 So we currently at the beautiful beaches of Tel Aviv and I thought no place would be better to talk about finding who you are, finding yourself, getting the answers than this place. Beautiful, by the way. Oh, by the way it's only like 4.30 p.m. Something's wrong. I think that the computer of the universe or God maybe has a bit of a miscalculation. Somebody's not getting the timing right. But because it's almost sundown. You can't even see the sun. But basically the topic for this video is how to find yourself, who you are. And the mistake I find almost everybody doing. I haven't found a single person that did this right. Is looking outside. People tell me I've been trying to understand who I am. So I've been watching many videos and reading books and doing courses. You might be one of two kinds of people. Yeah, that's how you find out who you are. You learn more. And another kind might say, of course that doesn't work because you need to look inside. So I'm kind of speaking to the first group here. Because that's, frankly, 99% of people that contact me. When they want to know who they are, they just go on this crazy rampage of digesting books and seminars. And just spending all their money on it. But the problem is, the harder it will be to find. Because you can't discover who you are outside of you. So all this supposedly brave search that you're doing. Oh, look at me, I'm spending so much money, so much time, so much energy. The very fact that it's easy for you, that you're inclined to do it, motivated to do it. It just goes to show that this is not what you should be doing. What you should be doing, if you want to know who you are better, is to... Sorry if I turned around for now. So what you should be doing, if you're actually looking for who you are, is to go to the beach. Just like this one. Take a blanket. Leave your phone at home, by the way. And just sit. Sit for like 5, 6, 7, 8 hours probably. And that's how you're going to find out who you are. Now, I know that kind of sounds funny. I know that sounds like, oh, you know, how am I going to find out who I am by just sitting. But it is resting under your sites all this time. Because that's the only thing you haven't tried. And you might say like, oh, you know, I went to nature. Or, you know, I do spend time alone in my house or in my room. You know? No, that doesn't count. I mean, alone. Like, nobody around you, nothing. Now, of course, people can be around you, but not people that you know. Not a lot of them. So you should feel rather alone. You should feel like you're completely alone. And basically, you sit down for, again, 5 to 8 hours. And what's going to happen is, at first, you're going to feel a bit bored. Then you're going to feel a bit angry, maybe. Some things are going to surface. Then you're going to feel stressed. Then you're going to want to get out of there. Basically, your mind will be unwiring. Many things that you kind of buried will kind of start coming up. So it's like those softwares that you download through your computer that clean up the computer. So your body, your mind has that automatically. It comes pre-built with that. But in order for it to work, you have to stop moving. You could say, for example, there's video games where if you want your character to regain their health, and say you lost health, you have to stand still. So it's kind of the same thing. You have to stand still. You have to stop. And once you stop, the answers will stop popping up, the answers to your questions. Now, why aren't you already getting the answers? So, Elwyn Hubbard made a very good analogy for that. He says that the mind is sort of like a calculator, and it's always supposed to give you perfect calculations. Two plus two equals four, or what should I do? Any question you could have, your mind should be giving you the perfect answers. But if you have the number seven stuck on the calculator, it will be hard to get the right answer. So you want to get the answer like, hey, what do I want to do with my life? And then your mind is like, hey, what do I want to do? Oh my God, what will that think about me? Bam, you're off in another direction. What do I want to do? Oh, wait, what did I learn about what I should do? What did that guy say? You basically have all these reroutes, all these blockages and fogs, and you can't get to the answer. You can't get a clear answer of what you want to do, which is because to show your mind is not working. It's not that it's fucked up on its own. It's just that there's shit on top of it that you need to clean. So again, the very fact that you're asking yourself these kinds of deep but simple questions and not getting an answer just goes to show that your mind is not functioning because there's too much foggage, there's too much noise, too much rerout. And you can't just get to the answers, which you can solve by cleansing yourself. By the way, you should check out this. Amazing. Yeah, so yeah, you clean up your mind by being alone, by being still with yourself. The beach is the best place. So anytime something happens that's really horrible in my life, something hard, something difficult, I just go to the beach, sit there for a couple of hours, and just be. And it always resolves. I always go back to rationality. Like whatever I was so emotional about, like, oh my God, this is so bad, blah, blah, blah, blah. I always go, like suddenly it becomes rational. And my mind gives me the perfect answers how to solve it. Like the book I'm writing, for example, is a result of me going to the beach on a very stressful, tough time for me. And the answers just popped up. So if you're ever confused and you don't know what to do, it just means you've built up a lot of mental fog and you need to release that. You need to clean that up and go back to rationality. And you do that by, again, being alone. And you might ask, OK, what do I do if there's no beach around me? Maybe you live in Las Vegas or something. Well, you don't have to go to the beach. I mean, that's just the best place. Sorry, I mean, it's the best place. You can't beat water, but you can just go to the forest. Go to a place in nature, but just honestly sit there and don't travel there. Don't take your phone. Don't think about it. Just go, find a place to sit, plant yourself there, get a lot of fruits and vegetables. So you'll be clean and fed and let your mind clean itself. Just stare at the ocean or stare at the tree. Now, it works. It just works because it's like an extreme version of meditation. And usually the people that I tell to do that, the same people that are like, oh yeah, I invested so much money. I want to know who I am so much. They won't do it because it's so scary. It sounds funny, but it's so scary to actually do that because you're going to get the answers. And most people, this is from spirituality, but most people prefer the seeking rather than the finding. So if you honestly prefer the finding more than the seeking, just do what I say and you won't have any more questions, trust me. You'll know exactly who you are. You'll know exactly what you want to do. It works. It works 100% of the time. It's life changing. And I recommend everybody to do that every once in a while just because it's so good, so helpful. So thanks for watching. I hope this helps you a lot. Well, it will help you a lot if you do it, but again, if you're going to take one thing away, is that you're not going to find the answers outside. You have to find them inside and the only way to find them inside is by quieting the bullshit, quieting the mind, letting your mind clean up itself. And I hope to God you'll listen to me and do that because it's really that simple. But I mean, if you're going to spend money on a coach, you might as well pick me because at least I'm going to force you to do it. But if not, I wish you the best and I know that eventually you will listen to me once you run out of options and money. Thanks for watching. Subscribe if you haven't and more videos coming today. Thank you.