 I think also again I think you mentioned this is hijab is a very personal thing so again realizing that each one of us is on a journey and you know we're on different places in the journey and hopefully the journey is continuing but I shouldn't expect your hijab to be like my hijab. I can explain to you why I wear what I wear and you know encourage you to sort of better your hijab but again if you feel you're you're comfortable with the hijab you are on and again it's a journey you'll slowly slowly hopefully better it and it's like when I look at my hijab when I was younger to when I was it you know a little bit older to now it's constantly changing and it's sort of realizing that I'm the one who's got an answer to God my hijab no one else and I need to be comfortable with that I need to be okay with telling God why I chose to dress the way I did so and it's not necessarily that if someone does it a different way it's wrong so for example I'll give you a simple example it's like I wear I only wear black scarf I have a scarf on my head I don't feel comfortable with any other color scarf that doesn't mean a color scarf is wrong my daughter my daughter in law everyone that I know wears colored scarf and that's fine but for me I feel uncomfortable I feel it's against my hijab and that's a personal choice that I've made and you know I would not push that on anyone else because there's nowhere in Hadith that says you can't wear a colored scarf yeah but again it's a journey that I have taken and where I'm deciding what's right for me because I'm the one who's got to answer to God