 Hello, welcome to another video today. We're trying something completely different We're in our kitchen, obviously and it's an episode of we're not really strangers, but Yeah, but we're not really strangers to cooking your love in the house. That's basically so it's not a food tutorial It's an activity vlog. So while we're cooking, we're gonna be answering some questions from we're not really strangers, right? Yeah, yeah, so yeah, my name is Kwame It's a bit weird. We've never done something like this before and the scale up behind the camera So, yeah, we're cooking our love. We're starting. We've already done some bits already Steamed our meat and whatnot. But like I said, it's not a cooking tutorial And asking some questions and answering them. So that's it. Welcome to the show Okay, yeah, it's okay ready for the first question. Yeah Okay Oh, this is a deep one deep. Okay. What did the people who raised you teach you about love? How has that shaped your views on love today? Wow, whoa Okay, so the people who raised me And I think most people watching from what would our term as the traditional African home can relate to this one For us love was more care care in terms of Providing food shelter clothing. Okay. That was most African parents expression of love Yeah, so I think with my protective nature and making sure maybe the people around me are okay or Taking care of what they are feeling fine is how I mostly express Love I've come to realize But my view of love As a now I think has Changed a bit. Okay Because I've learned more. I mean I've learned to know that it's more than providing Love is also realizing that If the other person if you wrong the other person, for example, we need to apologize Love is which wasn't done by her when you're going to be enough. No, nobody really apologizes like that love is Asking questions, you know finding our people actually really are yeah and listening to whatever is on your mind Love is Being there Not necessarily in a provision Aspects like I already mentioned but just also Loving the other person and they are Love language as you know it You know, so that they are different levels or there are a lot of layers to love than what's you've seen Oh, I grew up knowing. Yeah. Yeah, which is Provide and then the rest they can shut up about it So yeah, a lot has changed on that front, but I'm sure they did what they also knew, right? Yeah, so you can't really fault them. Yeah for that kind of love. Yeah So nice Okay, so this is your question What was the worst date? You've ever been on and why? Do you remember any instance You weren't you thought it was like oh, this is this is the worst I went to the movie once with a guy and it was a really nice movie It's called dope and it was so cool and then he didn't understand this He was just like flat about it. I was like That is your worst day. Yeah, I didn't go on so many dates. I think that's why what is your worst day then? Okay, I guess it's the same. I think I've not gone out on so many days either, but Yeah, come to think of it. What is something new you've learned about yourself recently? Oh Yeah, something I've learned about myself recently I don't know a lot of things about myself Something new I've learned about myself recently Well, maybe the what? Funk in your creative process Or you don't want to talk about it, but is this something I've learned about myself Is it a character treat or is it no? I mean it's something it doesn't have to be about okay Face in life. Okay. So yeah, okay. So I've learned that Okay, so I'll go at that freelance tangent. Yeah, you're not always going to be in the mood to Create or do stuff and even if you are At first when I started I wanted to Go alone and go go go, but then I'm also realizing that If you want to do bigger things, especially for film You have to go with people so Patience when it's necessary Is something that you will learn Like, you know, it's situations can force patients out of you Especially when you really want the thing. So that's I think the Thing I've learned about myself. It's not bothering me as much as it would have before like with my anxiety and everything Yeah, now I'm learning to leave people do their part of the process in the team so Yeah That's a new thing That I have learned Yeah Patience. Yeah, I sex Why you always get to sex questions? Has sex ever been a deal breaker in your past relationships? Explain What did I mean? Has it ever been a deal breaker? Like that it's been that bad or yeah Kind of like, you know the person like you know enough for you to want to dump the person Never and I mean, of course in the beginning when you just get to know each other You don't know what the other person likes and This likes yeah, so we have to get to know each other. Yeah, but I I always saw potential Okay You always have potential with people. Yeah, like people can learn things right? Yeah I'm not expecting you to be a magician and suddenly know how my body works like we just met so yeah So you are more of the patient one who would talk and teach Yeah, but we all have to do that because yeah in the end We all have our own bodies and we all have our own things we like and things we don't like so Yeah, very kind I like that So I prefer to bake my Jalof Ever since I discovered that when you bake it, I mean it doesn't stick And it still comes out exactly how you would want I wash my rice, I put it in the casserole Add my stew Then it goes in the oven With a little bit of water So that is how I prefer to cook Jalof We wait for the Jalof to be done and then we eat Yeah? So yes, while the thing is in the oven What's a non-negotiable in your life? Non-negotiable Yeah, something that they would ask me to give it up My dog Wow, already? I cannot go without her That I could not be with somebody that would want to spend every minute with me I need to see my own friends as well So your non-negotiable is like having your own space And personal time Yes, like if a person would want to go with me everywhere I would get a bit like I would get like, no Because I need time to time Are there people who want to go everywhere with you? Or just spend the time with you all the time? People want to spend time with me? No, I'm just saying that as a lover I thought it was for this is a dating time Yeah, that's what I'm saying No, but I've heard stories That you know how sometimes when people get together And then the only thing they do is being together Yeah, and they just block out everybody else No, I don't do that I don't tolerate that either Okay, you pick When's the last time you go to someone and why? When's the last time I go to someone? I don't think I've ever done ghosting I'm the kind of person who if the vibe is not right Or if for example the relationship is one sided Which I find that even in friendships sometimes It's often, you know, I'm the one texting You know, the one checking up If I feel that way that I'm the one putting up more effort I'll let you know several times more like This is what's happening, this is what's happening This is what's happening I don't know how you feel about it But I'm just letting you know That it's not fun being the only person carrying conversations Checking it and everything So you know a lot of times, enough times So when you don't hear from me again It's not ghosting in that sense So it's not to the point where you wonder Ah, what did I do? And the person is not texting me or calling me anymore I think it's very rude to ghost It's very rude, that's why I would rather tell you To your face that, I mean And if it was something related to Something you did or something that's a deal breaker for me Or I don't enjoy in my interaction with you I'll just let you know I don't ghost Yeah Let me pick one Maybe one more Should have been the last one Wow Sex question? No Oh, okay It's no sex What about me intrigued you besides my physical My very handsome appearance It wasn't physical for me, you know The guy behind the camera wrote his eyes I mean, we talked a lot, right? Yeah I think I liked how your mind works And we had a lot of long conversations And I think it just flowed Kind of So I liked that And I liked it when you smiled Because normally you're only That's physical No, but I mean I think it's more about showing more ease And comfort So it's physical But the reaction is not only physical, right? Yeah I enjoy looking at it I just thought what it does to you is nice You know, when you open up it's nice That's good Should we do final question? Okay, you want me to read it? Yeah, you pick the final question What do your friends know about me If anything Do my friends know you? No, do your friends know me? So my friends Yeah, I didn't know you And you're even friends with some of them So In the beginning, maybe What did you tell them? In the beginning Yeah, so in the beginning Like this lady at work Or what did you say? Yeah, so this lady at work That I really like And we talked over beer at Republic And again I think you also said something like that In your previous answer Like how her mind works She sounded very mature And I liked it It was easy to speak to her as well And yeah So They knew that you were a really kind person Or a nice person At least Per the interaction Yeah And it was really nice When I told my friends about it All my friends about it But now they do know you Even if they don't know anything At all, they watch our videos Sometimes Yeah, that's true Everybody knows me now Make another video Yeah, so Yeah There's a lot more questions we could ask But we're leaving them For our next month's episode So For now, we'll wait for Ajolov We shall eat And call it a day If you like this video Give it a thumbs up And don't forget to subscribe Hopefully we can do Something activity based like this again Yeah, it wasn't it Easiest thing to feel But I'm glad it's coming out Okay Yeah So we'll catch you in the next one Peace