 Hey everyone, this is Helena Hart and it says we're live so welcome to our live stream on how to Elevate your value in a man's eyes and be that one woman that he never wants to live without I'm here with my good friend and fellow coach Leah Lake today. So welcome Leah. Thank you so much for being here with me Thanks, Helena. I'm so excited for what we end up talking about today I'm excited too. We did a video a couple weeks ago on a similar topic over on my channel And they got such a phenomenal response. So I know you guys are gonna love this We're gonna be talking about some of these concepts in a way that hopefully you've never heard before So for those of you who don't know Leah and aren't familiar with her work She is a feminine energy love and relationship coach who helps women transform their Relationships with both men and money so they can attract the love and abundance. They want in their life So Leah, I'm so excited to jump right in Let's just let's just start right off at the top. What would you have a woman do? What's the first thing you would have her do if she came to you and wanted to learn how to shift Shift her vibe and elevate her value in a man's eyes and just be that one woman that he never wants to lose Okay, so whether I love this so whether or not she wanted to Attract like a new man into her life or even with her current partner The number one thing is to make sure for her to know Her value and her worth and one of the things that I have my clients do is to Write out something I call a love compass Which is where she writes down like the top 10 feelings that she wants to feel in her ideal relationship And she can do this with other things as well But when a woman knows what she values Then she can put like whenever a man comes in So so she has her feelings like loved adored cherished safe secure Then when a man comes into her life if she doesn't feel that way Then she knows like this isn't a fit for me and the more she can feel those feelings then The more she can attract that masculine energy man to her And she'll know if she's with the right man or not Amazing I love everything use I always love everything Leah says and we were having some issues with the camera for a second, but I think everything's back online It wasn't switching over to you for some reason, but I think it's good now I just want to say hi to everybody joining Adri Mary Fatima Stacy Stacy says she's been watching My videos our videos and taking action as working with her man I'm so happy to hear that grace says hello from Hawaii. Oh, Leah's in Hawaii. I'm gonna be there next month Thanks for watching everyone sherry Margaret and Inez so happy to have you on today. Thank you so much for joining us So what what would you say Leah to a woman who isn't used to this who maybe? doesn't like know her value as a woman in a relationship or or has a tendency to like put a man on a Pedestal and Like want to go after him even in very subtle ways like try to prove herself to him or win him over We've all been there right especially if we really like a guy. How would you have her start to turn this around? Okay. Oh my gosh, okay, so So I have put everything into these archetypes and I'll keep it really brief but Okay to elevate into her empowered Feminine and her masculine right because we want to empower both so that we attract both to us but specifically When our so our feminine energy attracts to us our own empowered masculine energy or Wounded depending on what it is and I know you have said this as well So we want to make sure that what we're attracting in matches those empowered archetypes And what can happen if a woman doesn't know okay? so the first part is knowing what she values and What her worth is so that's the activation of the queen and the queen must know Who that she must choose wisely who she allows into her kingdom? Queen dumb because if she doesn't choose wisely everything is at stake, right? That's where the energy leaks come in and she knows by the way. She feels that's what she values She values how she feels over anything else over any doesn't matter what the king Brings to the table if she doesn't feel the way she requires to feel Amazing and you know what just occurred to me. We talked so much over on my channel We've done countless videos on these empowered masculine and feminine energies versus versus the wounded masculine and feminine So we should probably you know just in case you know people aren't familiar with those terms Let's explain that a little bit. Do you want me to start or do you want to just jump in? Yeah? No, go ahead. You start. Okay, perfect. So yeah So Leah and I talked so much about empowered versus wounded masculine and feminine and men and women all have both You know we can all have different combinations of all of these four energies So we'll start with the we'll start with the wounded masculine, right wounded masculine energy would be like bullying Narcissistic tendencies basically trying to push and shove your way into just getting what you want without any consideration for the other person it shows up as like aggression and things like that. Yeah, do you want to add anything there? Yeah, so okay, so the wounded masculine is afraid of commitment. He's a bully afraid of intimacy Doesn't want to take responsibility Like blames other people and things for the way life. It's going doesn't want to be held responsible for the way things are going values quantity over quality It's the energy. So the way I like to explain it. So there's a codependent and a narcissist Line here and the wounded feminine is over here and the wounded masculine is over here, right? So there's so much area for these wounded energies and the closer you go in the more they're healed and the further out you go the more extreme the codependent and then the narcissist behaviors Perfect, okay, and if you guys have your questions about that, thank you so much for your super sweet comments By the way, this is great. Ashley says hi from Alaska. You ladies are so important in my life Julie Jade Everyone thank you so much for joining we're so happy to have you guys here Let us know if you have questions or if we're not being clear, right? So the empowered masculine energy is you know gifts freely without an agenda, right? It's there It comes in to support The feminine right to create that strong container for her so the feminine energy can be free-flowing and we have this within ourselves, it's really important to get in touch with your empowered masculine energy and Men have this as well. That's kind of my brief overview of the empowered masculine. Leah. Do you have anything you want to add to that one? Yeah, so if you imagine like a king like he makes sure that The kingdom is safe that everything is running smoothly The king also wants his partner to be able to Live life at the level that he's living right so to I can't believe how I put it before I can't remember but So he he wants that partner to be right by his side. He needs that queen, right? And so we have just this empowered Man this empowered masculine energy that is looking for That energetic match for the feminine energy Perfect. Yeah, great great explanation on that one now The wounded feminine is that like damsel and distress kind of energy, right? It's it's you know, when you lack motivation to take care of yourself or something in your life And you're kind of waiting around for a man or for someone to come in and save you It's rightly I it's that feeling constipulence of frustration or hopelessness or it's not happening yet And unfortunately a lot of people kind of misconstrue what we when we talk about feminine energy They think of that wounded feminine like oh You're just supposed to be a doormat and let a guy come and go and do whatever he wants and that couldn't be further from the truth That's actually wounded feminine energy whereas empowered feminine energy is the confidence to you know Express yourself and your needs and you know what you truly desire It's it's being the confidence to be seen for who you really are and really hold that space For what you want and not settle until what you want comes in and fills that space Leah. Do I have that right? Yes, I love that. Yes. Yes. Okay. Yes. So that wounded feminine energy So if a woman doesn't know what she values and doesn't put the priority on how she wants to feel in her ideal relationship then what tends to happen is She will give up up what she really desires in order to stay in a relationship. That's just Not really what she wants, but it's more safe, right? So she'll basically give up what she really wants in order to have some sort of security Perfect, I love that and you guys let us know what you think about these so far It sounds like this is really resonating with everyone here in the chat by the way every time I look at my phone I'm going through the chat and making sure that the everything's okay with the video I know it looks a little strange, but it's the best way that I've found to do it So um, yeah So something that was so helpful for everyone Leah in that in the last video We did over on my channel with explaining how these different energies show up in dating and relationships If you could maybe give a couple examples because these are huge concepts We I know we talk about this a lot in a program We did together called the art of getting the commitment you want So I can post a link to that if anyone's interested but for now Let's let's talk about how these manifest and play out a little bit in relationships and and how that the energies attract each other Okay, so Yeah, so basically Going back to what I was saying the woman who stays in the relationship too long And it's not it will never be what she wants it to be because she's in that lower energy archetype And then so if a woman staying in a relationship where she doesn't feel the way she wants to feel and she doesn't value herself And she doesn't value like this is what I really desire Then the masculine energy will not be able to value her either and so the they There's always a disconnect in the relationship Yeah, perfect, especially this topic we're talking about right It makes so much sense and I remember something you said in our last video that was so powerful Was men who are actually in their wounded feminine how they show up in dating being flaky being Inconsistent can you talk a little bit about that because that was probably the number one thing that that resonated with so many people Over over on our last video. Oh, yes. I love it. I love it. Okay so So many women and myself included like we've all experienced like a man pulling away withdrawing making plans but not following through um Just and leaving us like waiting. It's like we feel like we're waiting for them to make the move and they just don't quite Make it happen. Right. So that is the wounded feminine energy it is that Energy where we're like we know inside of ourselves like things should be moving along But they're not and if we are in the dating scenario It's most likely because a man is in his wounded feminine energy Absolutely. I mean who hasn't been there, right? I mean, we've all been there and it feels so it feels that they're like they're slippery Like they're just like we just can't quite get Hold of them, right? We just can't quite like lock them down into where we want to be and that feels terrible There's just no way on earth. That's ever going to feel good to you, right lia Yes, yes, and that's actually what we want to do, right? Like so when a man is like saying he's confused. He doesn't know what he wants What are the other things? Oh, I love you, but I'm not ready for a committed relationship um It was just these things that leave us confused and then we want to lock it down So then we get pulled into this energy which is moved in masculine urgency Trying to control by say having conversations about the relationship like where is it going? We're just trying to gain some form of control because everything feels out of control Absolutely, and you just said something so powerful. I wanted to like emphasize it, right when a man's in his wounded feminine No, first of all, sometimes he's just not interested, right? Sometimes he's just not into you and he's maybe a nice guy and doesn't want to just you know Rather than being straightforward. He's kind, you know, he might just back off now That's you know, we don't want to say just because the guy's not interested that he's in his wounded feminine But a lot of women say, you know, I know he has feelings for me He says he has feelings for me, but I deserve better or he's not ready to give me what I want all the things that you said So brilliantly liya So so what I love that you just said was when a man's in his wounded feminine and not consistent Maybe hot and cold a little flaky hard to get a hold of it forces us into our wounded masculine That's when we feel that urgent feeling of I need answers and and we initiate conversations about the relationship When we're coming from a place of insecurity or lack all those things that just push that man further and further away, right? Yes, yes, and I would actually love for every woman here. So there's definitely a difference between a man not being interested um But I believe a man can be empowered enough to say hey, like It was nice meeting you. I'm not I don't think there's a connection there. I wish you the best of luck Absolutely app doesn't always happen, right doesn't always happen. That's where we need to know when it's time to move on, right? Right, right. And but I and I do believe that is also wounded feminine when a man just doesn't say anything He's not interested. He just doesn't say anything. I think that's An epidemic of people are afraid to say their truth and we want to Know like, okay, he just he wasn't empowered enough to say it, but I'm empowered enough to move forward I love that. I mean we can do that too. We can we can have a hard time telling a man that oh, you know It felt great getting to know you but I don't feel that we're a good match. So, you know We'll be moving on kind of thing. So perfect. This kind of this kind of goes both ways So, um, this is great everyone. Uh, Barbara says I truly needed to hear this. Uh, let's see Um, yes, I will post the link to the the art of getting the commitment you want in the description after this Replay publishes. Hi, lori. Cheryl market. Well, we'll get to some of these questions at the end Yeah, I know one thing we really wanted to talk about was the importance of Setting boundaries when it comes to elevating your value in a man's eyes and being that woman He doesn't want to lose. So if you don't mind do can you want to talk about that now the boundaries component? Yes, okay. So if a woman is stuck, let's say she's tried everything to Attract the love of her life and nothing has worked for her most likely. She is not Upholding her own boundaries. Like she's in some kind of Victim or which means she has an inner bully that's keeping her from actually Implementing the empowered energies in her life Amazing amazing. Can you give some examples of that? Like I I know specific examples would be really helpful I mean, I've just seen that to be true across the board and pretty much all of my clients who are having this issue Um, what are some what are some ways that this might look like in real life? Okay, okay, so First we have to bring it back to this queen energy. Uh, this is how I desire to feel This is what's important to me. This is my value This is my worth like I'm not willing to be in a relationship that doesn't Allow me to feel these feelings All right, so we have to start with that so then her own Empowered energies can come in and when a man comes along that isn't a fit. She can say express that like this isn't working for me or She's not going to give into the voices that say it's never going to happen for me. Um Why this it's taking too long, you know, it's so easy for her but not for me Um What if it doesn't happen for me all of those voices that can bring you into those lower energies, right? If she has strong boundaries, that's also internal That That bound that voice comes up and they're like no like we're not going there It's so important. I mean, we've all been there too, right? Like the this voice It's like well, if I don't make it work with this guy Maybe there's not going to be anybody else that I feel this way about again I mean who hasn't been there, right? And so it keeps us stuck on these men who were just not right for us or who clearly not stepping up And showing you with their actions not just their words that they're serious and that they're moving things forward And they're not going to keep you waiting. So very very important If you guys have questions about boundaries or any specific situations Sherry has a great question. This man just took me on a 300 dollar date and then disappeared What in the world are you interested or not? Leo, what would you have to say on that? All right, so I have this timeline thing It's a three month timeline. I don't care how amazing he is. I don't care what he says to you. I don't care Um, what he does or doesn't do if he rocks your world It does not matter. You do not become invested before those three months And so this totally applies. It's like well Like I'm not going to give any energy to a man who disappeared especially after the first date Moving forward. Absolutely. I mean I couldn't agree more. Yeah, because men they can come on strong at the beginning It's not like they don't mean it. It's not like what they're it's they're not lying to you or anything But they just they feel intensely in short bursts And then sometimes after like you said those first three months The the reality of the situation kind of hits them, right? And and all of those Those good feeling brain chemicals that happen because of the newness of the situation, right? Like norepinephrine and dopamine and serotonin all of that kind of goes away And that's when you can see a man start to back off But you know we as women can get so strongly attached and feel so bonded to men Because of everything they're doing in those first three months. So we I know something you talk about What we both talk about a lot is the importance of not getting overly invested in any man unless You know some time has gone by like you said and he's showing you with his actions Which is that is that the empowered feminine not getting overly invested or that the empowered masculine or a combination of both? So I would say that's the empowered feminine Yeah, yeah, that's what I was thinking for that too. Yeah, I holding that space, right Holding that space not wanting to close that gap like okay. Things are great and I understand that urgency I know we as women we can tend to get very kind of like worked up about Looking in the distance for how the relationships all going to turn out Pretty early on right where men in general just kind of want to feel good in the moment And and if you can learn to like accept those wonderful dates and all those great things He's saying at the beginning and receive that and feel great about it without getting overly invested That's kind of like the magical combination that ensures success that you're not going to get stuck on a man Who isn't really serious about you for the long term, right? For exactly loved everything you just said and so another thing for her to just take in is that Whatever she did like about the man for her to see like, okay. I'm getting closer Like he spoiled me and I and she probably felt amazing on the date with him and his presence and to use that as a sign of like I'm getting closer rather than Um Like what happened? What did I do or didn't do did I say something rather than questioning and going into those lower energies be like I like that. I like that. That was great. Okay. Let's see what's next I really like that when we talk about that in our feminine art of attraction program basically see We've done so many programs together over the years. It's so funny how we can draw on all of them But um the you know seeing everything as evidence that you are of course going to get what you want Not staying stuck in the energy of like, oh another guy disappeared because it's going to keep you attracting those experiences Right if you're stuck in that energy rather than moving forward And something I definitely wanted to mention in this video something I believe is our last one We talked about this idea when a woman feels like she's supposed to be with a certain man Before he's kind of proven himself to her, right? You had this great analogy of like you don't want to choose him down here And then hope he meets you up here in that empowered place, right? You want to empower yourself and then see if he can come and meet you and live in your world? And I probably didn't say as brilliantly as you can but if you can talk a little bit about that That was another thing that resonated with so many people Oh, yeah, you you explained it really well But yeah, so a lot of times we meet we meet a man We feel all this chemistry and we're like, yes, right? And we it's so easy to get overly invested rather than allowing the time over time realize Okay, so I say down here because this is where it's like An imaginary man and then up here is the empowered energies, right? And so the queen will be like are you capable of meeting my king? Are you capable of running this life with me this kingdom? and So what will happen if you feel that intense chemistry a woman will tend to choose him And then she'll get blindsided or wonder like what happened when he just This is disappears But if she knows what her values are what her worth is and that's more important to her than any relationship Then she'll be able to over time Be up here and be the woman to say are you capable of being my king and then he'll meet her up here Yeah, I mean when you said that what came up for me is that you can actually inspire a man to step into his empowered energies like his empowered masculine if you're in your empowered feminine, I mean that's something I truly believe Leo What do you think about that idea? Yes, absolutely. Absolutely. And I do teach that the feminine energy goes first, right? So the masculine energy leads the dance but feminine energy Is the inspiration the spark of it all like her desire to dance sets all the masculine energy in motion and so when she Decides, this is what I value. This is my worth. This is what I desire Then out here the masculine energy starts rearranging to meet her at her level I think that's such a beautiful And I've certainly never heard that anywhere else and I'm sure everyone watching You know is feeling the same of Brigitte says hi there. I so agree with you I always give it plenty of time to know if the uh, if the man if I'm the man for him to get to know me Rather than just jumping in and hoping for the best. Yeah, that's exactly what we're talking about here Sherry says that's so powerful Um, I truly needed to hear this Barbara says so this is great You guys, uh, let's see Margaret says I found a good man And I messed it up because I've always been bad in relationships Oh, I've always been in a bad relationship. Yeah any advice for someone who who has that belief? I have something I hear all the time Okay, so she really really wants to start With just writing down. How do I want to feel in my ideal relationship? That is like her that's her love compass That is the only thing that matters when it comes to Being like that is the first thing that has to happen for her to know if she's in a good relationship or a bad relationship because it's So let's say she feels like loved adored cherished safe and secure, but like Consistently it's only 50 or 60 of the time. No No, that's a bad relationship You should feel good at least 90 of the time like that's The energy of the queen, right? We want to value ourselves so much that we can only pull in that empowered masculine energy And if we don't do it, it's not going to happen out here Wow, so Powerful are you guys just loving this or what there's like over a hundred people watching live? We'd love to hear from you. Where do you feel like you are in your most empowered places? Where where do you feel like you might be stuck in wounded energy? Like I said, we we all have different combinations of both I have certainly been in times of my life where I've kind of been coming from wounded energies We all have right and and men have this going on for themselves as well So that was so powerful. I feel like everyone should just watch that part that last minute like a hundred times I know I'm going to so that was so so great. Um Something else came to my mind. I just lost it. Oh, what would you say to a woman who has been the other thing? I'm hearing Quite often lately women who are like, okay, like I'm getting this I'm learning about masculine feminine being empowered And they just feel they're getting discouraged because they feel like they've been single for a long time And they just aren't meeting that right man, right? They they go on some mediocre dates They go on to bad dates, but but they're feeling discouraged because it's just not happening yet What would you have to say for someone in that situation? Okay, so that is okay So there could be some of the wounded energies within this there's a Um Almost like this little girl archetype of like waiting for prince charming waiting for the Something to come into your life before you feel like you can really start living your life And that's what it sounds like like I've been doing everything. I've been trying And when so the empowered archetype of the little girl is the goddess And when we can go into that goddess energy, the goddess is I am the creator I create I I'm the one I've been waiting for Right. I am the one who brings the little girl's dreams into reality And so if you imagine just what does it feel like? To embody the energy of the goddess. What does that shift in you? Like I'm telling you what would that shift in you if you felt like a little girl and then I'll you embodied the goddess I love that. I mean that's a great question. You know to me It's like when you're thinking of the the energy of like waiting It's like where is your power in that it's nowhere. Where are you in that? When I think to answer your question to think of that goddess energy So many of us a lot of times we're looking to a man to fill that space between You and you right like there's this gap that you're looking for a man to come in and fill you up And make you feel loved and secure. So I would imagine that goddess archetype You know filling herself up with love and and giving herself a sense of safety and security and fulfillment Everything we're looking for and then radiating that out Which would then naturally and organically attract those things to you or attract people in situations that would assist you In feeling that way. Does that sound like something? Yes, I love it. I love it exactly so that little girl is like I don't know who I am and I don't know if it's going to happen for me and she has all these fears But right then that attracts the wounded energy Of the masculine and that's usually that is the the little girl The extreme of that is the narcissist which preys on the energy of the little girl and that So if you've been in a narcissistic relationship he'll say like you can't have like I'm you can't have your dreams without me and He'll just take all of that little girl's energy until she has nothing left to give And it's in that repeats the cycle over and over and for a woman to get out of that She must first be activated in the queen and then into her goddess energy, which is I'm the one I've been waiting for I'm I know who I am and I create my own dreams and With that energy you could just feel it And then the empowered masculine out here is like Okay I'm coming in Yes, it's only a matter of time something. I've heard you say so beautifully, right? If you once you embody that empowered energy that goddess energy you will attract but you want only a matter of time I love that. Um stacey had a great question. Let's see. Oh, so many questions popping through If he's in his wounded feminine, can you help him through that knowing your value? What a great question Leah, I'd love to hear your thoughts on that one Okay, so he's in his wounded feminine. Can you inspire him with your value? Yes? I mean anything is possible right, so it's it with that you must have your Boundaries right to know like How much will you tolerate when do you say this isn't working? But the number one thing here is knowing that you're willing to walk away if it's not what you want That's actually the energy that inspires The wounded energy being willing to walk away. Wow great point That is one of the most powerful things you can do not to say. Hey, I'm going to walk away Strategically to try to get him to do what you want. That would be coming from your wounded masculine I would be trying to control the situation right but Coming from an empowered place being willing to walk away. That can be the hardest thing But a man can feel that I mean talk about raising your value in his eyes and being the woman He doesn't want to lose a man can feel that it's not even something you need to explain to him, right? I mean that is so powerful Rebecca has a wonderful question. How do you activate these energies of the queen and the goddess lia? I know you've been talking so much about that. Um, I know it's in one of your programs If you want to talk a little bit about how to step into those energies that would be so so valuable okay, yes, so It's in my feminine energy secrets course, which is eight weeks But it because it was so powerful I moved it into also my four week the feminine art of dating course because it's a total game changer So these active and so this is what I teach in those courses But just so you know like for the queen it is knowing what you value and I so I did Share the love compass if you write down how you want to feel um The top 10 feelings and you can do this with money. You can do this with clients You can do whatever it is that you feel like you have to go out and get That you raise your From the lower archetype to the higher archetype of the queen. This is what I value. This is what's most important to me then You will track in that masculine energy of those things that I just said the men money clients Things like that. Okay, beautiful. I love that. Yeah Yeah, keep going if you have more to say on that. Yeah Okay, so I do want to say like that Must be activated first out of all of them because what can happen is the lower feminine archetype that she'll say it's um It's going to be too hard If we or I'm not I'm going to end up alone I'm going to end up not having what I want if I If I only accept what I truly desire and so we want to make sure that You value what you want so much That This little voice that comes in of like, oh, it's not worth it. It's not worth it. I'm going to lose my safety and security um To move into um the next part which would be the little girl in the goddess Beautiful. Yeah, actually we have a related question to that. Uh shana says hi ladies He has feelings for me, but he says he doesn't want a relationship stop talking to me for three weeks Now I still care for him. What do I do or say? Yeah, it's kind of this is my perspective on this And lia, I'd love to hear your thoughts. What do you do? You know, what do you want? Do you just want this one guy or do you actually want a real Long-lasting committed fulfilling relationship out so much of the time It's about putting what you want what you truly desire for yourself Kind of ahead of your desire to just be with this one man who if he said he doesn't want a relationship My advice would be believe him, you know, and what is it that you want get in touch with what you want lia What do you have to say on that? Yeah, so I I mean I feel so passionate about this that no woman Like no man should ever be able to devastate a woman Like it just if you are in your empowered energies, there's no reason to be blindsided. There's no reason to Have a man Cheat on you or like it just won't happen when you have the when you're in this empowered Energy and if it does happen and a man and it just happens Then it's like that like okay, then I'm done and I'm not gonna put anymore a timer energy towards that Because my life is so amazing over here and I 100 believe I can attract in somebody better somebody new Perfect. I'm beautiful. I mean something I've said quite a bit in some of my other videos is it's the job of your own masculine energy To not get yourself overly invested to just like you said lia to where if a man makes a decision like leaving you Or deciding he doesn't want a relationship. You're not going to be devastated, right? Another great question that came in let's see Rebecca says so the more I'm willing to walk away from a not yet good enough relationship the more likely he is to want to step up Great question. Really interesting. You know, I would say if he's if he's the right man the more The higher chance or probability you're going to have of attracting that perfect match for you Whether it be him or someone who's even better from him. That's my understanding of that And lia what do you have to say on that before I can before I continue? Yeah, can so can you just repeat it for me? Yeah, of course. Yeah, yeah Yeah, the more so the more I'm willing to walk away from a not yet good enough relationship the more likely he is to want to step up Okay, yes Yes, I mean that Is how it works. Yes, but if he's right man for you, right? Yeah, if he's the right man and it's done out of complete authenticity of like this truly Isn't a fit right now. And so I mean I need to keep my options open. It has to come from complete authenticity I totally agree. I totally agree. Uh, let's see. Can you link to those two programs? Please? I love the sound of them Thank you. Yeah, okay. So I will include Leah maybe remind me that the Leah and I did a program called the uh the art of getting the commitment you want also the feminine art of attraction I'll have to wait till we publish this then include links to those lia's feminine energy secrets program It's already there. So you guys can go in the description right now and go check that out and also get her free gift We'll talk about this at the end, but she has a free gift on our website I know everyone's going to be interested in that. Leah has some amazing I swear every time she sends a newsletter out I stop what i'm doing and I read every single word because they're really helpful for me personally Not you know in in all areas she talks so much about attracting the right clients for you and money Not just improving your love life. So everyone go go get lia's free gift someone asked a really good question about um Alpha and data men. I can't find it right now because there's so many popping in Oh a lot of dating coaches talk a lot about alpha and data men. What's your opinion on that? Leah, what do you what do you have? Where does this fit in or do you even subscribe to that at all? Well, I mean it sounds like they're saying masculine energy men and feminine energy, right? So It just depends on what a woman wants if she wants to feel valued love cherished adored then she wants that masculine energy in an in a man um, if she wants to cherish a man's feelings over her own then the feminine energy Might be the best fit for her Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah, then Brigitte said true. I was in my masculine now. I switched to feminine. Absolutely. Yeah Someone else said he said it from the start then he ghosted me again. It's kind of what we were talking about at the beginning of this video I'm not sure if you're just joining but um, if it was it within the first three months Just just let it go. Right. Just let it go. Um, lia this this is fantastic I know I think I feel like we got to everyone's question If we didn't type it back into the comments like it's so hard to they just pop up so quickly So sometimes I missed some but um any last words or any tools or tips that you want to share When it comes to elevating your value in a man's eyes and being the woman that he never wants to lose Okay, so With activating her own masculine and feminine, right? So when she is so in love with her life and She can maintain this I call it maintaining the meantime, but where she's living her life. She's in the moment and her overall energy is calm serene and just Men crave that they crave that so much just like we crave stability in masculine energy men And it's not that a woman can't be crazy and loud and Big energetically, but if underneath there there's this like calm safe Like a the goddess energy then like that's just So easy to embody that if she she can attract that masculine energy to her so quickly because it's so magnetic Absolutely, I totally agree and we got one more question popping in Oh, uh, Rebecca says thank you so much for your thoughts. I truly value it Laurie we love you too. Thank you so much for watching. Uh, Teresa says hi ladies I have a guy friend made a comment to me that was malicious over text I distanced myself from him, but I haven't addressed it. What do I say without putting him down? Yeah, what could any woman say in this situation that might be helpful for everybody? Uh, okay, so it really kind of depends I'll get do a few options, but it really depends on what he said Like does it deserve a response? Uh might not might just be like hey, we're done communicating and I don't tolerate that behavior in my life or You she could say like that felt horrible. I think it's best that we go our separate ways That's probably what I would say if I was going to say something Yeah, me too. Absolutely. Yeah, that didn't that didn't feel good to me Yeah, depending on what you want to do what you want the outcome to be Rebecca said Oh, that's so great. Get in love with my life be in the moment with a calm serene energy We create stability in masculine energy men. Yeah. Oh my gosh. She could not agree with you more So this has been so powerful Um, if you're interested we let's talk about your free gift and of course your feminine energy secrets program Where you go so in depth into this? I know that's already in the description for everyone if you want to check both of those out But yeah, lia let tell everyone a little bit about those two Okay, so I have found okay, so Helene and I trained together we became relationship coaches together and I just started realizing that um The way that we are with men Is the same energy the same energy that attracts empowered masculine energy men is the same that brings in Anything that we desire and it's our same relationship with the universe with money with business and so my four most powerful feminine energy secrets goes deep into that and that's free on my website and then Feminine energy secrets the program I go in depth Everything a woman needs to know in order to bring her desires to her but specifically men money and clients I love it. I I mean I truly believe lia I think you do as well We've done so many videos together on this over on my channel But there is just no reason why anyone should be struggling with with money or there's just no reason for it But when you kind of understand these energies and how and get them functioning the way they're supposed to like you When you really get this down you start to attract everything you want in every area of your life I mean, that's what I believe lia. What are you? I know it's a strong statement, but what do you have to say on that? Oh my gosh. Yes. Yes. In fact, I had a conversation with someone Just yesterday where it was like If someone's struggling, I just want to say your life could be so much easier All you need to know you just need to understand energy And how to bring things to you and everything would change for you. It is that simple It's so it's so true as someone who used to struggle in these different areas And now it's like there is no going back. It's like a disclaimer We should have one on your programs. They're like there is literally no going back once you learn this The new way of doing this kind of the empowered feminine energy way There's I mean you'll you'll never want to go back to living the way you did before trying to push and shove and Manipulate situations and try to control circumstances around you to try to get with what you want This is a whole new way of going about it, right? Basically You know shifting your energies and then what you want coming to you rather than you going out and struggling and trying to Work super hard burn yourself out trying to get it, right? Yes. Oh my gosh like this really talking about this makes me feel so excited because recently I have felt the shift from like I wrote something around like oh, it's only a matter of time But now like I feel like I can't not receive my desires like I just can't not it just not Right like that embodiment of I already I know how everything works and it just I can't not receive them and This is coming from some like I struggled so much with all of it with love with money um and to be in this space now where literally Everything has come into fruition and well, of course. There's always more and more but it's like it like it can't not not happen Absolutely. Yeah, actually rebecca just said energy of manifestation to bring money bring in money and clients This is where I've been going so wrong in my life. Yeah, rebecca go get lia's free gift right away And I totally encourage everyone to check out her feminine energy secrets program Um, you both come across so powerfully have such a lovely energy What great role models to study this with oh, thank you so much. That is so nice. Yeah, I mean We've we've been there we I know what it's like to struggle and we're just burning going against your own nature Which is receiving right now that there's not action involved But it's what I think lia what you talked about in your last video that we did together was uh, it's inspired Responding right it's inspired you want to talk a little bit about I know we're going off and kind of a tangent here But people seem interested in it So let's inspired responding and how does this relate to this topic on how to elevate your value and attract the right man Oh my gosh. Yes inspired responding. I love it. I I am because to me inspired action like everybody's heard this and Manifesting but as the feminine energy we are intuitively built to respond and so the impulse will either come like The impulse will come from what inside of us or an opportunity will come to us and our job is to say yes or no and we are like And the more we the more intuitive we are the more we trust ourselves the quicker the energy moves and we're just like yes No, yes, and the less we go into that Oh, did I make the right choice or um, did I do this or that's second guessing in doubt The less we go there and the more we're like Yep. Yes. No the more empowered we are The higher energy streams we connect to um, the more we did is What we desire at the level we desire comes to us It's it's an easy flow of energy What do you think Selena? Oh, yeah, I mean we could talk forever about this This is a lot when we talk about this so much in our program the feminine art of attraction Basically using tapping into your feminine energy to attract men and money and success and happiness everything Yeah, it's uh module six. We talk about responding which is a feminine energy quality responding to a man Responding to your own impulses when you start to do this correctly You guys impulses will start to occur to you right and like though you'll see how one thing leads to another And it's this fast moving Fun free flowing energy not like oh, I have to go online and respond to these guys that I don't want to respond to It's like that isn't going with the with the flow with the energy stream Right, so we obviously have so much to say about that. We should probably do some more videos on this If you on my channel, we have we have oh my gosh What 10 videos on how to attract men and money and all these different things about empowered masculine and feminine So you guys can go check those out if you want and we should definitely do this again Would you want to do a video on this on this? Kind of side topic we got off on here. Oh, yes I would love to talk about responding and and being in tune with your intuition on a deep level. Yes Absolutely. Yeah, I'm just reading these comments here. Belinda says Um, I'm involved with a very masculine man educated in leadership. I need help maintaining his presence Yeah, check out lia's free gift that will help you a lot and her friend And then I don't know if you're just joining but the what we shared in the first half Of this video up until now will really help you with that Um, love all of this. I've turned around a relationship. I thought was totally lost I had to put myself as a priority. It just created the safety. He needed to relax. Oh my gosh How amazing and powerful is that so? So good, right? That's exactly how it works I mean, we just could talk forever about we always have these specific topics And we end up talking about the laws of the universe and And all these like big things, but it's all so related And you know, we could give you like the right thing to say to a guy But unless you have this foundation of just trusting trusting such a feminine energy quality trusting that everything's always working out for you The right man for you is perfectly capable of contacting you and moving things forward and stepping up And when you get to that place, you're just not going to accept anything less, right? You'd instinctively feel turned off if a man wasn't treating you well or Hot and cold or inconsistent or bread crumbing you, right? So once once you kind of get these energies in order the way it's supposed to be things just kind of start to organically Fall into place and you're you're naturally led to make the best decisions for you That will serve you better than anything else better than anything we or anyone else could ever tell you, right? Yes, I love that. Yes when you get all your energies in place Then things will literally start falling into your lap and you're like, where was this and it just and it feels magical Yeah, someone says trust in yourself and the right man will come. Yeah Super feminine empowered feminine energy place to come from it's so true. Don't second-guess yourself Yeah, it's like when you get into this what leo calls inspired responding, which is great You don't you make a decision and you line up with it You don't have the split energy and this was totally my tendency and still still is my natural tendency like oh I should have done this I should have done where no you make a decision and you line up with it and you make it the right decision because you are Responding to your own intuition, which you trust right trust yourself Which is what allows you to attract an empowered masculine man who you can trust to so this was so amazing We obviously have so much more to say about that We'll probably end up doing some more videos on this over on my channel If you guys want to go subscribe there if you aren't already just search helena heart and it'll pop up Um, you can check out all of our other videos. Please go check out lia's feminine energy secrets program It's in the description also get her free gift on her website leo lake comm And learn how to become magnetic to both men and money and just be that one woman that a man Knows he can't live without really be that high value woman to yourself and for your man So lia, thank you so much. This was so much fun as always and I will talk to you soon Okay, thank you. Thanks everyone who joined us