 another one, another live video for you out here in the woods, hope everyone's having a good day, so this is a discussion video, I did a premiere earlier today when the narcissist realises they play themselves, definitely check out that video, it's a really big one and this is the discussion video, so I'd like to hear from you, tell me about your experiences where the narcissist realises they play themselves and this is actually a common misconception, people think that they never come to this conclusion, they never think that they play themselves, when that's really not completely true, there is a moment there's a small window where they do reflect, where they realise what they've done and how they've just caused their own demise, especially if you bring it to their attention and that's why you see the narcissistic injury, that's why you get the rage, if they didn't know at some level what they did and how they sabotaged their own success, why would they be so mad, but like I said there is only a small window, it goes very quickly, they fight it and then they just shift up, they shift the blame on to you, they want to make you feel like you're at fault, but yeah I'd like to hear from you, tell me about your experiences in the comments, narcissistic abuse survivor says my ex is playing it hard saying that she has bared her off without me, she feels alive again, I was the miserable nasty toxic part of the relationship, yeah that's how they want to make you think, they have a dualistic mentality where someone's either right or wrong, all good or all bad and you have to be the bad person for them to feel like they went at fault, but yeah at some level they do know, they do know what they did, they do know what they've caused, that's why you see the injury, that's why you see the rage, if they didn't think they were at fault they would be very peaceful, the reason why they're so mad is because that's when they entertain that idea and then you just see them trying to deflect it, but when they're deflecting something it's because there's something to deflect, something to think about, just how you're at the beach, yeah although there may be that small window where they're forced to entertain the idea that they messed up and that they played themselves, they are going to do whatever it takes to fight it, they're not going to entertain that idea for long periods of time, so you're never going to get a narcissist who admits their faults or mistakes, that's never going to happen, they're just going to leave you and then they're going to find someone else, someone who doesn't know what they're really about, thanks for the donation, God's child, we are just out here sitting by the beach, just enjoying life and that doesn't mean that life is perfect far from it, but that doesn't mean that I won't take some time out just to appreciate life, just to appreciate nature, you have to get out here and appreciate these things, don't let the narcissist get you down, you have to enjoy life, even if that is the last thing they want you to do, you still have to do it, you have to do it, you have to practice self-love, it's an act of self-care for you to do that, the narcissist may not approve of it but this is me live giving you permission to do that, to enjoy life, to be out here on the beach, this is what we're doing, we're just out here, we're doing this, I hope you can appreciate this with me, sometimes I just look around and it's like the abuse has taught me to appreciate things I may never have noticed before, like sometimes I just look around at the sand, the waves, the sky, even when it's full of clouds it's so beautiful, I feel so blessed to live this life and I don't just mean being a YouTuber, just being alive is really incredible and I love every moment of it and I know not everyone is there yet but I know that you can all get there with time, with healing, just have to take it step by step, appreciate the small things, everything you see, take it in, take in the beauty of it, marinate in it, let it become a part of you, 110 live viewers, I appreciate you all, I'd like to thank you all for your support, thank you for joining me and I look forward to talking with you in another live video hopefully tomorrow so you all have a good day