 Magnus answers yes I once again descended from the throne of thought to answer your question now this one's kind of interesting this one was sent to me on my Facebook fan fan page and it's about a breakup and as usual with breakups and certain a lot of these stories I mean they're one-sided and I'm gonna take this from this person's side as if everything is true okay I know stories can be biased but I'm gonna give some feedback into this all right so she writes so I met this nice guy online last year we were talking he lives in Detroit seems to be pretty wealthy great businessman and I was attracted to him he contacted me first so we began talking on the phone and at some point I was gonna fly out there to visit him or he was gonna come out to Tampa to visit after a little while I noticed that the phone calls weren't as frequent and that was okay because I know he's very busy and I just tried to keep the lines of communication open and we would chat here and there and I was cool with that so finally found I found time to get away and I sent him time in the flights and the dates to see if that was okay with him it took a little while to get back to me and finally when he did he told me he met another woman on the dating site and was connecting with her and really liked her and thought I was beautiful but did not want to hurt my feelings and that was it I was a little bit upset because I never really got to meet him in person and knew if we did it would be pretty good to make a long story short I asked him if we could speak on the phone about the whole thing and basically he let the new girl communicate with me and tell me to let it go and beat it he belongs to me now and I was completely appalled she said that this man allowed his new girl to in this relationship I had with him I totally get that we may have what he may have lost interest in me and I get get that but I just think that the way he handled this closure was completely wrong and letting this woman talk to me and tell me that he belongs to her now and to let it go just wrong on so many levels I did not deserve this type of closure yeah let me tell you something first off when you're in the dating scene just so you know dating sites and you know you know so you know people are talking to multiple different people and if you kind of really start to like somebody never ever ever in a relationship say to a person well or you try to give that idea that hey wait a minute don't go with her yet because if we hang out hey it'll be great and you know I know you'll like me let me tell you something I'm a man if and coming from a man's point of view if he met somebody that he thinks is that much of a better fit for him than you that he doesn't want you to fly in he don't want to come see you he just wants to end it let him go let him go let him go it's it's not a competition don't ever compete with another woman for man's love just so you know don't do it because if he's feeling her more fuck it if he really really felt you were best for him as much as that may hurt you know I mean I get it ain't nothing you can do about but move on now to how he did it let's talk about that if I were him the only way the absolute see because I would handle it myself I would have told you listen I'm at this new girl you're great you're beautiful but I think that she's a much better fit for me you know and I wish you the best of luck maybe we can stay friends or whatever if not understand but he did not do that from your story that you told if he did then that's different but if he did not do that and you know he puts this girl on the phone that's I mean that's wild right there I had a bitch do that to me in the past I was calling her because I knew something was up she had been avoiding me so one day I decided now I was harassing her I decided bitch you don't want to answer my phone calls I didn't talk to you in like a week and this was my girlfriend so I called like 19 times in a row cuz I said somebody's gonna fucking answer and tell me what the fuck the bitch is doing this was back when I was like 22 and her friend answered her friend answered actually she had answered first and gave me this convoluted cloudy type you know fucking decision like she wouldn't tell me what was up I knew she was hiding something so her friend finally got on the phone and was like yeah she wants to end it and this and that and hung up on me I was like alright so you go on and get your friend to end it with me cuz you couldn't even do it your fucking self well that's what I'm talking about the only way that I would have let another woman get on the phone and tell you that it's over is if you were harassing him I don't get that idea from this but if you were then that is actually one of the best ways to cut something because you're in that weird position of talking to some woman that you don't know saying this is mine leave him the fuck alone but I wouldn't have did it that way I feel he was wrong if you were not harassing him he was definitely wrong for doing that like that he could have just got on the phone and said you know explained it you know now I don't know you you know you seem like you cool I've you know read a few of you you know your comments and stuff you know sometimes people can be very clingy I'm not saying that's you in a clingy situation I could see somebody doing that putting a friend on the phone or putting somebody else on the phone in my situation I wasn't being clingy I wanted an answer and I was I knew something was up I was about over anyway but I said no bitch you gonna tell me yourself you know what I mean you're gonna say something to me you know I mean I'm not gonna let you just give me some crazy convoluted answer and then just walk off now I want to hear from the fucking horse's mouth so you know and actually I heard it from a different horses and she I tell you that she paid for it she got hers she got hers and it wasn't even me wasn't even me so don't worry about it if people have it in their heart to hurt you you have to understand that life is gonna pay that back for hurting you in some form or fashion is that boomerangs gonna come right fucking back around smack them in their fucking face so don't worry about it okay you keep doing you you keep meeting new men and you eventually find the love of your life as long as you stay positive and you believe that it's gonna happen all right all right so done with this Magnus answers anybody else need some questions answered make sure you shoot an email to the inbox all beautiful subscribers