 another Knox survivor live video just waiting for everyone to join the live stream here as you can see just out by this beautiful lake this is a big one today when you finally give up the narcissist does this many of you put so much of your time energy effort and money into the narcissist and you may wonder what happens when you finally given it all what happens when you finally being ran into the grounds you've given everything you have broken down what does the narcissist do then do they come and give you a helping hand do they try to lift you up do they raise your spirits what do they do in response to that and many of you are in that situation right now and you may be wondering what is going to happen what does the future look like and that's why I decided to get on here and let you know when you give up the narcissist does this after you've gone and put in all of your time energy efforts enthusiasm and money after you've given everything you have to the narcissist but you don't even have anything left to sustain yourself the narcissist plays the victim they blame you all of the help that you gave them they turn it against you by acting as though it wasn't good enough it's crazy when you think about it you came into their life trying to help them trying to make their lives better trying to give them a better future that's what you were trying to do you weren't going in you weren't going in there trying to make their lives difficult that was not your intention you try to improve their lives you try to regulate their emotions you try to make them happy but you soon began to realize that nothing you did was good enough you couldn't please them you couldn't satisfy them because they were insatiable but you did your best you did more than what anyone in your position might have done and that's why they picked you because they knew that you were gonna give it your all they knew that that's why they kept you around because they knew that you were just gonna keep giving and giving but one thing the narcissist doesn't want to do is look at things from the other side look at what they were giving you it's nine times out of ten they're really not bringing anything of value to your life they're not doing anything good for you for anything that is making you miserable but they don't want to talk about that a relationship should be 50 50 there should be equality there should be reciprocation if you look at the other side of things what were they doing for you what was it that they did that was making them so worthy and deserving of what you had to offer I don't even need to be a fly in the wall to know that they were giving you hell they were breaking you down they were giving you constant insults and putdowns every day that you are with them every day that you are putting out all of this treasure you were giving them all of this good stuff everything that they wanted everything that they were craving you were giving that to them and they were eating it all up acting like it was nothing they weren't giving you your due appreciation and gratitude they weren't giving you compliments and praise they weren't giving you none of that for them to give that to you it wouldn't have cost them anything they wouldn't have cost them a penny it would have cost them maybe two seconds of their time just to say thank you they couldn't even give you that all of the work you put in they ate it all up they acted like it was nothing but you know they couldn't produce that on their own everything you did for them they could never make that happen on their own and when you do it they take it for granted they act like it's nothing because for them it is nothing they're not doing the work to make that happen if they had to work for it if they had to earn it it would be a different story then maybe then they would actually realize the value of it but then as we know narcissists do tend to self self-habitage they do tend to screw things up yeah this is just how it goes when you're dealing with them this is all that you can expect sadly most people who are at the beginning stages of the relationship they're not gonna find these videos but I wish that they would so that they would know early on two weeks even two months into it they would know what is waiting for them down the line of this because there's nothing great nothing but a lack of reciprocation a lack of appreciation everything that you might need and desire everything that you should expect is not what you're gonna get when you are dealing with a narcissist it's insanity it really is just the arrogance and the audacity of how you can give everything you have to them you can give everything you've got it doesn't matter and they can give nothing to you but insults and put downs making you feel inadequate regardless of the quantity or quality of what you gave to them none of that matters they're still going to devalue it or what you should start doing is thinking hold on a minute if all of this that I'm giving to you it's not good enough then how can what you'll be given to me how can that be good enough for me because you've only got to look at the quantity and the quality of what you're doing for them in comparison to what they're doing for you it's a big difference so how can they not be happy with what you're doing and you have to be happy with them it makes no sense but of course to some extent narcissists are delusional they're arrogant and entitled they have an exaggerated sense of own abilities importance they feel entitled to privileges and special treatment so they expect you to just roll out the red carpet for them they expect you to do whatever they want I'd expect nothing in return because they expect you to see it as a privilege just to be around them it sounds completely insane if you want to give something to the narcissist if you see a damsel in distress and you want to help them you want to make them happy you want to make their lives better and that's the narcissist well they're gonna expect you to see it as a privilege just for you to do that sounds crazy I know but this is how they're looking at it they really think that you should have a sense of pride and admiration for them when you're doing this stuff sounds insane well that's really how they see it they expect you to see it as a source of honor and pride when you're giving them your time the money your energy place to stay or any sexual acts they expect you to see that as an honor you should be proud of that if it's not you then they could find someone else who's gonna do that for them I know this isn't pleasant to listen to but I'm just telling you how it is this is what is going on and they walked distorted minds this is how they think so naturally when it's all over they're not gonna feel any desire to repay you because everything you did for them you were meant to see that as a privilege that was meant to do something for you by you giving them something and that's your reciprocation right there that's all it is and they expect you to be happy with that it's sad it really is but when you finally give up this is just how it is they're gonna play the victim they're gonna blame you they're gonna act like you're abandoning them without help or supports they're gonna act like you're doing something to them you're making their lives difficult they're not gonna consider everything that you've already done for them no they're not gonna do that they're gonna want more because they are insatiable and nothing is ever good enough for them it's like they just assigned you this position of serving them but no matter how much you do for them they always want more and they're never grateful they never appreciate anything you do and on top of that they never look at themselves to see how little they do for you but they sure are doing the most when it comes to the abuse and the manipulation everything that you don't want they're sure pouring it on there this is just how it is there's never really a pleasant experience with a narcissist unless you're making it happen unless you're doing all of the work and there sure isn't a pleasant ending when it's all over after you've wasted all of your time your energy has been depleted spent all of your money that doesn't mean it's gonna end well you may think that you've paid your dues did everything you could it's all over maybe they're not gonna give anything back to you in return but at least they'll leave you alone no no not with a narcissist they will come after you they will tell everyone what a horrible person you are they will demonize you they will stalk and harass you or try to ruin your job ruin your future relationships they will try to ruin your life all because you try to help them and I think sometimes it's because deep down they know they don't deserve it they don't deserve your love and affection they don't deserve your help and support maybe that's where they get angry every time that you try to give it to them maybe that's why but I don't want to get too deep into it I just wanted to share this message with you today it's important to be aware of this stuff especially if you haven't been discarded yet you need to know what's to come and I know it isn't pleasant but you need to be aware of it and if you have been discarded you're very cautious may think it's all over but then they'll come back and try to finish you off so be aware of that nature is beautiful take some time today to just forget about the narcissist go out somewhere by a lake a beach or in the forest just take some time to experience that peace within yourself that love for yourself and things around you when you get caught up with a narcissist you can generate all of this hate inside of you and it's not pleasant I know that's why it's so important to just get out there and experience life real life not this fabrication that the narcissist has given to you because I don't real they conditioned you into thinking that it's real but it's not you want to see something real this is it it's like there's no manipulation in nature everything's just natural there's no subliminal bullshit it just is what it is and that's why I like it thank you all for joining me today I see 105 live viewers right now please hit that thumbs up button to support our community means a lot I greatly appreciate it and as always share your thoughts in the comment section I read your comments every morning and I I do enjoy reading what everyone has to say I like to see your contributions the responses to my work so yeah please leave your thoughts in the comments let me know what you think about this video let me know how things are going in your relationship in your life and yeah as always thank you all and have a great day