 What's going on you guys welcome to the single guy channel. My name is Lloyd today. I had a very special guest here mr. Dave Barata was going on guys Dave Barata is here. We are going to dissect some horrific text conversations that some of our Followers viewers they shall remain nameless have sent us and basically what we're gonna do is we'll be getting a lot of questions From guys wondering how to not be needy over text. Well by the end of this video. I think they're gonna know how to Alright cool. Let's get right into it. Basically this first text conversation This is kind of we've changed a few of the details around And it's basically a situation where it was going well with a girl. He got this girl's number They made plans to meet up later that day. So this is him texting the morning of so Dave Why don't we when you read us the first message that he sends. Let's dive in so the first text man This one's a doozy Good morning with two emojis and a kissy face So what do we think about that good morning text when he was your opinion of the morning text So a lot of people say oh you like send a good morning text Like it's a it's a good way to be sweet to a girl She's gonna love it women say this to a lot of women say that yeah But that's not really the case like there's no reason to be texting a girl before nine and there's just not Yeah, good morning already not starting off in a good what do we think about all those emojis, too Yeah, I mean some emojis aren't bad I mean especially in your first conversation when a girl doesn't really know you yet It can help you kind of express yourself a little bit more But there's no reason to go hammer out with two emojis. It's just not a good text man It's just a bad precedent for the interaction. That's a very bad precedent my opinion about emojis look man If you like doing emojis, I they work for some people I don't use a whole lot of emojis, but that's just who I am but this is too many already So she responds with a hey, how are you so it sounds like she's playing ball, right? She's playing ball a little bit. It sounds like she's playing ball so far. Okay, and then he says I'm good I was just thinking I miss you smiley face winky face So so first off No reason for him to say that like a girl doesn't care if you miss her She doesn't need to know if you miss her. Yeah She wants she wants you to be doing other shit in your life She doesn't want you to be all focused on this one day. I can't wait to see you girl Like that's not what she wants exactly and it's actually a selfish text if you read into the nuances of it because what he's really saying is Hey, say you miss me back and we're gonna see the next text message. He says after that I was gonna read it right into it. So she doesn't respond real shocker there man I can't believe that can't believe that right and then at 8 59 a.m. He gets nervous and he says all right. Do you miss me too? And then he does a bunch of cute emojis after that. That's one of the most painful texts. Maybe of all time You guys want to know what it's like to be needy over text message. You see it right here So basically Yeah, exactly what we thought was happening and then even then she responds. She goes yeah, okay That should pretty much to let him know that he needs to stop doing what he's doing right now Change the pace completely Yeah, what he's doing is seeking validation. He wants to know okay. She misses me. She likes me This is gonna go well He needs that confirmation to feel good about himself to feel good about the interaction because at the end of day He doesn't believe it. He doesn't believe it doesn't believe in himself and that text message says it loud and clear to the girl She knows right away. This guy is not confident. He's insecure Exactly. I don't want to see this guy. Yeah, let's let's delve further into the cringe So the next thing he says is good Drop the two more bulging there just to just approve the point just to bring it home Yeah, exactly and then no shocker. She doesn't respond after that because there's really nothing to respond I mean even if it was going well, I wouldn't expect her to respond to that and then so 941 a.m. Passes It's about you know an hour or so whatever he's starting to sweat a little bit and then he says are you excited? Are you excited for later today? So he's trying to confirm the date Which I assume which was what he was trying to do in the first place He might as well just be like hey, I'm a huge bitch. Are you cool with that? Yeah, pretty much and then she says yeah, actually I might have a lot of work so I'll let you know So she's not cool with that. She's not cool I mean a bitch is what he's trying to say just sound like she's showing up for the state There's no chance. She shows up to either. I bet my life she's in trouble. She bet she's not showing up for this day And we're gonna stop it right there because there's really no need to continue looking at the rest of this conversation I would say in generally there's a few things that we could touch up on here What do you think about it when girls say I'll let you know is that generally a good thing? Definitely not when a girl says I'll let you know that's big big red flag that she's gonna be flaking But she's a flaky present in general. Yeah, it's probably a sign that you either haven't set up the date in a specific You know straightforward manner or you haven't confirmed it the right way So she's giving you this wishy-washy response. Absolutely man. Yeah, I think look maybe once in a blue moon It's okay, or maybe there's certain circumstances where she literally just doesn't know her schedule and then she really will let you know But most of the time I would say they're saying that because they're probably gonna blow you or they're saying it Maybe they might see you but they're seeing if there's something better, okay? I'll let you know means hey like you're not good enough to put in my schedule quite yet So I'm gonna see if there's something better and then maybe I'll get back And it's no surprise after a conversation like this so she might have been thinking hey I'm down to meet up with this guy at the beginning, but then he just kept swinging for the founder No, I don't know how to explain what he was trying to do there, but he basically just shot the bed in every single way Killing a chance of her meeting up. Yeah, and it might sound ridiculous But guys like honestly look at the messages. You're sending sometimes I guarantee you some of you people are sending a lot of these messages that we just outlined So if you do any of these sorts of things, you're probably in the wrong place and this girl Another example of this type of text that a lot of guys by saying is instead of being like do you miss me? I might be like oh did you have fun last night? Just just to try to get that validation. Oh, she had fun Okay, yeah, this is awesome. Yeah after a date after yeah, so yeah cool So let's go into the better version of this which is a lot shorter Yeah, I mean we're right here. We're keeping it simple because keep in mind There's really only two things to two reasons you need to be texting a girl right that's either to build rapport with her Especially if you didn't get a chance to do so when you when you met up with there And then the second reason is to set up the date. So if you're not doing one of those things You're probably fucking up. Absolutely. Absolutely. So in this basically have the same message He's sending it a little bit later around 10 32 a.m. So he's not texting you're like right when he wakes up He's waiting a little bit What's texting right now Not that that's bad, it's not that's horrible to text her at 8 30 She's probably waking up to that's the thing she's probably waking up and she's not in the mood to text this guy right off the bat You know, she's not her best mood either whereas at 10 30. She's a little bit more open up. She's getting her day started Yeah, yeah, just a little bit more relaxed So hey and then so this is what he says he says hey I got to do some errands later today. So I might be five minutes late, but I'll see you around seven and Then right after that she says oh totally okay. See you there Perfect, dude I mean there's not really much else that needs to be said a couple cool things that I like about this message if you guys are Worrying about being needy on text is that he's basically saying hey, I got to do something So I'm gonna be five minutes late now look no one's gonna cancel a date for being five minutes late But it does give them the option to tell you if they're not gonna show up So if she was gonna blow them off that she wasn't playing on show enough. She's like, oh, no, that's totally okay I have a lot of stuff to do. I'm actually not gonna be able to make it. So you just save yourself getting stood up But a lot of times they usually they're usually okay with it the interaction a little beforehand and he didn't completely blow it So she said yeah totally okay. Yeah. Yeah, you kept a high value kept it simple Made it happen and that's gonna be a date versus the last conversation where he's he's screwed it all up Exactly and I think you were also talking about to Dave how you don't even have to send that sometimes You can just be like hey see what seven or just like a real quick message to confirm And that's really all you need to do like you know in this case less is more. Yeah, definitely So yeah, you guys if you're wondering about how to get your text messages up to par and like how to text girls in The right way talk to girls in the white right way and attract them Hit us both up like we know what we're talking about and we'll break down a couple more of these if you feel like they're You guys are wondering how to become a better man as well as get the girls that you want in your life I recommend you check out Dave's channel is there anything they should know any links that they should check out for your channel I have a couple texting I have a couple really good texting videos as well if you want to see more of those and also yes It's gonna help you get the girls you want become the man you're meant to be so Also, let me check it out. We'll put the links in the description there And if you can't see them on the screen, you'll check in the description and they'll be right there So thanks a lot you guys good luck out there