 Hello you two family The narcissist will regret what they did to you Because I know they said all of these hurtful things to you They did all of these horrible things They insulted you they put you down They sold you this dream of this future with them Which they never followed up with action and yet they left you holding on Longing and doing it for something that wasn't even real it didn't even exist And they never even took the steps to make it a reality because they didn't even care about it But they knew that you did Yeah, they knew how much that meant to you how important it was You were waiting on them And you had everything thought out in your head of this future which they led you to believe You had your life on hold you invested everything into them Thinking that this was actually gonna be something real But it was actually gonna be a reality But they knew all the while that was never gonna be a reality for you At least not with them And they feared that Maybe one day you would realize this and then you would leave and have that for real with someone else Yes, they feared the bad could happen for you And that is why they kept you holding on for such a long time because they didn't want to see that They didn't want you to have that I can tell you that for the things that they have done they will regret everything They will regret it. I don't know People say that Narcissist those with MPD They're not really gonna think about their actions or feel any regrets But in this video we are gonna dive a little bit deeper into that To reveal to you exactly what goes on in a narcissist mind because you got to look at it like this They are shame based people who are doing everything they can to avoid reflecting on their shame And that is why they deflected on to you You just got to look at their behaviors to see exactly what is going on in their minds to understand the process They deflect in their shame on to you because it's too painful for them to deal with And they also don't want to deal with the consequences of their actions And not only that but they're in denial And you got to think why are they in denial? It's because at some level they do understand what they've done and how it is wrong They understand the effects that it is having on you Yes, they recognize that and that's why they're in denial I'm not saying that the narcissist will have any remorse for you Or that they'll feel any desire to correct the wrong that they have done because narcissists most certain and certainly Will not think in that way especially those with MPD Maybe those with narcissistic traits Yes, they may actually feel remorse and at some point they may even feel the desire to correct The wrong that they did But when we're talking about people with full-blown MPD That is never going to happen They may feel some type of regret But even then those feelings are for themselves They may think that they've missed out on something and of course That is why they will often hoover their victims That doesn't mean that they're feeling any remorse for you Or that they have any feelings towards you It's all about them Their feelings are for themselves All they care about is narcissistic supply Anything else is far beyond the realm of their perception They view you as an object a tool To make themselves feel better And it never goes any deeper than that They're superficial they lack depth It's only within the realm of How it affects their feelings The supply that they get from it And of course if you look at the behaviors and how they treated you That will reveal that to you Because what did they do They came in they treated you in the way that they did They left you high and dry And you've got to think what kind of person can do that to you What kind of person can leave you in that condition Knowing that they were the ones who caused it And not feel any need to come back to correct it What type of person can do that And of course it's someone who is completely self-absorbed And lacks empathy for you They have an inability to share your feelings and experience They're only thinking about What do I want to feel in this moment What can I get from this person And of course they then set out To accomplish that To use you as a mirror to reflect back to themselves How they want to see themselves and how they want to feel about themselves And I can tell you it doesn't get any deeper than that That's really all that it was That's really all that it is But they will regret what they did to you You have to remember that for them to engage in these types of behaviors They are operating from a very low level of consciousness and awareness A very low level of intelligence And you've just got to think a person with such a low level of consciousness awareness and intelligence You really think that's going to get them very far These actions and behaviors And not only that but the shame Being a shame-based person That shame will dictate That every thought feeling action and behavior from that point on Because as we know they do not self-reflect They try to deflect their shame onto their victim They disown these parts of themselves that they don't like and assign them to you Instead of taking accountability, which of course that would be the right thing to do By doing that they are just Stripping themselves of their own power The power to validate themselves and direct the course of events And you may not see it straight away But in time you will notice that it begins to affect them You will begin to heal and things will get better for you But they will go down I don't know if they sound like I'm just telling you what you want to hear I'm trying to make you feel better after what they did to you And while yes of course in some ways I am trying to do that But not only that I am trying to give you the truth And this is the truth They will go down in time And in fact if you look at it A happy person Who's at peace and harmony with themselves Could never have done what they did to you They could never have done that It's because they're in a deep state of depression They're miserable And they project that misery and pain onto you So when you look at it They're already getting their karma And the way I see it I look at them And I think Your karma Your karma Is really just you being you Being the horrible Miserable destructive person that you are Because I honestly myself I could not imagine Going through a life And treating people in that way And not feeling anything Not feeling bad Not feeling any remorse And just still being able to sleep at night And not thinking anything about it But they managed to do that through the denial Through blame shifting Deflecting their shame Of course When the shame is too strong Or even their victim May not go along with their forced narrative And you continue to confront them You don't back down Then of course they've got to create this forced reality Start a spear campaign And then force their flying monkeys To sustain this forced narrative Because that shame is still eating them alive And they can't bury it They can't suppress it And normally it's enough just to keep you down To get you to go along with a forced narrative As long as you don't confront them You don't fight it But if you don't submit to their False narrative That's when they realise that they've got to start the spear campaign To really try to keep you down But even then it's just all about this reflection That they're getting From doing that to you And also from their flying monkeys as well It's all about how they want to see themselves And how they want to feel about themselves It really has very little to do with you as a person If anything It's really all about them They are completely self-absorbed And when you realise that It makes it that much easier To take your attention and focus away from it But recognising that yes You are just an appliance, a tool, an object But in their minds exists To meet their needs and to make them feel better about themselves Other than that you serve no purpose And even all of the enablers and flying monkeys Are really just pawns on a chessboard They're just people that they move around to produce their desired effect Or to produce this feeling within themselves As you can see I started to get quite noisy here The rooms are out And it is getting quite late it's about 11pm here But I hope that this was enough for this message Because I know a lot of you are going through this You feel like the narcissists have just ran off They're living their best lives without you After they did all of these things to you But I want to be the voice For you tonight To let you know that that's really not the case They make it look that way But it's really not like that at all Just remember when they first targeted you They manipulated you They loved on you They sold you a dream About dream never became a reality And just like when they're going off And they're painting this picture of you The rats are like they cause all of this chaos from you For you And yet they've moved on and they're living their best lives They're happy It's just another dream It's not their reality And they will experience the effects of that energy that they put out They will get their karma and in fact again right now A happy person could never do the things that they do It really reveals just how much pain they are in And just the amount of devastation that they are going through And have been going through That's all that it really reveals So yeah I hope that this message has comforted you And brought you the support that you need And you can also show your support by giving this video a thumbs up down below Helps the YouTube algorithm to get this message out there And let me know your thoughts in the comment section Hit subscribe and click all notifications To be notified when I upload a new video And you can also donate by leaving a super chat To a super thanks in the comment section Or by going to my PayPal It is paypal.me.narchsurviver And if you would like to book a well-on coaching session with me You can go to my website It is narchsurviver.co.uk And also check out my Instagram You can follow me on there It is narchsurvivey YouTube I've got new pictures and videos My travels which I upload to my stories Every day on there for you to see All right I just like to thank you all For joining me on another narchsurvivey live video Again I do appreciate your supports And I look forward to speaking with you in another live video very soon