 I have a lake tonight new video When the narcissist realizes you're gone at some point you've had enough of them You've had enough the lies the games the manipulation the abuse And you just don't want to deal with that anymore You want some peace You want some quiet and They won't realize that initially Because they're so arrogant. They think you're always gonna come back They expect you to always be there for them. So they're not thinking that you're just gonna walk out and leave and They never come back again They're not expecting you to do that, but of course many of you have been through enough and You're at that point where you just don't want to deal with them anymore Initially they want to expect it It's only when you maintain no contact for a long period of time and You persistently avoid their Hoover attempts That is what will really make them realize you're gone and when they do realize you're gone They will feel rejected They will feel unimportant insignificant Relevant and it will cause a narcissistic injury It will make them very angry And they will see it as though you have done something to them They will see it as an attack and it will make them Want to tear you down? Which in their minds is self-defense They see it as though they're protecting themselves So they will start a community campaign against you. They will say all of these horrible things About you two other people. They will discredit you They will try to destroy your work life your business Whatever that you are successful in they will try and take it away from you because at this point They have no use for you. I Mean they can't use you because you're gone they know you're not coming back and as we know When you're no longer there to have a purpose and they no longer have a use for you They discard they destroy they throw it away So they will try to tear you down at that point the mask will come all the way off and you will see exactly who they are When they know that they have to move on When they know that they have no other choice That is when you will see who they really are Until that point you may not even know them You may not even know who you're dealing with it's only when They start to see that this is the end you're going you're not coming back Up until that point It may feel like you never even knew them So yeah, while I do advise going no contact not responding to the Hoover attempts healing I recommend all of that but you need to be very careful when you do that Because you never know how they're going to react I Can try to predict it in my videos But something sometimes they will do things that you never expect them to do That is why you need to be very cautious and you need to protect yourself You have to remember that this is a very dangerous personality disorder So you never know how they're going to respond They can be very unpredictable at times So you do need to be aware of that but in the beginning there's so arrogant They think that the best thing slits in sliced bread. They think they're never gonna you're never gonna leave them And they look at it like they can just leave and come back whenever they want and they expect you to be waiting for them And if one day you're not then they just see her as a joke in the beginning They just think it's only a matter of time until you do go back Until you do let them back in That's how they're looking at it. But of course they are impatient and it's only a matter of time until They start to see that you really mean it this time that you're really not going back And then they will get really mad And they will try to destroy you as you can see I am At this lake tonight It's very peaceful down here I don't think I've been to this one before and I think my Apartment is just there somewhere a new outfit today Horeo Amani those of you who Seem quite a lot of my videos won't know I Like Amani even got the matching joggers and the sneakers But of course I need to be working extra hard To be able to afford these kind of things It is very Very expensive But actually I think I'm getting to At age in my life now Where I don't really put so much importance on Design of clothes and I mean when I was younger I would have some pretty extreme things Like gold sneakers like these massive leather jackets and And Yeah, I can understand when I'm younger You know, we all want to look cool We all go through that phase in our lives now I'm older. I think I am moving Away from that kind of stuff. I thought I would treat myself to Some new clothes and sneakers because of course I'm traveling around a lot And I've only got a few things that I bring with me and When I'm washing the same clothes all the time They do get worn down quite quickly, but yeah, it's good to treat yourself now and again As long as it's not an extremes Whatever we Do anything to excessively It's usually to compensate for something Something that we feel that we are deficient in So I think it's important to remember that Everything should be done in moderation you got to have a balance with everything. Yeah, this is it That's the video for today. I hope you enjoyed it. 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