 Hello everyone. Welcome again to another NARCS Viva Live video. I'm at the park. The same one is yesterday, because I couldn't really find another one nearby. So here we are. It's raining a bit. But I think parks are quite beautiful in the rain. But yes, let's get into this one. The real reason why the narcissist discarded you. Because, let's be honest, they never tell you the real reason. They give you all of these lies and stories. And it never seems to make any sense. Because just narcissists in general, they don't make any sense. Of course, that must be the reason why I've just hit 170,000 subscribers. And I've got over 40 million views. And on top of that, I'm far from the biggest channel on this topic. It's because they don't make any sense. So we go looking for explanations. We go looking for answers. And that is why you're here with me right now. As I begin to discuss this particular topic, the real reason why they discarded you. But in fact, of course, there's more than one reason, depending on your individual situation. But sometimes there can be multiple reasons, even for one person in that situation. So you might want to take notes about some of the reasons that I am about to discuss to help you to identify what exactly went wrong in your situation. So let's get into the first one. This is very common, especially among the player type of narcissist. Because as we know, they've been around the block. They've had a lot of experiences. They've seen it all before, so to speak. So when they come around you, you're just another notch on the bed post. Just another person that they've come across. They just see you as something temporary for recreational use. And they get bored because this type of narcissist, and I can speak about this from my own experience as well in the past. They get bored very easily. They need to have multiple supplies at the same time. They need constant amusement and entertainment. And it's like it's never enough for them. They're always looking for the next thing to do, the next shiny new toy, the bigger bit of deal. And they're never satisfied. They're always looking for something else or something more. And as soon as they've got it, the very thing that they want, the very thing that they've been looking for, as soon as it's in their possession, it's in their grasp, immediately they've got their eyes set on something else. And this is just the typical thing that you will experience with the player type of narcissist. And it's like a sickness. It's like a disease. It's something they just cannot control. They just have this urge, this desire to be involved with multiple sources of supply. And they think that they really want something, and then as soon as they get it, they take it for granted. They want something else. And I'm sure this is something that many of you have experienced. As you're never going to win over that type of narcissist, it's just never going to happen in the way that you might think. Even when they come back with the fake apologies, false epiphanies, it's just to get you back because they've re-idealized you again. And then as soon as they know that you're there again, immediately they've got their eyes set on something else. It's just never going to last. It's never going to be anything consistent or long term that just does not happen with this type of narcissist. They're always going to have other sources on the side. You're never going to be the only one. They're never going to be exclusive to you. That's just never going to happen. But yes, this is most definitely one of the main reasons why they discarded you. But don't let it get to you. It really has nothing to do with you at all. Remember, they can't be satisfied with one person. They can't be exclusive. They can't settle down with you. Just remember that they have this void inside of them that they're constantly trying to fill. And it's always like they meet the next person. They found the one, their soulmate. This is it. And then before you know it, they're off somewhere else. So don't worry about it. Don't let it affect you. It's not you. You're fine. You can have that with someone else, just not with the narcissist. So that's one of the main reasons. That kind of moves on to the next reason, which is, of course, new supply. Another main reason why a narcissist will discard you is because they likely had someone else on the side while they were with you. This person was already lined up, ready for them to monkey branch onto them. Just as they were starting to get bored of you or you were starting to figure them out. Which is another reason why they will discard you again is when you're on to them. You know what they're doing. You know what they're about. You know that they're liars, manipulators, cheaters, deceivers. They're all of these things and they are never going to be loyal or devoted to you. They're never going to settle down with you. They're never going to marry you. You're not going to have a family. You're never going to have any of that. As way you know this and you really understand it, you accept it. Then they know the jig is up. It's game over. They've got to find another unsuspecting target. As you can see, I'm just standing out here, walking around in the rain. It's only light rain though, so it's not really a big deal. So what's another real reason why a narcissist will discard you? Another real reason is you are constantly questioning and confronting them. You are constantly on their case and no narcissist likes that. When you're constantly holding up a mirror in front of them, they'd rather play pretend. They'd rather exist in their make-believe world. But they are everything that they want to be and they don't want to be anything less. Because honestly they don't really care about all of the things they've said and done to you. None of that really matters to them. They just want to forget about all of that, leave it in the past, move on to something else. And it may look like they're running from you, but in actuality they are running from themselves. Because you know exactly who they are. And that is why by that point they were nothing to do with you. Another reason why they will discard you is because you're no longer willing to be their fool, their doormat. You're no longer willing to be at their beck and call. Where you're willing to do whatever they want, whatever they wish, whenever they want it. You're no longer willing to be or do that. And at that point they see you as a lost cause, you having a use to them. Because they already know they can find someone who's going to do whatever they want just around the corner. Remember they're these amazing people, they're so charming and charismatic. And their minds they can get anyone they want. Whether that's true or not in your situation, they think that it is. The very arrogant, delusional and entitled. So it's nothing for them to drop you and then go off and find someone else. If you're not willing to be their fool, their doormat. They think that someone else is so they will go off and try to find another unsuspecting target. But now we're going to get into the more interesting side of things which believe it or not these things happen quite a lot as well. Another reason why they discard you is because they are anticipating their fall, their failure. They're anticipating that they are about to go down and that you are no longer going to desire them. You're no longer going to be interested in them. And of course as we know that is one of the narcissist's greatest fears. There's one thing they can't stand, as I said yesterday, it is rejection. So if they fear that you are about to reject or discard them, of course they're going to beat you to the punch. They're going to do it first. They're going to get rid of you before you have the chance. So that's another reason why they may discard you. And here's another one. Many of you may not even see it this way. But let's be real. Narcissists, once you've been around them long enough, they are so predictable. They do the exact same things every day. It's like they follow this rigid routine. And it's like you already know exactly what they're going to do even before they do it. It's like this ritual. So once you've learned them and you're on to that, you start to get bored of their act. It's no longer fun. It's no longer amusing. And guess what? They immediately sense that. They know when their act is starting to get old. And when they become aware of that, they will take themselves off the stage. Before you get the chance to boo them off, they're going to walk off on their own. And a lot of you may not realize that because you look at the narcissist. And it's like they think that this all-powerful being, it's like they're this wealthy, attractive or intelligent person who everyone wants, everyone desires. Or at least that's what they present on the surface. On the outside, yes. But inside, they are actually very insecure. Which is why they're always scanning the environment for threats. They're always trying to read into you and to see how you are perceiving them. So they immediately sense that when you start to get bored, when it's no longer fun for you. But what I've seen in my own experience is some narcissist, typically the ones that are very grandiose and extremely arrogant. They're not just going to walk off the stage when they see that you're starting to get bored. In fact, what they will do, they will switch their game up even more. And they will really try and put on a show for you. In my own experience, I've seen them try to perform better sexually and try all of this crazy stuff in bed. They've also tried to wear sexier outfits, just trying to appeal to whatever they think your interests are. Because yes, they can see that you are losing interest. They can see that you're starting to get bored. So they know they've got to switch it up a bit. But some narcissist deep down, they are so insecure, they're not even going to do that. As soon as they get even a whiff of it, that you are starting to get bored, they're going to walk themselves off the stage. And it's very unlikely that they will ever return. Because by that point, you've already caused a narcissistic injury. And as I said yesterday, they fear being rejected. They're not going to put themselves in a position where they may be humiliated. So instead, they're just going to run off and try to find another unsuspecting target. Someone who is easily amused, easily entertained. They don't have to work so hard to get the supply. So yeah, these are just some of the main reasons why the narcissist discarded you. And as I said, a lot of these reasons are from my own experience. Some of them were, of course, I'm not a narcissist, but I was on the other end of it. Where I got bored of the narcissist. And even back in my younger days, I was kind of distracted by other people. So I kind of went through a phase with that as well. So I have experience in that area. I know what it's like. But I can't typically say that any narcissist or anyone really has ever got bored of me. I don't really have much experience with that personally. But I do know that I have gotten bored of many narcissists in my life. Because let's be real, they are boring. They're no fun. They're predictable. There's just no excitement, no amusement, no mystery. Once you've been with them for a while, it's just the same shit, different day. And that's all that it is. It's kind of like you have to bring the fun, the excitement yourself. You have to entertain yourself. And I know that's what many of you may be doing. Maybe you're reading 50 Shades of Grey. Who knows? But that's just how it is. That's just how it's got to be. When you're around narcissists, you kind of have to tend to amuse yourself. So I do hope that I am amusing you right now as you're watching this. And you see me in this park putting out this message to you. I hope that this does bring you some amusement and distraction from the narcissist in your life. Because let's be real, they are boring. They are predictable. Once you figure them out, once you know that they're full of shit, there ain't no fun in that. But yes, those are my reasons for why the narcissist likely discarded you. Let me know what you think about this video down below in the live chat. I'm looking out for your messages, your responses. I will read them out and reply to them. DruidVW says, give them nothing. I love how easy the answer is. God is awesome like that. We win by doing nothing. Yeah, believe it or not, that's all you have to do. Just cut off the supply. But know that that may make them angry as well. That could also cause an injury. When you cut off the supply because you're feeding them, you're giving them this energy. But if you're dealing with the play type of narcissist, the one who has many options, it's unlikely that they're going to come after you or try to destroy you. Instead, they're just going to switch to one of the other sources of supply. And then they may just forget about you very quickly. Because let's be real, these play types of narcissists, they have tons of options. They've got far too many options to be worried about you. But the other types of narcissists, they live in scarcity. They've probably never seen anyone like you in their entire life. So of course they're going to be coming back, they're going to be holding on to you. They're going to be trying to keep you down. Because you're the best that they will ever get. And that is real. That is the truth in many situations. Anonymous 2281 case is all these traumas just to learn about narcissists. You're better off learning from other people instead of experiencing it yourself. I think it is very important for us to have these experiences as well. Because you can't fully understand something until you have been through it yourself. I mean, how else are you going to know? Someone else could tell you but you're not going to really know what it is. Unless you've experienced it firsthand. It's like someone can teach you how to drive a car and you think you've got it all figured out. But then you go out onto the road on your own and then it's very different. Because then you're experiencing it firsthand, you're experiencing it on your own. Which is why I do believe that that personal experience is very important. Lone Wolf says they have no moral compass. Yeah, definitely. That's right. But believe it or not, they actually do know the difference between right and wrong. It's just in their minds their life is so unfair to them. All of these people overlooked them or did them wrong. So then that gives them this arrogance and entitlement where they think they can do whatever they want, whatever they want. Even though they haven't done anything to earn it. There's nothing that they've done that should warrant that type of treatment. Those types of privileges. It's just in their delusional minds. It's like, yes, I am the best right now. Give me what I want. It's exactly how a narcissist thinks. Fair enough if they did the work, they went for the trials and tribulations. No. Narcissists think they deserve whatever they want right now just because they exist. It's crazy as that sounds. And that is why they believe they can do whatever they want to do. They can hurt people. They can use them. They shouldn't have to face any consequences because in their minds you should just see it as a privilege to even be around them. I'm glad you feel better after watching these streams drew the VW. That's why I do this to raise the vibes. Sending this love and positivity to you. And one of us two to eight one K says they see it as a weakness if you're funny and full of light. It's very true again. They really do. When they see someone who's full of positivity. In their minds that person is just stupid. And they deserve to be exploited and taken advantage of. I don't know about you. I see that as a strength. When I see someone who's funny, they're positive, they're full of light. That just makes me want to go over to them and just pull my love all over them. It doesn't make me see them as stupid or weak. It just makes me want to share my love with them. Of course this is exactly how narcissists think. Everything's just a tool, an object, a means for them to exploit and get what they want. Without ever reciprocating or giving anything back in return. I'm just looking through the comments here. There's a lot of comments on religion and spirituality. I myself, as you probably know, I am very spiritual. I do believe in the higher dimensions, but I also follow Buddhism as well. I like the teachings and it has provided me with guidance in my own life. So that's what I'm about. That's what I support. But you know I like all religions as well. You know anything, if it's about positivity, it's about peace. It's about connection and togetherness and building something real together. If it's about good, then yeah, I can support that whatever religion it is. Luckily there wasn't too much rain, so I could finish this video outside. You could probably hear the birds chirping in the trees. I just love being out in nature. I'm still near the city, but it's always good when you can find a local park to have a walk around. Nothing makes me feel better. But yeah, that's the message. After watching this now you should know you should be able to identify at least one reason why the narcissist discarded you. If you did, and if this advice was helpful to you, as always you can show your support down below by giving this video a thumbs up. It will help to support our community, which as you know is growing every day. 170,000 subscribers now. Let me know your thoughts down in the comment section as well. Every morning when I'm waking up, I'm sitting down or I'm laying in bed. And I'm scrolling through your comments. I read every single one. So definitely let me know what you think about this video down below. And if you enjoyed it, you can share it as well. Let it help other people too. Hit that subscribe button, the bell icon as well. So you will get all of the notifications for my future videos. 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