 What's going on you guys? It's your boy Lloyd here with the single guy channel. I have a very special guest here today I've been following this guy for a long time. Mr. Dave Ferrata, what is going on guys? It is good to be on. When I heard Lloyd was in Mexico City I hit him up like, bro, we got to make some approaches. So that's what we did today. That's exactly what we did So in this video, we're basically be breaking down the different approaches that we did. Our Spanish is not that good But the language of love is universal So in this video we're going to show you some approaches that went well and some that didn't go so well So let's get right into the video All right, so this one was freaking painful. I Talked right to talk to her on the phone. It was my first approach. My Spanish was awful. I was stumbling over my words a lot What did you think about it Dave? I mean the first approach to the day is always tough, right? A lot of times you get rejected You know, you're not really feeling it yet Sometimes you need that rejection to really just get your mindset, right? You're like, all right I'm approaching girls today. It's time to get my shit together. Yeah, exactly I think the one thing I would give myself props for was like I just didn't give a shit that she was on the phone Kind of interrupted her. Yeah, but at the same time, too If you notice she gave me a test. She was like, are you actually looking for the Starbucks? Of course I'm not looking for the Starbucks. Yeah, you have the opportunity to tell her no I was just wanted to talk to you. I thought you're pretty cute, but I back down from that Once you back down at that point is basically game over, but you still did some good things I mean, yeah Like you said, you had the balls to approach it and you kept it going even though it was awkward and maybe a little painful But sometimes that's what you got to do Like sometimes the interactions are gonna go from awkward to really good real quick But the only way to know is if you keep it going. Yeah, usually the first approach kind of kind of goes up being like that But you know what man, you shake off the jadeus and get yourself ready for the rest of the day, right? Exactly So All right, so what did you think of that David? So the first thing that sticks out to me was that I focus too much talking about the dog versus being direct And bro, I don't know anything about dogs really, especially like like these different breeds and stuff I talked to her because I thought she was cute and I should have said that instead of kind of caught myself in Just no man's land of talking about dog breeds while she was in the middle of playing fetch It just didn't really make sense. Yeah, I remember filming this actually and um, you know I actually thought it was going really well when you were talking to her I remember her body language. She actually if you watch in the video She checks him out right before they start talking and so even though it maybe felt like it wasn't going too well Like the girl was into him. I just think you ejected a little too early Yeah, I think I used the situation of her like she had just thrown the ball to play fetch with her dog and her dog I guess was really bad at fetching to come back with the ball It was kind of an awkward situation Yeah, I kind of used that situation as an excuse to leave versus being like no I'm just going to go direct on her right now and fucking I'll walk up there with her with the dog And just see what happens. That's what I should have done. Yeah, exactly But again, even though all of that stuff was like could have been improved I mean the girl was still into you and I just think if you had stayed in there for a little bit longer Would have been good. Should I actually get with it, bro? Yeah, exactly I have a video for you. I'm looking for the starbucks Okay, you live here? Oh, okay It's just the United States and I'm here for a few months to do business. Where are you going? To the office Oh, okay Okay, okay Okay All right, so this girl was actually like really really shy. I remember when I stopped her she was like A little bit a little bit disjointed I think some things I could have done better for sure was When I first walked up to her I had that whole starbucks line And like that just didn't seem like it gelled with what I was trying to say and I think I should have just gone directly Like hey, you know, I stopped you I saw you and just wanted to keep talking to you And so I did say that at some point, but it just felt a little awkward the way I led into it Yeah, it's probably better to lead with that going into it. So she knows they are this guy thinks I'm sexy. He wants to talk to me That's why he's here But you still did a good job of at least doing it later in the interaction, which is better than nothing And you also did a really good job of stopping her Which from that from that position of you having to kind of like run up from behind here and stop her That's never easy bro. So kudos for that. Yeah, and the truth is the girl ended up being really really into me So, um, you know I texted her later. She responded and so maybe we'll figure something out for this week But for that, you know, it just goes to show you that no interaction is going to be perfect You're going to mess up a lot of things, but sometimes you can still be successful Sometimes you're just going to be the normal dude going up there just having a normal conversation and going for the number And sometimes that's all you're going to do Okay He is me fuerte I All right, Dave. So what'd you think? All right, man So the first thing that sticks out to me is that I injected way too early Even though we kind of had a good quick interaction I probably should have stuck with it and kept standing there after she went to her car and she might have came back and Yeah, I think you know you actually did pretty good You know when you walked up you were self-amused like I remember watching this actually I remember when you said respect though I was just like I remember cracking up, but I watched that. Um, but yeah, I thought it was actually pretty good It just seemed like you left it early Yeah, and the story actually isn't over because what happened next bro Because actually what ended up happening was that uh, he walked to the car and I saw the girl and I kind of had a Feeling she was going to go back to him and that's exactly what happened She walked right back to Dave um walked up to him and actually asked him out She wanted to get a drink with him right then Yeah, man It took me by surprise because I thought the interaction was over All of a sudden I get a top of my shoulder and she asked me out. I'm like, what the hell's going on here Yeah, exactly that goes to show man Like a lot of these girls that we were talking to sometimes they were liking us and we self-consciously You think that oh i'm messing up right now. She doesn't like me I think the bottom line here is man You want to stop looking for reasons to leave the interaction and start looking for reasons to stay And that's going to make interaction so much more strong Let's go to the Instagram Okay Well in this interaction, I actually thought it went pretty decently The way I was talking I was more assertive I was more secure in my words The one thing I wish I would have done better was that when she offered to give me your Instagram I jumped on that a little too quickly and I wish I would have gotten a phone number instead Yeah, that being said you did do a really good job keeping the conversation going while you were getting while while you're exchanging info A lot of times it's awkward silence when that's happening and it just it makes it weird for both of you Another good thing you did was you went direct right from the start Which like you didn't wait to the middle. You didn't give some bullshit excuse When I'm right direct and I think that really helped the interaction to let her know like hey This guy's talking to me because he's digging. Yeah, I actually think I did a better on this one Like I went in with 100 as opposed to like maybe 98 or you know much less from the other one Yeah, it's about that commitment And the other thing I did too that I actually liked was I kept talking to her after she gave me your Instagram You know made sure it kept the conversation going talked about the different areas that we could possibly hang out in And that's really going to make sure that this number is not a flake If you guys haven't seen our first video about approaching girls in Mexico City You can check it out right here If you're looking for more approach videos and you've seen both of these already check out Dave's playlist right here Dave, thank you so much for joining me. Sure, man. That's a good time guys If you're looking for quality content about dating relationships and also becoming the man that you always should be Check out Dave's channel. Thanks a lot you guys. Good luck out there