 Hi y'all she was sitting I'm back okay video request topic of the day someone requested this okay this is not coming from my mental but I thought I would cover the subject since a lot of people have been asking me they wanted me to discuss interracial dating interracial marriage what do I think about it should women date interracially if they can't find their match in their own race I think women should do whatever they want okay that's just how I feel if you want to date interracially do it okay why why do you have to ask permission just go for it because I can't stop you they can't stop you no one's gonna stop you it's all yourself you know first of all if you think it's gonna be an issue in your family discuss it first you know say well mom what if I brought home a white girl or a black girl or whatever race you are or black guy or white guy or Asian guy or Hispanic Latina Latino whatever any other race besides yourself what if I brought home one of those kind of guys what would you think and listen to what your parents say first see how they feel about it and if they are like well I don't care as long as you're happy you can support you and I don't care it doesn't bother me or if they're like what what do you mean well I don't I don't agree with it and you know if get their feelings first because they're gonna be in your family if you you know they're gonna be around your family so get what they think first you know if they don't agree with it blah blah blah blah and you're still gonna do it anyway sometimes they come around sometimes they don't so and once you get that past you know the family issue about it then then you can make your decision and a lot of women feel that different races can actually give them what they want more than their own race so they go over there but then you have a lot of people that will be mad at you because of this this isn't that and then you got a lot of people who will understand why you did it because of the mental issues that a lot of races deal with and so they will understand but you got to have a thick skin because that is a challenge to date interracially in America it is a challenge so if you want the problems of a normal relationship added on to the problems of an interracial relationship then that's fine you know it's just going to be a little bit more issues a little bit more people staring this this and that so I mean if you're willing to deal with that then fine go ahead but there are some women whose beauty or standard of beauty in America is not there are some women in America whose whose look does not fit the standard of beauty so among their own kind for example a lot of black men do not like dark skin or darker women a lot of black men are programmed to like certain looks and they're a woman light skin long hair and this is why like you see a lot of people bleaching and straightening their hair and getting wigs and weeds okay it's not for it's not for you know any other races for their own race which is crazy right so I know right I mean if y'all didn't know now you know so a lot of these darker women they're like shunt a lot of them are you know called names and bullied in school and stuff like that and so they start disliking their own black men because their own black men will not touch them date them be seen with them they make fun of them blah blah blah especially in America so they tend to date outside their race which is understandable I understand that okay I would not say okay don't do it da da da da da because who else are they gonna date okay there are very few black men that are going to date and in bulk you know the darker women so the darker women either go for a super super light black guy who wants a darker woman because a lot of them too or a white guy or his fan guy okay and these other races will accept her as she is because they think she's beautiful okay they think that you know it's just a black woman doesn't they don't see shades and colors and textures and you know tones of skin and you know stuff like that they just see what they see black and white you know you know of course the skin is a little bit darker and then the skin is a little bit lighter and they obviously can see that but they don't think that it's a big deal like a lot of other people do because let's face it in America a lot of black people think that the lighter your skin is the better treatment you get better jobs you get blah blah blah blah the better partner you get blah blah blah blah so they want to make children with certain colors of people so that their kids will have the same treatment it's crazy but that's how it goes we all know the history behind that so I'm not gonna really get into it but if you want to date and racially that's your that's your prerogative I mean my mom dated interracially as y'all can see I'm mixed my dad is Puerto Rican my mom is black my sister my older sister her dad is white so you have you're gonna have mixed kids you're gonna have mixed races you're gonna have interracial dating but see back in the day but my mom was trying to hook up it was illegal y'all she could not get married like she could marry a white guy she could marry outside her race so that's why a lot of people today still have this issue about it because it was illegal like in the six in the late 60s is when it became illegal so it's not that new I mean it seems like it's been forever but it hasn't so my one of my good friends she was a dark-skinned girl and she married a white guy he was very nice respectable he respected her he gave her everything she ever wanted like I think I told y'all about her a while back she he bought her a bar her own business they had two houses he bought her brand-new BMW and shopping and whatever she wanted and he married her and I used to hang out with her and I am an eye witness of how her own kind treated her because of her skin tone they treated her like dirt they treated her like trash they wouldn't even bother with her unless they just wanted to sleep with her they would never take her seriously they could not see her as wifey and so yes I understand why certain women would date outside their race okay and also culturally like if you grew up in a predominantly white area and you all your friends are white or Hispanic or Asian and you tend to be attracted to those type of people those type of environments and that's what you're just attracted to them I don't see any issue with it and you know because sometimes if you go out into the world and you were raised in a certain area or you know and you're talking intelligent you have you know certain standards and that a lot of other races or the same races as you are not going to be raised in that same environment so it's kind of going to be a clash anyway I know that happened to my nephew he was raised like in a really nice neighborhood in a really predominantly white area and he dates white girls because he's just that way he's like you know Carlton from Fresh Prince and there's nothing wrong with that okay he knows who he is you know his his mom his dad you know they had financial abundance and they could afford to live in you know one of the nicest neighborhoods so you know that's what happens and you know he's still young you know he has time to explore options to date this kind of person to date that type of person and to see what you know what's all about and I don't knock anybody for dating interracially if you date interracially for the wrong reasons then I have a problem with that you know if you date interracially because you can't meet the standards of your own women and you will go to another race to exploit them I think it's something wrong with that because you'll have a lot of black guys who were expected to do this this this and that and they didn't want to do it so they say well I'll just go get a Latina or a white girl who will accept me as I am and who will work and I don't have to work and I can just sit home and you know I'm attractive and they're just okay so they'll take me and take care of me because you know they're not expecting me to be the man of the house or they're not expecting me to pull my own weight because they feel lucky to be with me so a lot of a lot of guys will go to other races for the wrong reasons because their standards are not as in demand they're like they're not demanding that that he does certain things that his own kind would want him to do for example if I was if I was with a guy and I said well you need to go and get a really good job you need to finish college you need to get an education you need to be able to you know handle these bills take care of these bills pull your weight around here you need to be able to help the kid with homework you know if we have a child we take them to the park all the stuff that you're supposed to do right he's like man I don't want to do that I just want to lay around play PlayStation all day so he'll go to a woman who he thinks will be lucky to have him of a different race because you know it's different and they don't want to you know offend or anything and they just want to be accepting and explore this new you know thing and oh he's so cute and handsome and he's got a six-pack and all this stuff they get blinded okay so I'm not saying all of them I mean some of them have dated some white girls some Latina girls have dated black men all their lives and they know the game as well they know what not to fall for either but the ones that haven't the ones that feel lucky to be with them and stuff like that they're being exploited and I don't like it I don't like it either way I don't like when men exploit any woman you know I think it sucks and it's the same for some black women some black women will be like well I'll just go get me a white guy he'll take care of me and and I'll have to deal with with you and be in a scrub and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah you know they'll do it out of spite or revenge on their last boyfriend or girlfriend and you know people do crazy stuff for different reasons and let's get the whole race thing out of out of it and you like somebody be with them if you don't like them don't be with them if you're just using somebody to use them and exploit them because you can't make it in your own race because you don't have what it takes then you know admit it you can't just go around exploiting women a lot of these guys will go to foreign country countries and exploit these women and come back here and still be losers you know so I don't like women exploit women period and if you want to date outside of your race I think your standard should still be the same you know if if you're dating a black guy he needs to have the same things as on that on that list as if you're dating a white guy it shouldn't change you know you shouldn't have to lower your standards depending on the race that you're with I'm just I'm just saying so I know this is like a touchy topic and I'm not against interracial dating I am a product of interracial marriage and so is my sister and my brother okay we're all mixed children so I don't have a problem with it how could I I am the product of it so y'all put what y'all think in the comments and if women should date inter interracially why why not have you dated interracially I know I have I've dated most races that there is on the planet I had before I got married I I didn't I didn't sleep with all of them but I did date them I said okay let me try Asian let me try you know it was like I just wanted to see how everybody was and you know there's nothing wrong with that now I've never used any of them I never I didn't sleep with all of them and you know it's good to get out there and see what's out there culturally and all that kind of stuff I don't I don't mind it but when I married I didn't marry a black man yes I married a black man because he met my standards on my list okay it wasn't about color because if somebody else would have walked in with those same standards and treated me the same way I probably would have been married to them so it's not about the color it's about my standards and what I want and if they meet the standards more power more power to them okay so I'll see y'all later