is because they're very insecure, they're envious and jealous. And clearly the relationship they had with you didn't work out too well. So if you can move on and you have a successful relationship with someone else, they look at it like, what does that say about them? Because if you can move on and have a successful relationship with another person, then it's like, why couldn't you have that with them? Clearly, they must have been the problem. Otherwise, it would have worked out with them. And they know that other people may start to see it that way and they don't want that to happen. Because they fear being exposed. So they will start a smear campaign in an effort to isolate you and to prevent you from being in a new relationship. Jade Bonnell says, he sure acts like he's forgotten me. It's okay, it's a blessing. Yeah, they will act like they've forgotten you. That's meant to serve as a punishment. But as I said, some types of narcissists, they actually can just forget about you. They just move on like you never existed. Those tend to be the player types of a narcissist. They're the types where you're not like their primary source. They've got so many options. And you typically don't really invest much into them. They don't really need anything from you that's independent. Often financially independent as well. So you're not like the grade A primary source to them. So of course, they can forget about you quite easily. But if they are heavily dependent on you, then of course, they're not going to forget about you that easily. Let me know if there's any more questions in the live chat and I will respond to them. And please hit the thumbs up button down below as well. I can see we have 119 live viewers and only 44 thumbs ups. It's very important as it does help the YouTube algorithm to get this message out there to other survivors so that it can help them as well. Princess of Power Johnson says they can't handle any truth or reality. Yeah, that's very true. They really can't handle the truth about themselves or even about other people. They can't deal with reality. That's why they have to create this false narrative and their false character, the illusion, the alternate reality. And that's pretty much anything where they're trying to gain power or control over you. It's where it becomes a natural, inorganic situation which is one-sided, biased and only meant to serve them at your expense. That is their alternate reality and their false character. Cindy Williamson asks if a narcissist meets another narcissist. I wonder how that works out. Sometimes it works out well. Sometimes it doesn't. What typically happens is one narcissist becomes dominant and the other one becomes submissive. They can also switch roles as well. There will often be a lot of arguments and disagreements, a lot of fights, a lot of chaos, but they can also find a way to bond over an external target destruction. Someone who is outside of their relationship, that can often help them to stay together, but usually there will be a lot of fights because often it can be too, false characters and fake realities that are conflicting. And that's the both on the same page. It's like two grandiose narcissists who are putting on this show for the world as we often see with celebrities. Then they can stay together for a certain amount of time. But even then, there's two people who are self-absorbed and lack empathy. So they don't really care about each other. The only thing that really keeps them together is the image. Or if they're bonded together over someone else's destruction. Other than that, they haven't really got anything. That's the only reasons why they would stay together. Jade Bonnell asks, why do they block you months after no contact? The only thing I could assume for that is maybe they discarded you. You went no contact and then they found a new source or they already had one lined up before they discarded you. And then things didn't go too well with them. But maybe they found a better source and for that reason they didn't decide to overkill and instead they just blocked you. But what I would say is that you shouldn't really be paying so much attention to see that they have blocked you months after no contact. I mean, that suggests that you were really paying a lot of attention to them if they no longer contacted you for months and then you noticed that they blocked you. But I would say that that's the reason for it is that they found a better source because otherwise if they didn't then they probably would have hoovered you. But then of course in some cases they won't do that if they don't believe you're going to be susceptible if they know you're not going to be their fool anymore. I mean, it's never a good thing to be picked to be chosen by a narcissist who's just going to manipulate, use and abuse you and not care about you or take your needs at a consideration. It's nothing to be proud of to be a narcissist source of supply. All right, it's getting quite late here in the Philippines. It's about 11 p.m. So I'm going to have a shower and get some sleep. Look up early and do some work. But I'd just like to thank you all for joining me on another NARCS of our live video. 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