 So in the early stage of dating, you recite these vows to each other, just like a wedding vow. And the vows go like this, I agree to explore the process of getting to know you with the intent to declare something serious within the next three to six months. You're both saying this. I agree to be monogamous sexually while we have regular sex together. I agree to not actively seek to meet or date others while we're in this dating process, which includes taking down my dating profile. I agree to speak up if this isn't working for me, versus pulling back, ghosting or disappearing. And lastly, I agree to invest regular time in this process of getting to know you, which looks like spending three or four days and nights a week together doing shared activities, hobbies, mutual interests, spending time with family and friends, traveling together, teamwork, building skills, both in our personal and professional life, leading to either moving in together or getting married. That's what I agree to.