 How to Listen Better Listening well is one of the most important communication skills for success. Listening consciously or unconsciously sets the tone for interaction and fosters truthful and natural communication. People who perceive that they are being listened to are more willing to express themselves. What does it take to become a better listener? Putting yourself in the other person's shoes is a good place to start to really hear what is being said. Sometimes judgment occurs during conversations. Judgment is an internal reality for the listener. Attempting to put yourself in the other person's shoes will help place those thoughts in proper perspective. A good way to begin active listening is by not worrying about making a good impression in your response while the other person is speaking. To listen respectfully, it is important to avoid the following behaviors. Interrupting, changing the subject, bringing the topic back to yourself, and getting off on a tangent. After hearing another person's point of view, it takes practice to accept the time and silence needed to make a thoughtful response. The person who is talking shows respect by not rambling. He needs to think about what it is that he wants to convey and to communicate as clearly as he can. It is important to provide feedback, paraphrase what has been said, or ask for clarity when necessary. You really want to understand what is being said. How can the other person feel heard if he feels misunderstood? When you are aware of good listening skills and practice them, your body language will convey your interest. Attentiveness, focus, and patience automatically invite clear and constructive conversation. You have completed this learning object, How to Listen Better.