 What's good Josh your boy Ross back again with another video so before I get right into this video I just want to say thank you to everyone that sent me a Message on YouTube on Instagram You guys were very Supportive of me and my family and what we're going through right now So I just want to say thank you to all the condolences all the will wishes Wasn't able to see all of them It was kind of overwhelming, but it lets me know that you know, we have a family here. It's not just Subscribers and content creators. It's it's a family you guys actually Was showing a lot of love and compassion I appreciate that each and every one of you even if I didn't see the message I was reading through as much as I could and you guys are amazing. I know my family Appreciates it and we all thank you guys for that. So thank you so much from the bottom of my heart I love you guys. Love you grandma and Let's get right to this video, but I wanted to change up the mood. I saw this on Instagram You know, I had to make a video about it. This is a crazy post that someone Posted I'm not sure if they were serious or trolling, but we're gonna get right to this so post is a Single man over 30 is a big red flag, especially with no kids I'm gonna be honest with you, I totally disagree there Let me just kind of Say this first a lot of my close friends are married and Or have children multiple children and they are above the age of 30 So shout out to them, you know, hey, I'm all I'm all four people, you know You know loving their family members and then and growing with their families are all for it. You feel me? So I'm gonna say this first Now let me get into my point I'm 30 I Don't have any children. I I wouldn't say I'm single right now I'm in a talking phase with someone and I'm I'm hoping that things continue to go in the right direction that it has been so I may not be single long I wouldn't consider myself single technically because I'm actually only given this one person my time and energy and vice versa So I'm kind of in a dating phase right now. So I wouldn't say I'm single But if I was I'd still fit this kind of this criteria. I Don't think it's a big red flag at all I think it's quite the opposite Once again, no disrespect to anyone that have children at the age of 30. There's nothing wrong with that You know, if that's how things panned out in your life That's how things panned out But because you're 30 and you don't have any children in your single that doesn't mean there's something wrong with you You know that maybe that can mean okay. Well, I'm not ready to have children I'm more focused on what I got going on in my life. Well, I'm not ready to be in a relationship right now I'm focusing on what's important in my life And it's funny because it's post is coming from a woman So it's like at what point can a man just focus on himself and Work on himself not to say that, you know, you can't have children at a later point But why you got to have children in your 20s? You know, it's crazy my mom always told me never to rest to have kids Never to rush to be in a relationship Take your time enjoy your 20s because once you have a child once you are in a serious relationship You know, things are different. It's not you that comes first It's other things that you have to take care of especially with children If you have a child you don't come first anymore Unless you're trying to be a bad parent Your child comes first if you're in a relationship, you can still kind of put yourself first But you know, if you end up getting married to that person that changes Because now you got to make sure your wife is good. You feel me? So this is this is one of those Silly idiotic posts that don't make a lick of sense, bro Like I said, I hope this person is trolling They got to be trolling or maybe they could be serious and maybe people look at you or you and you know I know kids and you single or there's something wrong with you. No, I just want to chill I just want to enjoy my life, you know, those are big responsibilities being in a committed relationship Especially nowadays is a very big thing. I don't know how many people I've seen in a relationship One month the next month they not in a relationship and Everybody's for the streets now because it didn't work out, you know, I said, I don't know how many times I've seen that I don't know how many times I've heard stories from my own personal friends that say wait to have children I'm hurting a few times from Dub and he loves his kids, you know, he loves his family But he's always saying wait to have children when you're you know I wouldn't say when you're ready because most people aren't ready to have children But don't rush into it Don't be quick to just jump in to bed with someone and have kids with that person because you're tied to that person Pretty much for the rest in the rest of your life Even after the child is older over the age of 18, you're still there's still gonna be some ties to that person So you just don't want to be out here Smashing any chick and getting them pregnant either. You feel me? So I don't know what I don't know what What world we living in we're having a kid and We're not having a kid and not being in a relationship means you're the problem There's a oh, there's a big red flag on you because what you're 30. No kids. No girl. What are you doing? You're a psycho. What? That's that's the world we live in ladies and gentlemen. That is the world we live in Damned if you do damned if you don't if you're a guy if you have kids And you're in a relationship What are you doing? If you don't have kids and you're not in a relationship, what are you doing? Like what can I do? What can I do man? What more do you want from me man? So I just wanted to make this quick video cuz I just I found that funny man when I find funny posts like this I have to I have to make a video on it cuz I'd be like what the hell is this world coming to where I can't Even be a single man with no kids without someone saying oh, you're the problem. I Guess man. We're coming down below. Let me know. Am I tripping here? I don't think I'm tripping here I think I think I'm on the right path here when I say this person Definitely doesn't know what they're talking about. They definitely gotta be trolling or they They really have had some bad experiences with single guys with no kids But probably had some of the best experiences with Guys that was in relationships and had children That's a conversation for another day, but I appreciate all the love and support man Thank y'all so much for all the condolences y'all been sending to me and my family. We appreciate it I appreciate y'all kicking it with me and I see y'all on the next one. Peace