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She needs no introduction. She's you'd love a voice Now she don't she don't need no introduction man. That's right here special to me man. Vila Locas in the building man Listen man, this ain't no this ain't nothing new for her. She's used to being behind the microphone. She understands Yes, I have I give great Mike Say so man, I mean we really like I said, I've been trying to get you back on her didn't go by the right You know, I'm in the Instagram DM. I was DMing you. Yeah So I don't be in my DMs that often cuz you know, sometimes I like my I get poked out when I get my For real you got some crazy stuff. Oh, yeah, really I can imagine And it's weird because I was getting like hella crazy stuff, right? And then I got into a relationship So that slowed down and I was like, damn I kind of miss getting my I poked out in the DMs that just stopped and then when I got out of my Relationship my eyes started getting poked out again, and I was like, okay, but I don't go there as often as I should It's a lot of opportunity in there, too. It's not just all bad, right? No, you're right There's a lot of opportunity in the DM, but Social media for me at became depressing break that down I mean and I'd like to hear because people don't understand extent. I'm old So I remember when there was not no social. Yeah, that was party lines There were yeah, what you called and you can pick up the phone on your neighbors line. We listen in listening Yeah, you know this is old school. Yeah, so what I'm saying is you had to be at home to get that phone call Yeah, you had to have a landline We're here we were before cell phones there you go We lay out I talked to my girlfriend on the phone all night long and I go to sleep. I said you wait you I Really like like how did it where did the pressure? What did you see the most pressure and being on social media? What happened comparison? Comparison a lot of times you go on social media and everybody only posts their best moments Nobody posts, you know the downfalls except Tyrese. All right. Yeah And if you I love Tyrese for that Yeah, I do but You know Sometimes it's pandering. You know what I'm saying? I love transparency But when you when you ready to fix it, it's not on social media. It's just not But I was in a moment where I would watch social media and continuously compare myself to people How far along they are what they have, you know, their energy You got a man, you know, all these things that I'm wanting that I don't have I see other people have and then when I see it on social media I go into a depression. Yeah. Yeah And so I was like, you know, I just got to figure out how to not you know Get on social media. Yeah, cuz it was Keeping me in a hole to where I'm not what I thought I should be because everybody else is where I wanted to go so then I got a question because With saying what you just said all I'm thinking is that starts in your mind, right? And is there a difference when you go to work or you go on the road and you see somebody that you've been seeing for a long time And they're excelling or they're walking with their boo or they're walking different How is that different because there's a because the energy is for real so like I'm gonna get inspired So I come in here and I see your podcast. I want this. Okay. I want 3000 episodes. I want 1511 cameras. I want the the work ethic that you have so when I come in here It's an energy. It's a oh, it's a like. Oh, yes. This is it. This is what I'm going for But for some reason on social media through those waves through that picture through you don't know that energy You're getting you have very depressed people posting very happy shit and Sometimes the the depression is coming through the happiness and you are just you're feeding off of it You're you don't you have no control energy is never destroyed. It's always transferred Always you never can destroy energy and the energy that someone is putting into something. I felt like I kept feeling it I'm feeling everybody's energy Except for mine cuz you're that type of person cuz I'm that person. Yeah, cuz I could never understand that I hear a lot of people talk about how Social media is the person you're not the only person who say this and that's why some people take a break from social media But what I'm a thinker right and I analyze things a lot and so one even like I'm on social media And I like to click on inspirational stuff like on inspirational stuff anything that's talking about God I like it comments on it whatever and I noticed that the more you like on certain things is the more those things Yeah, so if you're a person that is clicking on negativity or commenting on negative stuff it's gonna pop up more and I would see that that is what would affect a lot of people more But if you're clicking on more positive stuff, then you shouldn't be seeing a lot of that negative I might even see a negative stuff like I could see Toya mm-hmm Reginez mom We're her new husband and still get depressed and still get depressed. Okay, you know I can see Coach Stormy, you know Who's a fabulous motivator? Getting into her Bentley and I could still get depressed for some reason because it's not my Bentley So I had to just remove like I'm like, oh just go just stop and then you know figure out what I need to do to get the things That I want yeah help Do what help when you step back? Yes, it helps a lot So I do I'm gonna lie to you I go on social media because that's my job I got to go in there and figure out what you talk about every day on the radio, but I do I try very hard not to scroll now if I'm gonna Post I'll post and another thing. So what I did so I turned off where I could see how many likes other people get Oh, that was hard for me because you weren't getting as much like oh my god So now if you look through my Instagram on my Instagram, it shows me nobody's likes Everybody is just other it's all others. I can't I can't see that. I didn't know you can turn that off I know you I know you can turn on turn it off. I don't turn it off cuz I work our platform is I'm gauging it That gives me motivation, right? Everybody like I'm gonna make this whole blow up. Yeah, it's different for everybody I had to figure out what work for me Starts in your mind and everything that you do because and I always put it back to spirituality because the more I read and realize because every day Everybody is faced with Evil thoughts evil everything, you know what I mean? So how can you? Make your mind do right where everything comes out in a better way You know what I mean? Yeah, because when people talk about depression or anything else It starts in the mind. You have to think it first before you can act out You have to know it right you have to know you're depressed you have to know what triggers you Know what it is that's causing you to feel this way and trick your mind into Thinking about it in a different way because you can see that same thing and you think of it in this way But I can see that same thing you're thinking of a different way. I have a different way So how can you trick your mind to say? Not think of it in this way. Let me reverse my thinking thought process. Where did this thought process come from? I don't want to is it because of somebody that I grew up how I grew up Is it because because everybody thought process comes from a certain way? Because we all think differently, but where did our thought process come from you see what I mean So how can you retrain your thought process to not think the way how you think right now, right? By listening to your brain and what you need like for me I'm much happier not knowing how many likes I just be like, you know, what if I don't get a like or whatever. I'll be like, okay Well, this okay, I didn't do that right. I'm gonna do that. I'm for the truth. Okay. I gotta change this This is not working. I look at it. It's not working See and that's how you look and I'm like this don't work this way I need to change this crap because it's not working and I don't want to get caught up on thing Because these people are really it ain't just the people either. It's the algorithm. It's the it's the Advertising purchases you buy. It's a lot of stuff engaging others fake followers fake views fake box All this stuff is happening in real time and you have to be able to gauge it in a way to where Where do you want to be? Where do you want to fit? And if others is where you want to fit? There's nothing wrong with that. That's cool Like everybody should be able to do what they want to do to enjoy themselves when it comes to social media I believe and I'm gonna grow right. Yeah, whatever helps. Yeah for me. It is I Don't want to do it for y'all. I want to do it for me. I get it So when I post something it's not for you. It's for me period But a lot of people but if I have like now if I have a business and I'm posting and I'm trying to sell something and I'm trying to you know Reach and mask people because I need to get this to them in order to sell something Then I'm engaged then I'm gonna be engaged in the algorithm Then I'm gonna be engaged and we're time to post it who's gonna see it But like personal shit and whatnot in pictures, but I was so caught up People though you have people working out. There's a lot of stuff But it does help people you have a lot of people because you're a big person out if it's just one person It doesn't matter about the count is somebody that you touched you may not never know it But you beat a loco. I was going through depression. Yeah. Yeah, I'm doing all of that. You still was going through the You look good doing so Yeah, I think so are you still going through the person right now? I still I still I think I think everybody goes through depression Daily some way depression is a ebb and flow. It's not like oh, I was depressed in 2022 You know or and now it's 2023 and I'm not I think depression is something that we we battle But we don't acknowledge every day I Don't know what happened, but I just stopped. Oh I Got hurt so I couldn't work out That's okay. I stopped working out So once I stopped working out, I couldn't get back into it. Hmm and that working out was a big deal for me It helps. Oh my god. It makes you so I used to and also so, you know remember when I was selling the NutriBurse Yeah, I had some of that. It was pretty good I would wake up every morning I swear to God and I would get on Instagram live and I would say I Expect great things to happen for me today. I remember but I don't just say it I really do expect it because that's the difference. Yeah, you have to expect and did it help when you did Oh my god. I was a whole nother person. Okay, and then I Stopped because you got hurt and once you got hurt I couldn't work out. Couldn't work out. So then when I was able to work out again. I couldn't get back in I Couldn't get in the groove. I couldn't the discipline was gone I wasn't waking up and get it, you know and working out. I wasn't walking the dog I remember I showed my my one of my exes. So, you know, I got two dogs, right? But I got a big-ass dog the zoos that I'd be walking It was like So I wasn't walking them, right? And it wasn't until I had to go in the backyard and clean up all that shit. I Had a black trash bag not the kitchen trash bag, but a black trash bag Full to the top of dog shit That's signified to me that you didn't it wasn't doing I wasn't doing anything. I was stagnant and I was Mm-hmm. That was very life-opening to me And you didn't have because sometimes everybody's different sometimes people need friends around them or that group of people that or your son who can say Mom, let's go. Let's do it. I don't That's I know I have I have people but like it seems to me. I'm always inspiring my friend. Hmm I'm the one that always says let's go. I'm the one that says let's work out I know I don't have anybody calling me saying, you know, get a bitch. Are you okay? Let's go Nobody You know, I'm not gonna say nobody. Yeah, cuz it do people call you who calls you and check on you You see what I'm saying cuz I don't call people In the morning time a girl let's go work out at six o'clock. Let's go. Mm-hmm. Yeah, or not that I did I didn't when I was going through that period. I didn't I really didn't I wasn't and I don't blame anybody. It's just what was what what it was But I feel like god, you know, I always say my motto is everything happens for a reason And god put us through things for a reason What is it that I need to see because I've been through certain things like that like right now I'm I totally resonate. We're, you know, not working out getting injured because on our anniversary You know, we went out and I fell on my anniversary Because you and I wasn't drunk And my heel that I had on was like a kitten heel, but you know how some of those places you go to you wearing kitten heels Kitten heel. Why? Because I just Please comment below and say they don't wear okay. He's not my But hold on She fell over on that floor. So hold on. It's it's you know, you it's one of those steps It's like this short. It's not a like a tall step And you didn't see it And so I was walking and didn't see it and fell Thought it was a regular spring ankle, whatever it slowed up black and blue all of that sort of stuff I probably fractured broke whatever didn't go to the hospital. Nothing like that. So I didn't I wasn't able to exercise it still hurt even now. This is back in May. It happened Couldn't work out. I'm 30 pounds heavier right now than what I was so I totally understand And not having any fight to motivate you to say come on. Let's work out Because I don't I'd be working on you see what I mean and then getting busy with this and so forth But you get lost but seeing that none of your clothes can't fit you no more. That's you know It doesn't motive. It makes you sad. Yeah, I'm not going to say depressed because I'll be sad for that moment for that day and don't want to go nowhere I don't want to do nothing and the next day starts. I'm ready to go do whatever because I put on You know how to shift your energy Right, but at the same time where I'm getting to is the fact that What I feel like God says to me in those moments is You can't always depend on everybody to make you Get up to make you do this make you do that you have a mind of your own You have a body of your own because at the end of the day when there's nobody else there for you You have to do for you. You understand what I mean? Whether your kids whoever You know what's best for you. You have to get yourself out of that rut that you're in Exactly and get going and I know that and it's easier thought of it's easier said But harder done But you have to Somehow motivate yourself and when I say you meaning me too, you know, you understand what I mean because Every day I tell myself I gotta go back to the gym. I gotta go back to the gym or I gotta start working out I have a garage full of stuff. I have a treadmill. I have a weight bench. I have all of that I need to start working out jump rope start something small I don't have to go do a whole full boot camp workout But start small people think that they have to go in and do a whole big start. No, that's where you get The price courage and discourage. Yeah start one day just walking up and down the street And that's where I'm at now every day is I'm gonna start Monday and I'm gonna start Monday I'm gonna start Monday, but I need to start. I really do I'm gonna start this Monday Said it again So you You are still at 94 five. How do you say that the magic 94 magic 94.5 Vita local magic 94.5 versus Vita local 97 nine the beat What is the big versus what is no what's the versus what's the difference in That Vita versus the Vita we talked to now So it is versus for me for us with what's the difference, you know It's growth age Well, I take let me take age out because I remember Erica So when I the last time I talked to Erica by doing and I was telling her, you know, I turned 50 That's hot And I was like I felt like oh my god. I'm on a timetable now looking good though. Stop playing. I'm on a Stopwatch, right? Because when you turn a certain age, you feel like you're looking You're you're looking like how much left you got, you know, and that's understandable And she said to me she was like Vita, but what if you didn't even know how old you were? How would you move? I say you're right Now my body gonna tell me my black eyes how old I am After I come home from the club. No, I can't get back up in the morning But my mindset though was like, oh I'm I'm running out of time And so she was like What's time? What's time? You don't who know who knows what time we have but what if you don't even know the time then you just move accordingly And so I've been able to grow on 94 5 for the simple fact I I'm able to Inspire more people than I did on 97 9 and I know I inspired a lot of people on 97 9 Just because I'm transparent, right? I'm single mom. I'm raising my son with the radio I'm very honest and open about things. So I've had people come to me and tell me You know numerous things about how I helped them at 97 9 just being who I was But now at 94 5 I'm intentional about it I'm not just doing it and y'all catching it. I'm actually throwing it to you So I am moving in a different direction and wanting to just be more positive wanting to Wanting people to feel the energy that I have and intentionally having that energy to give Opposed to just being on the other station and just showing up and making people laugh I had good times with you in 97 9 as well. Like you made me you made my day Yeah I made a lot of people's dad. I gotta ask you this too because I said I was gonna ask you about you know interviewing mode three during that time when back then And trying to talk to him about that situation and busy I want to hear about that because you can see it when you go back and start researching You're in that history For as the video where he was at the radio station. He even put it in one of his songs I just want to hear like What was that for you during that time? What did you see? What did you foresee? What did you try to you know implement? Both of them are my friends, right and not friends like call. I'm like, what you doing tonight type of shit? No, but black men that I cared about That I loved because both of them were doing what they loved and making people happy And my what I was just trying to do was it There's something I knew There's something that I knew That they didn't know That there was no reason for this to be happening each person was looking at the wrong person Wow They were looking at the wrong people Coming from the the first murder What started it all? Oh, yeah, that was the comedian. Yeah. Um, what's his name? Roy Lee, Roy Lee They were looking at it all wrong. What they thought happened didn't happen. Wow What they thought happened did not happen So I was trying to Get them to pull back because they were Everybody was wrong Period. Wow, and I can't talk about Right, right, but we weren't gonna we weren't gonna ask anybody but but everybody was wrong And and how much did it affect you when you seen what the end was? I see them as like my sons Correct And they're young enough to be here. So I have this platform I have this big platform 979 we're number four in the nation As far as markets for a fight, whatever. So we're big. We're heard I don't want to see you young cats out here potentially Giving away everything that you work hard for over something and and Rest in peace Roy Lee because I don't want to see any, you know, that that was not a great situation No one should have to die in this shit like that. That's right, but y'all y'all are doing y'all are just You're going the wrong direction. You're just going the wrong and I I was just trying to bring peace Yeah, but with ego because men have ego and with pride And misunderstanding because most disagreements are more most arguments most murders or anything like that is caused by something that could simply be resolved with just A good conversation And putting that ego to the side, right? And that's what I mean And I felt like that's what I was trying to do Like trying to talk to them in a way like Vita way, you know, the funny Love you care for you nigga come on. Like I love a good drug. I love a drug dealer. I love an aggressive man I love that life but I also know when it's being destructive and when it's when it's destroying who you are or destroying your brand Or potentially Destroying the people around you, you know, because the the energy of both of these men They're Push off to the energy of their crew Exactly and usually the crew is the ones that make the Worst moves. Mm-hmm. Those are the ones, you know, those they they take the energy of what's going on and they ride with it Take it because they don't have the hits on the radio They don't have that the label in their ear telling them, you know, hey yo calm down Do you you you got on you you up you up, you know, everybody's up everybody's hype And then those young men go home and they still hype Wow, they still hype. They still want to kill somebody. Yeah, you go home. You're like, shit I need to write this rhyme or the label just told me I got to show up to arkansas tomorrow Oh, now you got other things to think about but now you got your crew out here only thinking about that shit Wow, and and I was just trying to let them know that we got to be leaders. Did you did you when you? As far as Raleigh you you got to meet him or no, right? How was that for his comedy? And what do you think he would be today if he'd have kept going? I don't know. You see what I'm saying but the way the internet started. Oh, yeah Okay, he would definitely he would never be a country boy. Yeah, he was a country Wayne He was a country Wayne and shout out to country Wayne. Yeah, because he got that new netflix special Did you watch it? We watched it not yet The first day when it came to be country Wayne's yeah, so he was definitely on the country Wayne pad For sure. Wow, and that's big. That's big to say because and now that he you know You look and he has these kids and a lot of times you hear the people come on and say that They trying to do stuff to help the kids and trying to do stuff to do things for the family Because nobody's thinking about royalties family, you know, he's gone. The kids still hear his family It hadn't been my own mode three the same way but mode three left. He left something behind You know what you I don't care what you leave behind you're gone. Yeah, I get it as a as a child No, I get that part as a child But when you have no financial, you know, or you don't know the financial stability of these people Once you take away the main bread winner from the family. Yeah, you see, you know, and I I want to get a t-shirt made that says Stop go funding me when you die Yeah, get your shit together now fucking life insurance is real real. Oh, yeah life insurance is real and it's here and it's for us Stop go funding me when you die. That's all that's real truth. That is like we act like we ain't gonna die like nigga Everybody gonna die every no one's going out alive Everybody's going to die Stop go funding me And they don't even have to and they didn't have to do life insurance on themselves their mama daddy somebody can put life insurance on them All of it. You can get life insurance. You can put life insurance on your whole fucking family And yourself right like stop doing that. That I don't I'm tired of that go find me when you die Oh, you know you're gonna die You know you was gonna be gone You think is how a lot of it has to do with being illiterate people's not having knowledge Right, we haven't been taught that and and we're taught to spend our but our money on bust downs And chargers and hellcats You know make me a song about I mean, I know my booty holds brown, but my life insurance policy is great, too I'm gonna go back. I'm gonna go back to The day because I knew you had a connection with mode three You had interviewed him that dated he you you've seen that he had gotten killed like Love 55 in the morning you hear about it You already interviewed this guy Was it unexpected or you like dang? Oh, I knew he was gonna die He almost knew he was he was walking around like he wanted to die Wow, why do you say that because he was just walking around reckless like One smoke with everybody Can't live like that. Yeah Moe three to me looked like he was ready though But how long was he doing that for it's not like he just started doing that He's been doing that ever since Roy Lee died mode three was on one, you know, you saw. Yeah So they was really yeah, they was out there in them streets Outside as the song said he really was outside Yeah, he was just doing things that just looked like a brother who wasn't really he reminded me of Malcolm X. Wow That's in a sense of I wouldn't care I I want justice Wow at any cost at any cost Yeah, how do you think it affected the city after Well, it's weird because the city was split, you know, you have to the city was over there with bees You know trapping the other half was over there with mode three So that kind of this so it was already split the city was already split even before that Yeah, I just always because I like to say you know, you would you're in a song with these guys I'm happy that no one had to die after three. Wow. That's me That's what I'm more concerned about. Nobody else dying. I don't want to see anybody else gone I don't want to see trap gone. I don't want to see bees. He gone. I don't want to see any of their Foot soldiers gone for stupid shit That's stupid shit you moved on and went to 94 5 right like like, you know It's really not that type of music that they played before how big was that how much of a change was that? That was hard at first You know, I still turn it up to gz and gucci in the car. Yeah. Yeah, I'm saying that I get to work and I'm losing the earth winning motherfucker Yeah, the fuck yeah But like I said, I'm 50, you know So that change was going to have to come eventually You know, um, and it actually just solidified some longevity for me You know when I was on 97 nine, I lied about my age all the time like no one knew how old I was No one Asked cruise cruise never j-cruise never knew how old jazzy black. No one knew how old I was I for A brief period of time. I didn't know how old I was you stopped counting. Yeah. Yeah. I did. I literally stopped I did not know someone. How old are you? 30? Yeah, so so 32 three 32, you know, that was my go to Everywhere and then when it came time to like bitch, how old are you? I remember one time swear to god, but I swear to god to write down the year and then figure out where year we was in And figure out how old the fuck I was. I got you. I so I did. I had to do that. That's crazy No, it's not but in that industry in that, you know, the industry that I'm in No one wants to hear no old bitch on a hip hop station You know, oh, like I my age Was one thing my energy was another. Yeah, and that's how I was able to pass. Right, right, you know, but Now I'm like, do I don't want to have to pass. I don't want to have to I don't want to have to like that because I need to like that if I'm gonna like a song I'm gonna like it because I want to not because I don't want to seem like I'm out the loop you want to be you you want to be you regardless of age of How turn up or how whatever just be you find out who you are because I would assume and correct me if I'm wrong with you have to be all of this Have you ever looked in the mirror and be like, okay, so who am I now at this stage? Like you actually lose yourself I lost myself before you like where you didn't know what you love Because you try to pretend or try to be somebody else that you don't even know if that's really you I'm gonna tell you when I didn't know who I was so I Am a addict, right? So I had a 20 plus year cocaine habit, right, right When I finally went to rehab and Left the cocaine behind me I didn't know who I was I didn't know because you were walking zombie that whole time I wouldn't say zombie But I was dependent on certain things for my Uh My attitude everything I depended on that to to control who I was my attitude Like if I would go out if I would go out and a guy I got a guy's number He didn't call me the next day. I'd do some coke and I forget about it You know or I had reasons to do coke. I like 57,000 reasons to do Oh shit this telephone bill came I need some coke It made you forget all about it I had every reason in the world to do coke every day So how did you adjust after coming out of rehab and Trying to figure out. Okay. Who am I now? How can I um deal with these situations without It was you know turning to this. It's just a god God Yeah, it's a daily You know people go back. You know, I don't yeah people go back. So it's a daily It's a daily thing. How long have you been clean? seven years seven years and and Have you been in the room where somebody brought it in and no so you steer clear you change friends No, you change. I didn't get how my friends. Oh, this is by yourself a secret 007 So nobody knew when I went to rehab. I had I had close friends. I didn't even know that I was All right, what are you doing? Yeah, so when you can find that picked me up To take me to rehab didn't know I was a coke addict So what was their reactions when you told them the fuck? Yeah, like what are you doing? I was good. I I was good You came up the other day on the show because I uh twisted black was in here. He did his nose like that Oh, every time I do my nose like this And that's what I told him I said and she was like what you just can't he's like no, I'm not kidding I'll probably cause a cold And then I checked her. I said you should remember that I said you should remember that because uh, uh being a spoken about that on the show I wrote that up to tell her she should have remembered that when he said that because you had already educated her on that So we said it on the show Yeah, my nose runs. I'd be like, oh shit. I'm gonna take my coke again So the coke messed up the cartilage and destroyed all of it Yeah, the hole up there like You know it's sitting up there and it just burns your Your cartilage out, you know, like if I could have kept going on my nose probably would have collapsed Damn Did it affect your smelling um senses or anything like that? No Well, I You know like like you you've interviewed a lot of people a lot of people have come to stations that you've worked at What is your most interesting? I guess interview that you can remember something that stands out? Have anybody like I asked, okay, so I just don't have a walk out on you That sound like another like a yes one person who but this was on a podcast. It wasn't on the oh, okay And I don't even know if he counts. Oh, okay. Well, what did you say? I just kept getting his name wrong. Okay. Oh, his name is his name is four From blacking crew. Okay four play four ph or four played it called I follow him on instagram. Did he do all that crazy stuff? I kept calling him Thor. Oh Because Thor because I'm a big Avenger fan. I am too Bring So I kept calling him Thor I mean because it wasn't a disrespect It was because I kept seeing Thor in my brain So when I'm talking I think it's my first time ever meeting him. I'm not you know, I don't I don't follow him So I'm trying to remember four four four so in remembering his name Constantly is put it with Thor's are in my mind. Right. I'm dyslexic, right? Mm-hmm So the ph or was turned into th h or Literally in my brain when I'm talking to him. So I'm looking I'm like, okay Thor and he and so I might have said it three times and he got angry and just walked out of the anything He says he said you fucking with me. He was mad because I called him for like three times He just walked out that was the but it was a good interview prior to that though, right? Because we it was good, right? I mean, I thought it was great, you know, how long ago was this? Oh Oh, okay, okay um That was that right that I I have good interviews because I give good energy. Yeah, you give great energy. I give good energy So my interviews I've never had an interview that I'm like, uh, fuck that shit, you know, because I give good energy Oh, you're gonna take my energy. I'm not taking your energy. You're taking my energy But you think about it like and notice these artists When they come into the game, they're not prepared for all that shit. They just want to do music They just want to make music or they want to do comedy or they just want to They don't want to interview that part that interview part is not what they think of when they want to be But it's something they have, you know, like little jerk is not like, yo, I can't wait to get interviewed He doesn't do that. It doesn't happen like that. Right. So when they come to you, you have to have to have a sense of I understand Right. I understand and I'm gonna try to make this the best situation for you I remember Mary J Blige my first time. Oh my god. I love Mary Shout out to Mary J Blige My first time meeting Mary right or interviewing Mary was back when did he was doing Megan the band And back when he had the mofahs walking across the bridge to get the cheesecake. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah So Mary's here. She was doing the Super Bowl. She was uh um She was the uh act for the Super Bowl and when she came in she was like, let me write your name down So I won't forget your name Well, I said, well, shit, let me write your name down. So I won't forget your name either And she laughed. She did what you did. She just laughed. Of course, I'm not gonna forget Mary's name like You said it a good time. Like four But I was having a good time with her and um So breaking that ice with her about whose name and what She we it was like one of the best interviews ever We were talking about diddy and we was like shit I would walk to jersey to get some cheesecake if you're going to help my career And if you're going to put me on, you know, the entitlement was so crazy So we had a great at great conversation just about, you know Um the business and coming up and and not being so entitled and working for what you got Wow, and then but my favorite that's a big interview though, man. Stop playing marriage a blog I'm uh, you know, I like sweet morning, dude I took one look at you And it was plain to see You were my destiny Oh, that is the best love song of all time That is the greatest love song when I get married. I swear to god, I want that to be my first song I don't need no Kenny ladder more. I don't need no jagged edge. I just need Mary Hey, that's gonna be my song. It seems so united man. It's a unified song, baby I was so mad the other day. I'm not even gonna say mad but disappointed disappointed almost jealous a little bit When I looked on social media and saw that you got an ice cube Interview, what? Oh, he's my friend three on three because we wanted him over here But then I got partners linked to him. I just didn't call him When big three comes back, I'll invite y'all to the studio and I'll be connected with him But he's my friend like he's a friend friend like we see each other Yeah, you take my drinks out of my hand Give me that drink, but you you know He's a good friend a great person. Um, I'm gonna tell you my okay, so Two of my favorite would be one of michelle obama What? That was one of my favorite because it was like Where y'all was that it was a phone interview It was when barack was running for president the first first time. Whoa. How was that? But that energy still come through. Oh my god. She was so amazing I asked her what music do she listen to it was in her cd player, you know, and she just was so Just genuine and and just Just her energy was a was infectious and I was like this is great. I love it. I love this And then my second one would be jay-z. Wow That also was a phone interview. So I have a little jay-z story, right? I'm jay-z jay-z story. Okay, so When the jay-z is not calling you it's the label, right? Yeah, so they're like, okay. So here we got jay-z on the line Don't ask him for any drops. You've got eight minutes. Let's go, right? Wow in drops. You're like, you know, you know drop So I said, okay cool So we get on the we get on the end. We're talking and I keep saying already So he says all already Already Already the bobo bobo say he brought that to Dallas bobo bobo say he brought it. Thank you bobo Luciano already Oh, we we you know, we're doing the interview and I I keep I keep saying it obviously because jay-z is like he stops and he says What does that mean? I said what he said Already, what does that mean? And I was like, oh, it means like, okay. Yes Because there's things up there. It's totally different. I said, it's a southern thing, you know, and it was fairly new Yeah, yeah, that's yeah, so I was like, yeah, it just means like cool, you know, that's good already already so Then at the end of the interview they say don't get a drop, but I did Oh, you went on got to drop jay-z could you give me a drop because it was a great interview We laughed, you know, we had a good time. Was it really eight minutes or did he go? I have no idea You are not watching time So he did the drop. He said yo, this is jay-z Here with my girl vita loca and then he's with 97 nine to beat and guess what he said at the end That's not the end though so then Months, maybe almost a year later. I'm listening to some new music you got, right? Tell me he put it in there He got a whole song. They'd be like, I'm in the club already It was a b song, you know, I'm saying it went on the radio and nothing like that And put it in the words I know he put phase on in that song we interviewed phase on he would phase on with the phase of my own love Yeah, yeah, he Cold with the word play that was bad with the word play man, but I think Since you said that because we asked, um Um Someone recently on the show and he mentioned between bumby and jay-z Who would be the best lyricist for you? She's not for me for you, but she she listened to music. Yeah, it would be jay-z That's not just because i'm not from texas. I mean i'm really from texas. I've been here that long Oh, no, no, you're not from texas. I know where you broke. You told me last time And I will say it don't But why jay-z overbunt I'm into drug dealers and i'm into like timbalands and i'm into that east coast vibe and i'm into gangster shit I'm into almost killing niggas. I'm into wait a minute Wait a minute. Don't don't play cuz you know, uh, now we got now you got me running from the feds a pocket full of stone That's all came from ugk. Stop playing and we are from the south and we have sold drugs. So don't play And we get it out the valley Don't play. Yeah, but do not play. Yeah, but jay-z And jay didn't sell no drugs. Yes, he did. He had maryland on lock Oh, yeah, maryland in virginia Mr. Servo say he did He didn't know he had maryland on lock he the home of the turpin them He jay-z was selling drugs all the way down to east coast like from deep from from new york to dc To virginia like he had a whole operation and i'm not telling you i'm not Because he talks about it in his music, right? He talks about a lot of people lie in their music jay-z don't lie in his music He tells you gotta be digging his crook. Oh, damn. He did. It's like a coke bottle You don't lie. Who knows? It's the energy. It's the energy and i don't think ugk lies either. No, no, they don't I'm a big you can't say was more of a drug dealer than bun b I ain't gonna say that. I ain't gonna say that. I'm not going there. I'm not going there They was together since they were like yeah, but I think pimp was the ringleader. I'm not saying that You know, but no because bun was more quiet with it. He was more in the streets Yeah, you can't play it like that. You never know riding this old because it's dope everywhere This texas. I heard there's dope on them trill burgers Is this one of the greatest burger in the world, Craig? I think Beyonce got her first trill burger last night, her and jay-z Have you had any burgers? It's amazing. Have you had any? No, I'm just going on with what I heard We ate it. It was good. I saw it. No, for real. I saw it. I know bun b and I know it's white queenie But I saw it on um Everybody I saw him on good morning america. He was and I was so happy for his transition to whatever what he's doing right now That transition is amazing. Everybody isn't able to just transition like It's hard, you know Doing Rhyming and rapping is like selling drugs. It is it's fast money, you know And once you're like, okay, I don't want to do this that much anymore You got to find another avenue and his transition is just fucking phenomenal You mentioned and I don't want to jump sub just too much, but you mentioned Erica by do early That's who I'm loving. Hey, I love the way she is. She'll never go nowhere. She is a staple in Dallas like at the world What but but for us like she always represent the queen of Dallas. Yeah, she's the queen of the cool I mean even so much so a doc say I say where you met where you see her the next time when she was walking down Lamar I don't know but he says she that's where he's seen her the next time when I'm like before When you asked about that question of them having a daughter like that's crazy Like how was it how is it with you and her like when you interview her? How's the energy because I hadn't got the interview but I definitely can thrive off of she seems fun It's very fun. She's a comedian. It seems that way Yeah, she's she's straight up funny as fuck, but she's also very spiritual. So that's the part I like. Yeah She'd be lighting up cameras and stuff that spirituality that she will lighten up being sensitive. Yeah, the ones that smell like her pussy. What's up? No, for real Yeah, I haven't had them any yet, but I swear to god when I get my hand on her pussy It's over You know because you remember when she said she I think she had cut up all her underwear and she didn't want to wear any underwear anymore Do you remember that? Yeah, she had posted that a little bit. I got mad at her the other day. It was somebody beefing with oh academics academics When in on it? Yeah, I don't even I don't yeah about that same thing He doesn't deserve it. His his name and her name doesn't deserve being the same conversation right? That's crazy because she gives off positive energy Her her mission is for everybody to feel a certain way His mission is every for everybody to feel a certain way as well. Damn. That's a hard Total opposite ways the other way. Yeah, I don't give him I don't give him light What do you think about all of the bloggers and the podcasters and it's what the world's supposed It's what the world needs like we need, you know Directions to go. Yeah, so you can see who people are You know if we were all robots and all did the same thing then Be no truth in the world because everybody's just doing what they're supposed to do But what they think they're supposed to do but I like The fact that people are doing what they do because it gives you a chance to make a decision You came off and you you say you you do a podcast and name of it again is what? Inspirational bullshit inspirational bullshit. Okay, but then you do radio too What's the big difference for you when you're dealing with either on the pot? Of course, because you know a podcast you can cuss mother fuck You know Can't cuss on the radio, you know, and then I'm coming in between songs and then I'm you know You're only getting like 30 seconds here a minute here 20 seconds here, you know radio You have to learn how to Push who you are in a short time the radio in a short time That's a crap, you know, it's not you're in the morning show you got time Right, you got time in the morning. Okay, you got time But when you're not in the morning, you ain't got a lot of time and a lot of times All you hear is about what radio got for you. We got tickets on the way We got the event over here. We got your song coming up. Lil Wayne did this You know ice cube did that Da-da-da did this but I Want you to know who I am. I don't want to just bring you information You don't know the fuck I am. I'm like, yeah Um, jimmy fox might have did this but my fucking son did this. Okay. Like I talked about You be killing it. You've been like that from day one. I put my son business out. I love it. I put my business It's my business that I put on the radio I feel like you can't come on the radio and just tell everybody else's business and not tell your own You know, you gotta people want to know Not want to know but they want to feel who they're listening to You know what I just thought about and I didn't ever ever think about this before you've been branding your son Before anybody's been doing that on social media because now as soon as a person have a baby They have an instagram page for this child and you see this journey But you've been doing that for him on the radio for the longest. You know what? It wasn't really a brand You know what it was? It was I'm a single mom, right? His father is not in his life at all Dylan does not know what his dad looked like Never met him Don't want to meet him once It was date rape so He saw him one time and then I guess he couldn't face his risk what he did and he's just left Right and that was that when he was not even one So you don't know what his daddy looked like does that affect him? Of course it does Does he have you ever spoken to him? Like does he want to if I don't know Have you ever asked him? Yeah, he's of age. I told him what happened But you asked him do you want to know who is where he is all of that? I let him talk to me about it. He's in therapy. I I take he's had three different therapists Um when he's ready. He's ready. I just when he's ready I want him to be in a place where he can have somebody to talk to besides me Right, you know if I could like but hold on before I forget How I brought Dylan to the The the you know the front was My mother is his best friend, right? So it was hard to get Advice from her because she was always team Dylan Right. Dylan could do no wrong for her grandma. That's how it's supposed to be so I would I parented Dylan with the city Got it. That's their advice huge. I parented Dylan. So the city was a dad the city was the dad Remember when they're doing stole that money of my purse. I remember that story And I brought him to work. Yeah And I asked everybody to please call in Talk to Dylan. How many calls did you get a lot? And he sat on there and listen people come up. I had people come up to the station to talk to Dylan And he sat and listened Wow, I was parenting Dylan I love that. That's huge man. God's giving you a gift, man. Have you talked to Steve Harvey? Nonsense. Remember that time I told you This thing's got good advice for a minute Yeah, we just didn't know if he came around He don't even live here anymore The only thing you're now is him and his wife have a problem. They say it's fake. It's all because it's fake I think it is too. He's fussing about it too. Oh, he's fussing about it. He's on there. I seen him get real And he don't really they've been saying that for a while, but he hasn't acknowledged it until now Because he didn't need to you know, he didn't need to bring no light to that How did you feel about when you heard that jeezy and his wife was getting a divorce? I was like, yeah Whoa, welcome back Welcome back Welcome back I don't know Seawalk Are you saying that a thing for real? You wanted him back? Come on now Damn We love that black man Black women don't play about these women Black women love jeezy And look, Jeannie Mai, I'm sorry for you boo I'm sorry I'm sorry As long as he was happy, he's happy I mean, she's devastated Because they say she didn't see it coming Yeah, because he's the one who found the divorce Black women all over the world was like, oh that nigga back We got him back Someone was willing to get back on drugs again Just to get some coke from him But I didn't get coke in eight years But bitch, I'm the boss on it from you, Snowman How long back? I'm well, welcome back, nigga Yeah, welcome back But that is you, man I said, well, I said that Now his next single should be My president is black and so is my wife Damn These girls are crazy So is my wife That's what I want to see from you All the lighter, lighter note, man Like, Vita Holoka Like you look back at time And somebody had something to say about Vita And she wasn't there to speak for us After it was going to do a documentary What would you want that documentary to kind of represent? Her light The way she made people feel The way she, you know Just I'd be asking God I'd be like God Don't worry about me But allow me To make somebody else feel good Don't worry about what I've got going on Just use me to make somebody feel good That's it I want to make people feel good My foundation I have a foundation It's called Vita Holoka Smile and Faces And Children are my My soft spot, children So Vita Holoka Smile and Faces Was created because I want to see children smile Period No matter what they're going through, I want to see you smile You know, kids know how to communicate What's on they Mine But not what's in them They're going to tell you mama She fat In the store Mama, why they look like that Why they eye closed But they're not going to tell you mama I'm hurting Got it I'm emotionally hurting They don't understand They don't know how to do that They don't understand what's happening What we do is Once a month Our foundation goes to The homeless shelter And we throw a birthday party For the kids that live in the shelter If you have a birthday in that month Say we just had one yesterday So if you have a birthday in September Which was yesterday We give you a personalized gift Gift cards, trains Because the kids are like this What age range Kids are What range you deal with The kids Up to 18 Shelters only carry up to 18 These shelters have families So yesterday I had a young man who turned 18 So His birthday His birthday wasn't yesterday But we celebrated his birthday So he was 18 At 2.14 We had a 6, 8, 3, 4 Their families in the shelter You know So we pull up We pull up with a Bouncy house A DJ A ice cream truck A petting zoo Cotton candy Buzz Lightyear We pull up with all of that Because not only do we want to celebrate The kids that have the birthday in that month All the kids Want to go to the birthday party Remember when You got the invitation to go to a birthday party And he was like oh shit I'm going to have some fun Oh hell yeah My birthday party So we pull up It's a party for everyone The parents Everyone we do it in the parking lot The petting zoo is amazing And shout out to sweet times for life Because that's my partner The petting zoo is snakes So they bring snakes Roosters Guinea pigs Rabbits Lizards I mean It's a reptile show And it's so amazing to see these kids For the first time Touching And when they do that We talk to them about being brave How brave you are How you can do anything Look at you Look what you just did You're all in this snake Oh my god You are so amazing And we just pour into them And pour into them And we do it once a month Thanks to Amy Witherite And 1-800-Truck-Rack Shout out Thank you so much I've been doing this for two years It's awesome That's your gift Your gift is Your voice is your gift That's what Steve said That's true though It's true though You were in the strip club That's why I heard your voice And you went hard in the strip club You were cold with that voice You could say things And some of the things she said You can't repeat I want to ask you If somebody was supposed to play you In a movie Who would you pick to play you? Kiki Palmer She's been cutting up She can do it She can do it She already thought about that That was great I had never thought about that That's the first time everybody asked me that That's the first time everybody ever asked me that But you hit it But I can see her playing you I can That was a good choice She got that personality You got to bring it That's me I am her How can people get a hold of you If they try to reach out How can they get a hold of you Just call me Baby What's your phone number? You got me getting all them calls She don't know She's too young She don't know That's a part That's a song Baby what's your phone number And it gets down to the hook 77793 A little bitch I want to take some time with you If that's alright You got to know Who sing that song? It was a hit It was a hit It almost said Mars Day But it wasn't here They were doing their arrows That's how it was Give me your Instagram quick point It's VidaLoka Everywhere V-E-D-A-L-O-C-A If somebody wanted to reach out To be on your podcast Like who do you put on your podcast Who would you want on your podcast So We're in a stage of trying to figure out What it is all about You know And I really want to Stay in tune with the inspirational Bullshit part of it I love to inspire people To want to be better And so I would look for people that want to teach people How to be better But also be themselves While they're doing it And quit pretending It's a mess But still inspire people Be a free But still get out here and let the lord Say something good But get to charity That's VidaLoka VidaLoka is real I love this woman Thank you But you will be coming back on the show Don't try to make it like another year It should be at least like a quarter You're welcome I know Regina She better do it I quit That's it We got her We got her The food I went to I'm in the car right now The food bring them back Let me tell you I went over to the table I saw him package it up I thought it was empty and it was done He said no no no Don't touch this I can't get no more It's done See me with that water ready We bring you back My face of water This is it right here You got to get this ready You got to come call host for my money I would love to We do have different people We have different people There's so much we can talk about We can kick it man I love the fact that we bring people I always say that the ones that come here God gave me y'all and I ain't playing with it I'm bringing y'all back I'm about to start my own podcast Do I keep saying it Everybody is telling you that it needs to be About cooking No no no I'm talking about relationships This is my type of relationship It's my relationship for you Do that Bring the cooking Cook while you're talking about relationships While you're cooking on your podcast That food is so good That's a gift That's a gift That's a gift Use your gift that God gave you Mix your own flavor In your gift But I'm just what I see for you Cause you know I'm Miss Cleo You're going to have to pay me for this now You're paying me an lifestyle I got you I just think that would be a Visionary Plus for you Nobody could be I don't think nobody would be able to talk When they smell the food cooking Yeah you will Cause you they babies Thank you Mita for coming on the show We love you more Man listen Let me ask you one question before I go Which interview is better me or J Cruz That's hard No it's not I'm not doing it I'm not doing it I'm not doing it I love both of them I ain't playing with you I like you What a boss is talk