 It is impossible, therefore, to have connection if you are not being yourself with us, because who are we connecting with? And I think one of the things that we do as communicators, especially if we are communicating from a role or a title or a position, makes us careful, I think we have what I call our representative selves. So our representative selves are a role or a title or a persona or the teacher me or the play it safe me or the overconfident me or the expert in my subject me. They are representative selves, I call them. They are layers you put between you and us behind which you feel a little bit safer, like a mask that you wear that makes you a little bit more protected, a little bit less vulnerable, they insulate you from us. But the more you speak to us through your representative self, the more it becomes kryptonite to the hoary grail of connection.