 When the narcissist gets tricked by their new supply When the narcissist was with you They were never happy You were never good enough for them because they were always comparing the relationship to other people's situations They were looking at social media They were looking for the bigger better deal the next shiny new toy They thought the grass was greener on the other side And they were looking to take advantage of the next opportunity To gain something materialistic whether it was money cars or clothes Nothing that is all valuable substance So they will wander off They will lose their way and they will end up with someone who knows how to play the game Someone who knows how to manipulate people Someone who knows how to create the illusion of having something better and greater Of being able to meet the narcissist's needs And the narcissist has a black and white mentality in their minds. You're flawed You're worthless and this new person is perfect This new person is everything that they've been looking for Because they're always looking at other people's relationships They're accepting people as they claim to be They believe it without thinking about it without studying it more closely Without realizing that it's all fake. It's a deceptive outward appearance Which makes some seem better than they really are When in reality they have the same problems and issues that you experienced They have the same arguments But because the narcissist was always looking for the bigger better deal they take it at face value They believe what they see. They expect it to be better. They expect it to make them happy They expect it to be better than what they had with you, but there are a lot of con artists out there There's a lot of people who exaggerate and lie People who say things that are not true In order to seem better and more important than they really are To bait people in who have just left a relationship people who are easily impressed People who are looking for a better situation and they do that by creating an illusion and selling them a dream By inducing feelings of excitement and pleasure the narcissist ends up in this situation Because they stopped putting in effort with you They stopped giving you what you wanted and desired from them Because you showed a sensible and practical idea of what can be achieved and expected You represented things in a way that is accurate and true to life. You weren't trying to sell them a dream You weren't trying to give them a fantasy So it became boring for the narcissist they lost interest in you But this new person has created a character that is fun and exciting They've sold the narcissist they dream and the narcissist has fallen for it So they're doing more for this new person They're doing things they never did with you Because they don't realize they're being tricked This new person is giving the narcissist an illusion And the narcissist thinks it's everything that they've been looking for so they're putting a lot of effort into it Because they don't want to lose it but this new person has no intention of staying with the narcissist for a long period of time It's just fun for them The narcissist caused you to suffer in order to save themselves and gain a personal advantage They criticized blamed and punished you to get what they want and this new person was getting off on that they enjoyed it Because you were meant to be something special and important to the narcissist, but now the narcissist is with them They're doing everything they can for this new person It makes them feel important. It brings them excitement But it's short lived It only lasts for a short time And because they didn't have to work for it They don't appreciate it. So they spend it all They run through it very quickly and they're left in a worse condition than when they were with you After they said all of these things about you After they told their family and friends they finished with you And once it's over this new person is going to leave them Because they were never looking for anything serious It was just fun, but the narcissist thought it was real They bought into the dream They thought they could find a better situation than something that was already good for them But they ended up finding something that just brought them right back to reality Because life doesn't work that way. It causes confusion and shame to them They feel awkward and stupid So they can't even come back to see you Especially if you know about it because they know you'll never see them the same way again So they're left with nothing. They thought they were about to outdo you When they had a good situation with you, but they took it for granted They minimized its value. They minimized your importance Just so they could chase after a deceptive appearance Something that wasn't even real and then they ended up with nothing They ended up in a worse situation than what they were in with you Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonates with you Please like comment share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coacher.marksurvivor.co.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon