 Hi, she was seven. Okay, so I'm back to answer some of the questions that y'all left me on my Ask me a question video in the comments. Okay, so the first question. I'm gonna answer is Why do all the creepy lame men approach pretty ladies with ease? But the guys you're attracted to just stare and never approach you. Okay. I'm gonna tell you why Men who are attractive know they're attractive. They're not going to approach you Because they want women to approach them. This is why I never mess with pretty boys. Okay They're waiting on those ladies who are very desperate and who will do things for them To approach them. They're waiting on the less attractive females To go after the pretty boy because they know that they can get a lot out of them easier Another very attractive person will not Really come up to another attractive person Because then they lose their edge. They don't have any power over them. You don't have any You know, they can't talk to them any kind of way. They can't treat them any kind of way They have to come correct. So this is why You have lots of lambs coming up to you if you're pretty and why the pretty boys or the attractive men It will not come up to you if you're pretty as well. Now sometimes they will Because they're tired of messing with the the girls that they're not really into for the night and when they do really do want someone to Build a future with they will approach when they're ready But when they're out and about and you're out and about and they're they're not out looking for a wife Okay, so try to keep that in mind. Okay. Let's see it next question. Oh, man My phone time down. I hate that Okay, next question Um, okay, so I'm skipping all the silly ones. Yeah, I'm sorry Okay, so I'm 28 years old and I recently came into realization that I want to marry a financially successful man I am wondering from your experience. Do you feel like you have no control in your house as In your man making all the money He controls how it is spent or do you have a say so? Well, when you're a married It is a partnership. So if you have access to his bank account You have access to his money if you don't have access to his bank account Then you can get an allowance like every month on a certain day Like say when he gets paid make sure he deposits or gives you money to put in your own account If you have separate counts make this mandatory make this known before you get married say look, I'm not gonna be working I'm gonna need spending money. I don't like arguing about cash I don't like coming to you asking for money. So every month. I need you to put this certain amount in my bank account Or I need access to your bank account freely Guarantee you they will automatically stopped for giving you an allowance. So Once you're through with that allowance, then you're on your own you make your own money elsewhere Harry can or whatever or you just ask him for more. However, the relationship is set up But make it known that you want to set up that arrangement before you get married So you don't have to talk about it afterwards. You should be cool enough by then You know to talk about money, you can't talk about money freely. Don't get married. Okay. All right Next question. I live in the Pacific Northwest and men here are known for being very passive and not approaching women I don't want to chase a man, but oh I don't want to chase a man and be the aggressor, but I won't date if I don't do this or whatever. What should I do? Um well If it were me and I was you know, cuz I'm from the south or you know, it's different if it were me I would go out. I would say oh, you know, this is a really I love this place so much You know, but I'm thinking about moving because the man out here don't act like me Just talk loud to let people hear you like within your shot because what when people are out drinking They're actually kind of listening to other people's conversation. So put your complaint out there You know talk to your friend about it Where where you're in an earshot of a guy who's not approaching it and he'll be like, oh really? I have to represent my con and he might come approach you, you know, I'm used to guys coming to approach women You know over here. It's like we're the man, you know, just complain about it out loud Let your feelings be out there Man like that won't approach women are very probably into the Equal everyone's equal. I don't have to approach you No gender You don't want to date those kind of men anyway because your life will be miserable. So I suggest you find someone that Lives or grew up somewhere else who moved there and still has Traditional values or you just let your complaint be known out loud and what you think of these type of men and Maybe you know due to ego male ego one of them will react in a positive way towards you. So that's my advice Okay Next question You've talked once about how you first met your husband by coincidence at that bar I like to know your thoughts on meeting someone who didn't just happen to be at the same place I was at and It is that interfering with destiny. Do you think I should leave it up to fate because I heard that How Kate met William that she had it all planned from the beginning so clearly there are two schools I think if you want something don't get it. I had already manifested Husband with his qualities Before I even met him. So I I just did the manifestation technique I was just basically hanging out Before I went to work and due to my manifestation of what I wanted That's what came to me Now if I saw a man that I wanted It's and I and I put myself in the place to be noticed, you know that that works, too I mean women do it all the time, but I Would say it's easier and probably faster and more effective If you manifest the type of man you want and wait for that type of man to come because specifics Can be very very Specifics can be very hard. Okay, because first of all that guy has to feel the same way about you And if he doesn't waste in your time, okay? Why not just manifest a man that feels the same way about you that you do about him with all the qualities of the man That you really want Because if you don't really want you, you know, and you put you keep putting yourself in his path He's gonna figure it out pretty soon. He's gonna be like, uh, I see this girl everywhere. She's always out and it's not a good look so I Don't think and it's it's sort of like chasing a man like like I don't mean to be rude But it's kind of like chasing a man. You don't that's what groupies do like if he's an athlete Yes, if he's rich billionaire man. Yes. Yes. Yes. Put yourself in his view. Put yourself in his view Doesn't mean he's gonna marry you But if you manifest the type of man you want And just You know vibrate on that level don't talk to anything less Than what you've you know what you've manifested Then it should come to you. Either way Remember If he doesn't really like you if he's not into you no matter how many times you put yourself in his view He's not going to see you. Okay All right, um Should women return Gift that they received from a boyfriend and man. What does it tell woman if someone does this? What if you get a financially stable man, but the parents or mama is keep keeping a close eye on his money Um, I don't think you should give any gifts back because it was a gift Which means it was freely given No gifts go back Um, if I'm if I'm boy's mom because I'm not gonna say a man if a boy's mom Is keeping an eye on his money. Is it really his money? Um, does she have control over his wallet or does he um, this is one thing about dating a mama's boy. You'll never win Okay, so, uh You're gonna have to trick him to give you money basically Without her finding out and that's just too much drama to deal with Or you all are gonna have to move far away or whatever So Whatever, um Y'all choose to do I just I don't believe in dating models boys because I can't You know, it's not something I want to compete with You know, it's not It's not cute. Okay. I'm trying to find the next question Um, are there more questions? I have trouble finding a real true girlfriend All my friends are frenemies they compete And when I am pretty and fit they want to make me fat and criticize what I wear makeup blah blah blah Okay, so you have girls that are frenemies and they criticize you for wearing makeup Eating fit working out. Um You want to have real friends, but they're always like downing you. Okay. Have any real friends? I have one friend from Third grade. Her name is Ginny. The rest of my friends are online On facebook and on youtube Um, I find I find life easier without all that drama. Um, I have sisters. I have Cousins I have enough females in my life to not really need A friend. Okay. I'm married my kids. I'm a friend my husband's a friend But if when I was single I did have a friend Or you know before I was married I did have a friend and we hung out all the time and yes There was that jealousy there. There was that pettiness there, but you have to take it as a compliment You have to say, you know, I I took it as a compliment y'all. I was like Yeah, I know I look I know I wear a lot of makeup. You know what? I just I love makeup I think it looks good on me. You know when they say oh, you wear too much makeup Oh, yeah, you want me to teach you how to do yours like side swipe up, you know Don't let them get away with it. So yeah, you want me to try to do yours? Oh, no, you just wear too much. Well, you know This is what's in, you know, just come back. You don't have to take it. Just slap them right back with another um caddy Remark and oh, oh, you're you need to eat you eat this eat the old girl. No, I have to take pictures tomorrow or yeah All right girl. I can't eat that tonight. I have a date tomorrow And I don't you know, I don't want my stomach sticking all out or whatever You know, I'm I'm still um, I still wear the same size as I wore in high school girl I'm not trying to ruin that figure. You know, you can go ahead and eat it And just look at him crazy You have to Just push back and let them know because then they won't ever mess with you again because they're afraid to be insulted Okay, you when they insult you you got to insult them back worse That way they're afraid to insult you or say something anymore about you because they'll be like, oh my gosh She's just gonna get me so That's how you handle frenemies and of course they're gonna talk behind your back and they're gonna say this and that And then one another girl says, oh, she's talking behind your back. All you got to do is like, you know what? I expect that, you know, all the many people talk behind my back You know, it comes with the territory Of being me And just leave it at that take your power. Don't let people take it from you. That's That's silly. Okay Um, okay, so I'm gonna get back to this Okay, um Best way to ask a guy for money Is it the same approach for your man your dating or the husband? Best way to ask a guy for money. Is it the same approach for the man you're dating or you're the husband? Best way to ask a man for money. Okay. First of all, you have to know them a good long time Not too long, but you know a good long time to work. He trusts you enough And you have to say, oh my god, you know what? I I have to pay this bill So, uh, I gotta I gotta find something, you know, just make up a fake situation. You don't even have to have a bill Okay, so we say my this this always gets makes a man feel like trash if you can't help you You know, my ex My ex's mom Don't say your ex because they'll get mad my ex's mom was paying for something because she was really helping me out Because I helped her son out one time But my my ex's mom is paying for something and I really don't want her to pay that anymore because My ex thinks he can just call me up anytime and I really don't want her Girl, he'll pay that bill quick. Okay, or he'll try to give you some money for To get her and say well after this bill I can close out the account Or, you know, I can just tell her no in advance so she can just close the card or just make up something But make make it seem like if you didn't help you It's gonna be like asking your ex in a way, but not directly so That's a good way to get you gotta trick people sometimes, okay And if you don't like the trick way if you just want to ask for money Just ask for money. So, you know, honey, I really need some money this week. I'm short Would you mind helping me out, please? You know, sort with him and all that kind of good stuff But um, yeah It might not work or the other way works on his ego So that's why I said use that because when you mess with a man's ego, it always works. Okay, so I think that was all the questions unless there's more that I can't see on my phone So I guess I'll have to do a part two if there's more So whoever asked those questions, thank you so much I didn't want to say your names and give out your your information But I'm sure if people want to know then go read below, but I hope that helped most of y'all and thumbs up if you Agree with those answers if not, you know Put your two cents into the comments to help those other people out who ask questions I don't ever mind that so feel free and I'll see y'all later. Bye