 Good day, May 40 here, about to step on to the Sydney Harbour Bridge and I've been having a good laugh at myself, mate, because I'm always just so enthusiastic about something or another and The topics of my enthusiasm have frequently changed And I say, it's like 40, what the hell, man? You're always enthused about something But Where's the consistency, mate? Are you a stayer? You're just flapping around in the breeze The breeze of the enthusiasm of your You're constantly changing opinions and perspectives. What the hell? I made a mistake pedestrian access I was wrong but you know what some Some people really like it Right, like a couple of introverted Australian bloggers get together and it's like how you're going. Oh good, mate How about you? Yeah, good, and that's the end of it but At least with my serial enthusiasm There's like 20 different topics that I want to talk about So I could be a little bit bossy. Oh, let's go here. Let's go there, but sometimes it's a blessed Entity to the more passive introverted bloke so our strengths and weaknesses I depend on the situation sometimes our Weaknesses become strengths and our strengths become weaknesses depending on the situation So I often go into a lot of my social interactions knowing that a lot of people are highly introverted and it's just trying to bring joy and bring a laugh and Then sometimes I have a step. It's like oh, that really offended me, mate So now I misjudge. So generally speaking People who use humor are pretty good at reading social cues All right, because you'll get so much blowback if you miss judging the situation so I just Reading a Vox article on humor And so there's like self denigrating humor is, you know, affirming humor is releasing the tension humor and Generally speaking got a sense of humor. I'll make you more of a pleasure to be around lift other people up but Once I noticed that totally wearing on people so from around people constant basis Then I need to dial it back a bit On the other hand when I'm just with people on an intermittent or occasional basis then Then it's more of a time to just let it rip and people enjoy the change of pace