 You ever notice that when you come back to that place where you've made that mistake, that the last thing you wanna do is pray? The last thing you wanna do is stand in a church service. The last thing you wanna do is open the Bible and read it. Why? Because you're so filled with shame and guilt or frustration with yourself. That should be the first thing you do is pray and read and worship and go to church and connect with fellow believers. Why? Because that's how you abide. And you'll find that if you just make a habit of abiding, of resting in him, prayer, the word, worship, accountability, confession, all of these actions of surrender and submission, you'll find that something within you begins to break. Even if you don't see that transformation right away, you just continue to abide. Why? Because the Holy Spirit is the holiness spirit and he's doing a work in you.