 the Joe Harry window graphing the sharing of self within a relationship the Joe Harry window developed by Joe Loft and Harry Ingram graphs one person's willingness to disclose and openness to feedback within one relationship think of a close relationship you have with another person my relationship with Bob the vertical line shows how willing you are to disclose or share personal thoughts with that person the horizontal line shows how open you are to receiving feedback information about yourself from that person now you can view the Joe Harry window of your relationship with Bob open what you both know about you secret what you know about yourself but Bob doesn't know blind what Bob knows about you but you don't know about yourself unknown what neither you nor your partner knows about you this completes this learning object the Joe Harry window