 You are a Christian, what is a red flag for you when it comes to dating? For me, if that man has thirst traps or just photos of him like shirtless and then scripture in the caption, red flag! Girls and guys, no double standard. You see, if you're a Christian posting provocative photos online, I don't think you're going to get the attention from the people that you want attention Vying for people's praise and approval online is not a game that we want to be playing