 Hey guys, today Adam and I are going to be playing a marriage tag. That's with questions and answers that hopefully we both know about each other. I've got some really good ones, Hazley. Oh, let's do this. Just before we get to some really good questions, we want to bring to you an important message. That's right, we want to give a big thanks to 2020census for sponsoring this portion of our episode. As a family, we believe in speaking out and creating change for a better world, especially for the futures of our children and yours too. One way to ensure our voices are heard is to complete the 2020census. That's right. This opportunity only happens once every 10 years and this year it can be done online. Census data informs funding decisions for crucial services and programs. And did you know that by filling out the 2020census you are impacting where hundreds of billions of dollars in federal funding are allocated over the next 10 years? 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Nothing about your bank info, your social security number or citizenship status. This is to ensure that you are represented because you count and you matter. Keep watching while you fill out the 2020census. In fact, you can click that link and our subscribe link too. Yep. And as you answer those questions, Adam and I are going to ask each other some of our own questions and we'll see who gets things right. Thanks again to 2020census for sponsoring this portion of the video. What were we when we first said I love you? I remember I said I love you first. You did. And I just said you did. I said I missed a green with you. Happy wife, happy life. It's the way you said it. I said I love you first and I remember where it was. My sister and I were renting this house in Hope Park and I remember it had a second floor. They had kind of like this wooden like wall where you have the stucco and then you kind of have like the wood. What do you call this? Half wall. Yeah. And I was leaning over it talking on the phone and I said I love you. And Tia's room was just right down the hall and Tia was like, what? No, she said that was quick. I was uh... Because we were together for three months. Yeah. I mean I wasn't too long afterwards but I remember mine was in my condo or my apartment. It was really. And uh you were over. Wait when I said I love you did you say I love you too? You didn't say I love you too. I didn't say I love you too because I did. And I remember having that conversation with my sister and she was like that's fine. You don't want a person to say I love you too just because you say I love you. I think you said I care about you too. No, I would never say that. I didn't say I care about you too. But you didn't say I love you back. I didn't say I love you because I don't want to lie. Okay, nice question. When did you first meet my family? Well you met my family pretty early on. Like a couple months into it we drove up Highway 101, Highway 1 all the way. We left early in the day and we stopped in San Francisco and then we ended up crossing the Golden Gate Bridge and took photos. Then you came to my parents house to meet my brother and sister-in-law. And then I met part of your family pretty quick and then part of it just took a little while because of probably previous relationship issues you had. No, it was because and I talked about this on the reel. My mom didn't want to meet anybody unless we were really serious about the person. I love your mom so we're good. I met yours within the first two weeks of dating. No, it wasn't two weeks. It was about no, no baby. We came up here about five weeks or six weeks in because it was what I drove up. Still early. I drive all the way to Napa from LA. Okay, favorite feature about me? Your eyes. Really? Or her heart. Eyes are hard. My favorite feature about you? Well, I can't really say. Oh, shut up. She's got too much wine. What are we? Nicknames for each other. It's Bubba. Bubba. Same one. I don't know why. What does that even mean? I don't even know. It's been forever, though. Who is, this is easy. Who's most likely to forget something important? I need to take my ginkgo. What's my favorite movie? Lawrence of Arabia. And then The Natural. That's it. What's my favorite movie? Come on. It's a classic. You like Never Ending Story. You like Goonies. No. Yeah. That's one. Goonies and... But that's like when I was a kid. I'm talking about like my all-time favorite movie. Stand by Me? Yes. Oh, I love Stand By Me. With River Phoenix and... I don't know. It's one of my favorites. It's one of my favorites. I love Stand By Me. We've been together for 15 years and you didn't know that that was my favorite movie. I knew because you always talk about Goonies and Never Ending Story and all the Harry Potters, all 37 Harry Potter movies. And you liked... Oh, I mean, yeah. So, okay. Gryffindor! What was the last movie that made you cry? It's... I think it's the funniest. It wasn't really funny. But watching him just get up and go to the bathroom. It was Bradley Cooper and Lady Gaga. Starsborn? Starsborn, babe. Yes. He was so choked up but he didn't want to cry. He actually like... I don't remember that. And walked into the bathroom. Yes, I remember it. And I was like, I don't know. Are you crying? Are you crying? Okay. So, what's the last movie that made you cry? I don't know. I mean, for you, I would say Starsborn. No! I didn't cry. What was the last movie that made you cry? I mean, Frozen made me cry. When her true love was her sister. Like, Disney's Moana made me cry. What was the last movie that made me laugh really hard? I can't hear. Oh, I know which one. Which one was it? Troll's World Tour. Same with her. We watched it separately. She watched it and I watched it. And we both were dying. It was so funny. It's sometimes... It's new but it's a part two but it's really funny. What's the song I usually sing in the shower? Anything by Celine Dion. And I was like, shut up! I just keep it going. You don't allow her. What's the last song I sing in the shower? You don't really sing in the shower. Your showers are so quick. I know I sing a little bit. I'll sing here and there. Like, what do you sing? I've never heard it. I usually sing... I usually sing something that sounds good in the shower. Like, you make up things. I make... I change songs. I'll start a song like, you know, I'll start a song by Michael McDonald or somebody and then I'll just make the words up as I go. Just for the record, he loves Michael McDonald. I do. I'm a mancrush. Every single time that song comes on or one of his songs come on, I hear, man, he can really sing. What's the longest you've gone without showering? It's when... But it's fair. It's when I... It was three days. And it's when I had Araya and Aiden because you have a C-section and you just... I think I went longer. Oh, Lord. No, it's just... It's fun to bathe you. I think you did three. Well, yeah, but this is like a full-on shower. At least you got wiped down or something. I did wipe down. I wiped the special places. What? My longest time? Six days. What? Because of work? We were in hate. And there was no... We had never running water. What is my weird habit? Dude, why do I have it? Yes, you do. Look at your nails. I just... I tear up my nails. I don't buy them. I tear up. And what do I tear up? My toenails. Yeah, and you also have a weird habit of leaving everything open. Like, doors and drawers, refrigerators. I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what. It's because my mind is all over the place which you can vouch for. And so I'm thinking about 1500 different things. She will stand next to the refrigerator and hear beep, beep, beep, beep. Because I'm thinking about the seasoning salt. But you're standing next to the fridge. I need to put it on something. I know. It's just, hey. Okay. What are you not good at? What am I not good at? What am I not good at? You don't have... Okay. This is... I always say your strength sometimes could also be your weakness. You don't have filters. No, I got it. What I mean by that is Adam talks a lot. So does she. No. But I know how to read the room. No. He does not know how to read the room. You're like, dude, everyone's like... No. I can look at A. She can't read the room. Yes, I can. What are you talking about? She'll be talking about stuff sometimes. She can't read the room either. I think we have the same thing we're bad at. We both talk a lot. No, babe. No, I can't read the room. No, there are times you do not read the room. On topics, on stuff, sometimes she don't know. She'd know. Maybe I go like... Like what? Maybe my length of reading the room isn't good. But her topic sometimes... Like what? I'm not going to go into it here. But there's times where you miss and you miss. You miss. It's okay. He did the same thing. Okay, what am I good at? What are you good at? What are you good at? Okay, so I always say... Or maybe... Hey, I don't know. Maybe parents are blessed to have both. But sometimes when you look at parents, there's always one parent that is just a really good player. And what I mean by that is, is they love playing. They could sit there and play with the kids for like four hours. Like they have that... They can be that attendant to that. That is what you're good at. Were you good at? She's good at organization. To the point where it's really good. And the point where at times you're like, All right, enough. Enough. I do not need... If that doesn't mean I'm good at it. You're very good at it. You're known. You're so good at it you're like, Okay, I'm living in a library. You're very good at it. Which is good. It's a good thing. Because I need... I think organization is great for life and for routine. Especially when you have kids. So while it annoyed me when we were not... Having kids in the house. Now that we have kids in the house, it's very, very helpful. Because you can grab stuff and go. Okay. But what do we argue about the most? I think we argue the most about... Well, if you know, I don't think it's going to work. No, you're first. You're first. I argue with that. Sometimes parenting, but I feel like we've gotten better at that. Yeah, we're not really interested in that. No, but I mean like, because I think I am a little bit more strict than you are. Yeah, I am. No. At times, yes. At times, no. We're already art. That's my father-in-law. He would agree. He ain't around when you're like, we just agreed that there was no phones today, and I'm looking over the kids that have phones. I just, I... Okay. That had been closed in a while. The other argument I'll say is, she likes to tinker. So like, everything will be good in the house, and she'll all come home, and she'll move crap around. Because that's the interior design of me. That's what we do. She has other things going on, and it makes her feel good to tinker. No, I have spoken to other interior designers, and what they say is, is you get kind of bored looking at the same pillows, or the same way a jar is. So you want to just switch it up. That's all it is. Okay. Who tastes carry the kids better when they're sick? I just, I think... I take care of you really well when you're sick, but you take care of the kids better. You do? Oh, come on. I make you soup. I get you medicine. I... You're like... Lonnie, where are you? No, you are the mom. You're in a... Lonnie, where are you? What food do I not like? He doesn't like nuts in his salads. No, I like nuts in salads. I don't like seeds in salads. Seeds, seeds, seeds, nuts, seeds. I don't like seeds in salads. I don't like nuts in ice cream. Cookies or brownies are cake. But I like nuts. I like cake, cookies, brownies, and ice cream. But just doesn't like it. He doesn't like coconut because he can't have it. He gets the allergic reaction to his neck. Yeah, you like everything. What about you? Why don't you like... Oh, I don't like organs. I don't like liver and... What do you like? What don't you like? I... I tried an organ and I'm not going to even say which one. I don't want to know. But I felt like a cannibal for... I want to know. And it messed with me. So I would have to say, yes, animal organs. I can't do it. What is my most repeated phrase or sentence? That's fantastic. Or you say, when something doesn't go right, you say, oh, come on. Right? Yeah. You always say that. What's mine? Sing it. Oh, Jesus. No. Oh, Jesus. Oh, Jesus. Oh, Jesus. And then the other one is, oh, Jesus. Oh, Jesus. Oh, Jesus. That's from Fargo. From Fargo. Oh, Jesus. So those were a lot of questions. A lot. A lot. But I had fun. Yeah. 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