 Narcissistic traits versus Narcissist. There is a clear difference between someone who has Narcissistic traits and someone who is a Narcissist. The behaviour will be more frequent and more extreme with the person who is a Narcissist. They will have or show stronger feelings or opinions. They will be more serious, more forceful. If you have studied the information on Narcissist you will know when you are dealing with one. It is unlikely that you will confuse what they are or wrongly identify them. Once you have studied the information on Narcissism and you identify their behaviour it becomes very obvious when you are dealing with one. People who have Narcissistic traits might display some behaviours but they won't be as frequent or as extreme. They will know when to stop. They will know when their behaviour is making you uncomfortable and they will have some level of empathy which makes them understand how you are feeling and makes them want to discontinue their behaviour. A person might purchase a new car and receive a lot of praise or admiration. It might feed their ego for a week or two. They become self-centred or self-interested. They might feel as though they are superior to people because they have this new car. They might feel as though they are more special or more important. But after some time, after the praise and admiration has been received they have enjoyed their Narcissist episode. They have enjoyed their moment of feeling larger than life and their behaviour then becomes less intense until they return to normal or how they usually are. They go back to treating other people with respect and having regard for their feelings, wishes or rights. That means it was just a phase or an episode. It went away on its own. This can happen with people who have Narcissist traits. They might have a phase or an episode of displaying Narcissist behaviours and you might mistake them for being a Narcissist. But it's just someone with Narcissist traits who is having their moment. The behaviour may often go away on its own or if the person receives constructive criticism they will then realise the effects that their behaviour is having on the people around them. They might apologise and then return to how they normally behave. This can happen with people with Narcissist traits. They are more aware of their behaviour and the effects that it has on people. They are more able to use logic and reasoning to identify the faults in their behaviour. People with Narcissist traits can have bad judgement and they can lose the awareness of how their behaviour affects other people but only for a moment. This is not something they will experience for a long period of time. It may affect their empathy during that moment but even then the effects that it has on their empathy will be limited. Which means that they will still be able to understand your point of view. The person with Narcissist traits will have episodes of Narcissist behaviour but it won't be as intense and they will be able to use information such as facts to make a decision. They are still capable of looking outside of themselves. They still have awareness of the people around them and how their behaviour might affect them. They are also able to correct their behaviour and in most cases they will correct their behaviour because they have no intention of harming people. The Narcissist will harm people and they will make full use of and derive benefit from them in a way that might be considered unfair or unhanded for the purpose of serving their own needs. They will intentionally go out of their way to take advantage of people. It is not a phase or an episode. It occurs continuously without interruption. They have a firmly fixed or established habit, belief or attitude that cannot be changed. It is a clear pattern of behaviour that has the tendency to spread. It occurs more frequently. It is done with full awareness of the likely consequences. It is done consciously and intentionally premeditated, thought out or planned beforehand. They are pathological liars. They cheat on you. They steal from you. They obtain things from you, especially money through the use of force or threats. They aim to change your behaviour or perception through indirect, deceptive or underhanded tactics. They hurt you consciously and intentionally. They give misleading or false accounts or impressions. They give false information or evidence. They make personal attacks or abusive remarks. They shift the blame onto you to achieve their desired result. All of these tactics are of crucial importance to regulating their emotions, boosting their self-esteem, making them feel as though they are something significant or important. This is the narcissist. And if you confront them on their behaviour, they are not going to self-reflect or self-examine. They are not going to look at their behaviour and think that they need to stop. This is their way of living. This is their method for emotional survival. And it is done consciously and intentionally. If you try to confront them, it may cause a narcissist's injury. They are easily hurt, worried or offended by criticism and they will not take responsibility for any of their wrong decisions, even if you find evidence of their wrongdoing. They will only be focused on avoidance or escape. They will shift the blame onto someone else. This is how they dodge the blame and survive emotionally. And this is why narcissists cannot be cured. Because they are going to do whatever it takes to avoid looking at their own behaviour. They don't want to self-reflect or self-examine themselves. If you confront a narcissist, it is going to be very different from confronting someone who has narcissistic traits. If you confront someone with narcissistic traits, they will identify that they had a phase or an episode of narcissistic behaviour and they will then make corrections. But if you confront a narcissist, they will just become more covert. They will act like they understand your constructive criticism, but they will not make any changes to their behaviour. Instead, they will discontinue any communication with you and they will then secretly make plans to carry out an illegal or harmful action against you. They will try to make you less confident, less powerful or less likely to succeed. They will try to make you weaker gradually over a long period of time. They will try to tune people against you. They will make up lies. They will deliberately destroy or damage anything that you are trying to create while acting as though nothing is wrong. But secretly, they are focused on turning everyone against you. They won't revenge and they are trying to take you apart, pull you to pieces without you even realising. If they can't do that, they will just leave and you will never hear from them again. Because if they can't live in an environment where they have full control over people's perceptions, then they have no power and a narcissist cannot be without power. They cannot create it on their own, but they have to be around people who are naive or foolish enough so that they can trick them into giving their power to them. It feeds their ego and regulates their emotions. Again, it's about emotional survival and if the narcissist cannot trick people into seeing them in the way that they want to be seen, they are just going to leave. The narcissist does not change or correct their behaviour. They do not adapt to their environment or try to maintain their relationships. They create their own environment and they expect people to adapt to them. They create their own world and control and influence people to adapt to this world. If anyone criticises or objects to their agenda, they will inflict punishment on them. If they can't do that, they will just leave and you will never hear from them again. They will move on to something else when no one has made a conclusion about them. A person with narcissistic traits will show behaviours that only last for a limited period of time. It is triggered by a set of circumstances. The narcissist has pathological behaviours, compulsive, obsessive, habitual, persistent. They have firmly fixed or established habits, beliefs or attitudes that cannot change. They have limited awareness of their behaviours and they have difficulty acquiring knowledge and understanding through thoughts and experience. Their thought process is very distorted, which then results in them having poor reasoning skills. This is the difference between a person with narcissistic traits and someone who is a narcissist. Thank you for watching. I hope this video wears it with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you would like to donate my PayPal links in the video description. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.