 What if he's masculine and feminine? I'm strong. It's hard for me to be vulnerable and accept his love. How can I learn to change this? You learn to change it by doing small things at a time and practicing getting into it on a continual basis and over time it will get easier and better and faster and you will still probably struggle with it if you're struggling with it now but it over time will become easier and easier and easier for you to do until it's something that feels incredibly natural for you. That's how you can learn to change it. You can get routines, get rituals around this so there's different ways that you can kind of get into your feminine energy. I'm not the feminine energy expert. Helena Hart is so I'm sure that she'd be more than happy to jump on a live stream with me and we can talk about this in depth one of these days soon, hopefully and we can talk about the ideas of how to kind of get into your feminine energy but one of the ways is to create rituals which can be different types of things like hanging out with animals, having a bubble bath, dancing, all kinds of different things things that make you feel feminine and connect you with your body and your emotions and your heart