 Does the narcissist regret losing you? That's what we're going to be talking about in this video Now there are plenty of people on YouTube Who will just? Tell you that yes The narcissist Regrets losing you but that isn't completely true yes, they May miss the benefits and conveniences That you provided to them they may Regret losing that Although they won't see it as though it was their fault They will see it as though it was something you did That caused them to lose that They're not gonna blame themselves But other than that They don't regret losing you. They never even knew Who you are as a person They never even took the time to get to know you and I'm sure if you were with a narcissist you would have noticed that Can you ever remember a time? Where You just sat in a room together I just had a normal conversation Or where they Asked you questions about yourself or they showed an Eagerness curiosity to learn more about you. Can you ever remember a time like that? Maybe you were together months or years Can you remember even one time? When you had a conversation like that? I'm sure the answer is no if you were dealing with a narcissist because they have no desire to learn anything About you or anyone else they may pretend to take an interest in you in the beginning If they think that that will help them to secure you as they supply But they'll only do that if they feel like they have to otherwise they're not even gonna bother Because they don't recognize your value they don't even see Just how valuable you are Like I've said before if you give a hundred dollar bill to a toddler They're not gonna know How valuable it is They will just tear it up. They're not going to save it or invest it And it's because of their emotional Maturity you have to have something of value To be able to recognize something something about you You have to know what it is A narcissist they don't know they targeted you because They saw your kindness as a weakness As a way for them to get in and then they began to use you as a shoulder to cry on as The emotional tampon as the personal atm and that's All you really were to them you were never anything else You weren't ever anything of value to them That's how it was so easy for them to devalue you and discard you so The answer to the question is no They do not regret losing you and this is how you know This is how you know what you were dealing with This is how you know that you're dealing with someone who's a narcissist a toxic person someone who Isn't right. Maybe they've been through a lot of traumas This is how you know because A normal person Will Recognize your value your worth because they've done the work in their own lives So they can appreciate How much work you must have done To be the person that you are but someone who hasn't done the work They're not going to be able to recognize it They're not going to see it They might just see something they can use but they're not going to see the value in you as a person so of course They're not going to regret losing you as a person as well That's how it's so easy for them to discard you and not think about you They only who for you because they want something They don't really want to Come back to try and rebuild the relationship. They never cared about that I've said before they don't even want a relationship. It's a means to an end It's just something they use to get what they want They don't even want a relationship with you if they never did They just use that to get what they wanted from you. That's all it was And this is how you know this is what separates narcissists from normal people Because normal people we do want love intimacy and connection we do see the value in other people and They don't They see the value only in superficial things in things that they think can benefit them and even then it's just a Temporary engagement until they find something they think is better Or they just find someone who they think is weaker or easier to use Someone who's more of a fool than you are because once you've been through this enough times You become a lost cause to the narcissist They already know that you know what they're about And then they want nothing to do with you after that What's the point in them being around someone if they can't trick them? It's pointless to a narcissist. Yes, some of you may not like to hear it But I can only give you the truth and the truth is that No, they do not regret losing you as a person No, they do not Recognize your value after you've gone They never recognized your value. They never did It's not possible for them to do that. You have to remember that they are self-absorbed and they lack empathy the very arrogant They have a strong sense of entitlement So where do they have the capacity to Consider the value of another person When they're so insecure that they're constantly thinking about their own value And that is how they can just go on and on in a conversation talking about themselves Never giving you any time to speak Because they're just so wrapped up in their own world. They can't even consider you if they recognize your value they wouldn't be doing these monologues for Hours and hours at a time that wouldn't make any sense They wouldn't disrespect you every day Insult you and put you down So of course they do not regret losing you as a person They regret losing the benefits and confidences that you provided to them But even for that they blame you they see it as though you did something to mess it up Or you are the reason why they left you they blame you They don't see it as though they should have done something different. They don't think that way They can't think that way. That's not how their disorder is designed to function So yeah, that's it. They do not regret losing you. It's as simple as that. I hope this video was helpful If it was please give it a thumbs up down below share the video Subscribe For coaching you can book from my website. It's naksafiver.co.uk and I am on Instagram as well. It's naksafiver YouTube on Instagram You could send me a message on there and I also have new pictures and videos on there every day So definitely check on my Instagram. It's naksafiver YouTube All right, that's it for today. I hope you enjoyed the video and I will talk to you in another one very soon