 doing let's get this on y'all we are gonna be doing a chit chat y'all know how we do this we talk about what's going on in my personal life when I'm watching on YouTube and what I'm watching on TV I'm also gonna start adding a little bit of what's in the news type of stuff not gonna get too depressing but just share my thoughts and opinions of some things that's going on cuz girl the world is going to hell in a handbasket well does that you say a girl no they ain't how you say it country so anyway all right y'all while we're doing this we're going to be detangling my hair and I am using a great product I have not tried this before but I do have a review coming up very soon possibly this week the main choice proceed with caution line the four-way conditioner this is the business okay and great slip yeah that's what I'm gonna be used to be detangling my hair we can figure out what's going on so y'all everything's going good and well in Texas weather is crazy by power as well but the weather changes at the drop of a dime like seriously right now is very windy rainy my hair yeah so yeah so my mama came down from from east Texas this past weekend she stayed with us for three days we had such a good time she gave me a stand mixer she clean my kitchen for two hours my new my kitchen was clean but my mother works in dietary at the school she's she's the school lunch lady one on and so this is what she's done all her life you know working in kitchen so she knows how to clean a kitchen and I wasn't complaining I even told I say you can come now once a month if you want to do this kitchen justice excuse me also yeah we went out to eat we hung out my best friend came over one day because she's in the midst of selling her house her and her family are moving I'm like girl but she's moving only 20 minutes away so it's not too too bad and she bought her family and her baby y'all I'm a sucker for a baby I love and her baby when I tell you that child is that child is so precious but she is big she is chubby oh my god I love it she's 18 months old we're in 3d 3t I love it yeah we all had a good time we had a good time Jamie's at school that's why it's quiet it's his first week at this private school and it's set up very similar to a micro school or smaller school I should say my hair is shedding like crazy and so yeah we're excited and for him to be trying out this new school baby I those you who are teachers I really do sympathize with you guys his last week at this public school yeah I had to really I know I keep talking about this school but this is it I won't be talking about it anymore because he won't be there but let me just say this I sympathize for you out there who are teachers I don't know what it is about my personality a lot of not a lot but sometimes people confide in me to things that they're going through I don't know if it's the energy I give off if I have the ability to improvise with others and so like his last day there she like confided in a lot of stuff which I'm not going to share everything on here because I just don't want to do that but she basically long story short said that she understands she totally gets why I'm pulled why I pulled JB out and that is actually her last she's quitting it's her last year she can't like it's so she's so stressed out that it's messing up her health and her husband wants her to quit her doctor is telling her to quit so this is it for her and so the kids it is just a mess and so the last straw for me was when I picked him up picked JB up she ran up to me immediately cuz I guess she wanted to catch me before JB could tell me so she's basically like I want to apologize there was an incident that happened in the classroom apparently another child had wrote a message about JB some type of satonic stuff writing wishing death on JB I said what I was not expecting that I was expecting maybe pushing you know a physical altercation not this bullshit so she's like yeah I don't I don't know she's I don't know what these kids are doing and why their parents are letting them watch certain stuff so she said I was able to catch it and I threw it away I don't think I don't think JB saw it but she ended up sending the child to the principal office for the rest of the day like he could not come back in the classroom matter of fact JB said the next day he wasn't allowed to come back cuz it was gonna be JB's last day what look let me tell you something when she told me that look at my hair I immediately prayed over my child because you don't know like she said she doesn't know what these kids are exposed to you don't know what people are exposing their children to a lot of parents now not a lot but some parents nowadays a lot of their children to look at whatever on TV and quite frankly you don't know what people are into their parents could be into stuff so she said he wrote some type of basically wishing death on JB andrew a pentagon I'm like oh no so you best believe I pleaded the blood of Jesus over this child and he ended up going he didn't he didn't want to go to school the next day but I ended up let him go but I picked his ass up early oh yes he did a half a day so he's at this middle school I met the teachers a couple of times there's two teachers in the classroom and yeah yeah we're excited for that but speaking of JB ever since JB was in the first grade there were questions whether or not he either had a learning disability or if there are some behavior issues going on because although you guys don't see it a lot JB JB is extremely intelligent very intelligent but JB also has tension has temper tantrums at still you know now he just turned nine the counselor at the old school actually I brought up to her that I feel like there's some there's something going on his teacher while he was in Phoenix also but actually all the teachers have felt like something was going on but no look a pinpoint it so the teacher did say I think that JB has attention deficit disorder which you know a lot of kids have so we have an appointment with a pediatrician here to get him formally diagnosed to see what we can do I did give him he has a whole bucket full of fidget toys because he needs that one one year last year the teacher at the school in Phoenix I guess some of the other kids were complaining because when JB is doing his work he's humming and they can't concentrate because JB singing and humming to you know so stuff like that where he has to do something to work and typical attention deficit issues he gets way off subject when I give JB instructions is bare minimum if he needs it okay so put it like this I can't say JB your clothes are on the couch put on your clothes and then when you're done go brush your teeth and I want you to eat you some cereal I can't say that I have to caveman talk putting your clothes brush your teeth eat your breakfast do you see what I'm saying because all the details in there he's not gonna get so I have to be very very very specific very like bigger picture we'll do the details when we get down to it so yeah that's going on but besides that JB's JB's good he's a good boy and my mother was very impressed at how clean he kept his room he keeps his room that's one thing I will say about this child um he's very meticulous of his stuff so you can go into his room even right now so his bed isn't made up but he has no problems if I tell him makeup is bad no problem he'll make up his bed because he knows I'm crazy too so but his little old school collection is set up a certain way and he even has a sign up there he has a sign in his room that basically says don't touch he doesn't want you touching his stuff and we don't we respect his stubborn but he keeps his room pretty thing on need to be a small child um I'm doing some DIY projects at home I created my own welcome sign you know those wooden welcome signs you guys typically see I'll put a picture over here in front of your door I didn't want to say hey y'all but I think I'm gonna go back and repaint some of the letters because I don't know why the hey is it showing up how I wanted it so I could be a little bit maybe that's where JB gets them from I could be a little bit OCD about stuff like that um yeah so I'll buy some stuff that's in the news child I am so oh y'all did y'all hear about the kinder care the daycare where the mama showed up she was just a little bit late and we've all done it well you just a little little late ready to go pick up the child she runs up to pick up her child a little two-year-old and the baby is behind it no one's there well let me back up the mama ends up calling her sister the child's it's like did you pick up let's call her Toya did you pick up toy and I didn't pick up toys well it's closed where is she her sister's like well you better call the cops then she sees her child walk in front of that is a door between two doors in between them the child looking up the door and looking at her crying let me tell you something I want to call the cops oh yes I want to call the cops but I would have broken that door down I would have found a brick or something and got my baby you best believe so that's crazy that is absolutely crazy I think a couple of years ago I don't know what state it was in a couple of years ago there was another situation another incident where they actually left a baby not to me a two-year-old still a baby but an actual baby that can't walk in the freaking daycare because they thought she she was a doll wow beautiful baby and they accidentally thought she was a doll so when the father came again everything was dark dark everything was shut off they're breaking the door down and they six y'all the video is actually on here it's on YouTube you can see it break the door down and you can hear the baby and see the baby crying when that broke that literally broke my heart to see that baby crying out there in the dark and the two-year-old excuse me will probably it's traumatic after this you know for baby they can some of them at a certain age they can forget it but that two-year-old will probably not be able to sleep by herself for a while that's even if she does right now which you know it's not you know uncommon for two girls to still sleep with someone so then there was another case man some of these parents ain't you know I mean they I follow true crime stuff because I love true crime so sometimes when they have to deal with children I try not to go down that path because it could be very emotional but they had shared a picture of a cute little boy he was so cute a couple of days ago basically saying this child was wondering around at night by himself cold wet he's nonverbal and so they couldn't figure out who he was you know coming to find out his no-good dusty-ass mama left him out there because she said it's to save him from her six years old I actually thought he was younger than that because he's so chubby in the face six years old she left her baby out there you know anybody could have at night to the child was wondering around so a man picked him up and caught the cops like how could you do that so the sad thing about it y'all is that the woman's friend recognized the child because they had you know does anyone recognize his child is anyone know who the parents of this child so the woman's friend saw the picture and she said when I saw that picture I was I was crying because I guess the friend had called her and said can you watch her too she wanted her to watch her two other kids for a while I don't know if the child is autistic or have some type of you know there's no excuses and I get it can be stressful except no excuses she could have dropped their baby off at a fire station she could have dropped their baby off at the hospital at night just disgusting it just kills me because you you know and he had little bruises on his face so I don't know if that was from something she did or if he had you know fallen out there because it was dark when she abandoned him and then you got people out here who wish they had children wish they had babies you know wish they had wish they could adopt someone and for her to do that to her own child it's just disgusting to me his sweet little face oh my god he has the sweetest look and even if he didn't have a sweet face you know what I mean but still it's disgusting um besides that y'all what I'm watching on YouTube I'm actually watching a little YouTube for a change definitely still watching true crime on YouTube I like to look at um I stopped looking at Bailey Siri is that her name is cuz she gives off even though she apologizes sometimes when she be laughing I think it's more of a nervous laughter when she's doing her stories but anyway Christina Christina Randall she's out in Florida I love to watch her there's a couple of other black true crimes who I'll watch I will be linking some stuff in the cart and they do highlight cases amongst people of color I just love it y'all some of the stuff can be a little disturbing um reaction videos by Carlos King he has the most beautiful locks why men men always when we ain't going natural and I know it's the hormones it's the testosterone their hair is so thick and beautiful and he has waist length long locks his name is Carlos King he's not here in Dallas he's either in Dallas or Fort Worth DFW area I'll watch some of his videos he had me cracking up his commentary has me cracking up yeah so that um child naturally fashionable naturally fashionable is on this her platform some of her content kind of changed towards the um let's be more feminine and soft and talking about some of the issues in the black community um she did a video recently though and I guess it was in reaction to another one of the jumping over this one her name I guess her name is six and she is more on the black women need to again you know be feminine you know in my opinion I'm gonna say this both of them can be problematic in a certain way because you have naturally fashionable who in my opinion she comes out as I'm married I didn't have kids at a wetlock I'm winning and then you have the young lady six that it's like um I'm not fat I'm pretty I'm thin I'm winning do you see what I'm saying so it's like we're all winning in our own right stop this stop this we gotta stop this y'all but I watched both of them to a certain degree um because I don't have to agree everything with someone to wash them because I'm open like that you know what I mean so I'm okay with that to a certain degree if I see you doing the same now I'm not subscribed to the young lady six but I've been subscribed to naturally fashion before a very long time so yeah looking at that um oh my god y'all last night I came across YouTube is trippy like have y'all have do y'all have a couple of people you subscribe to and all of a sudden you get recommendation of one of their videos you watched your video come to find out you've missed four or five videos they posted that's been happening to me a lot lately so sisters with long hair I know some of you guys are subscribed to her I have been following her for almost ten years actually it has been ten years ten years she has this beautiful long hair her hair is heat trained okay because she flat size she presses out and she straightens her hair a lot um tell a moment so in the middle I need to get it together because it's traumatic is watching her video and I clicked on it and well the title slot is like I'm shaving my head or I shake my head I'm like what the hell and so I'm just fast-forwarding the video and it gets to the point where I see her hair and all these ribbon things and I'm watching it she's cutting her you know her hair and then she could see the long part with the rubber bands and I'm thinking what what's going on and you could clearly see bald spots and patches and I'm thinking y'all at that time I'm like oh I said oh this is when I first saw it I'm gonna give you my honest opinion when I first saw it I'm like okay this is traumatic this is a traumatic this is because I think she was her voice was cracking when she was explaining that she was gonna have several videos coming it's traumatic I don't know something's going on with her mentally but this is so I clicked out the video because I said I can't I can't watch this right now this morning just this morning I watched it and then I saw that she had two other videos she her hair is staining she's balding alopecia I know I'm not pronouncing that pretty properly but her father has it and if it runs in your family which I didn't know there's a 50% chance that you could get it so I remember I saw a video from her it's been a while where she was keeping her shed of hair as she was you know putting it on basically making it like her own wig and I was like wow that girl look at this I'm like wow that's smart you know I was thinking that's a lot of work but do use this and then for this to happen and she explains that she does have an autoimmune disease which I did kind of figure that from her um I thought that she has mentioned that before that she suffered from a um autoimmune disease which is horrible and then she stated that the hair loss came from a trigger and what triggered it was watching the george floyd video y'all I have not seen that entire video and I never will I saw a lot of those those things I cannot watch I cannot but and this is why I also you know you guys I tell you guys be very careful what you watch be good your eyes your eyes be careful you have to protect your eyes you have to protect your ears I'm honest to God and so um I love how she's rocking her hair though because half of his ball and I think the other habits like tracks or something she is rocking this she's a beautiful woman shaping head or not no hair or not but you know she's absolutely right we often get especially as black women um it's just a woman woman in general we are often defined by what we look like and our hair is a big part of that identification so horrible what she's going through but it seems like she's come to terms with it which is so important um and thank God that she started saving her own hair so to use her own hair for a wig for her you know due to her you know having this hair loss and baldness is amazing in my opinion absolutely amazing besides that Linda Lynn is posting she's posting a lot now she posted one video a couple while it hasn't been a week that she's dating and I'm gonna say this because I like Linda I like Linda a lot and I and this is Linda Lynn y'all know her from New Orleans from New Orleans Linda but I'm gonna say this and I did say this in her comments too and she's gotten several comments and so I'm from one and not on the bandwagon of dating while you're legally still married because I just think that it can cause can cause a lot of issues in the divorce proceedings and just cause issues in general with your ex who you're separated with you know he could do whatever you want he wants because clearly he has been but I'm just gonna leave it as that so I just don't think that right now is the right time not to make you know not funny like laughing at the situation but um she just has to be careful there's nothing wrong wrong with being in your singleness and I think she knows that meaning Linda there's nothing wrong to having a period or a season of sitting down and basking in that and so you can learn from what you've gone through what you're still going through because it can be traumatic you know going through a separation and a divorce and let's just back up for a second she's had a baby and she's going through a separation in less than a year so there's a lot of heart there's hormones still involved from her having her baby and then you're going into a separation and now you're trying to date now you know you can try it if you want to baby girl you can try it but I just think it's so wisely and I think she's gotten more comments from women saying don't do it stop from those of us who knows people who's been there gone through there look come from people 12 years on you Linda I say if you're going to do it be wise about it but take your time but you also have to think about what type of man who will be willing to go out and you know go out on dates with a woman who hasn't legally separated legally divorced her husband yet just gonna put that out there and I know that you know we all have our own opinions you can do whatever you want she's grown absolutely I'm speaking from people who I know who did this no no girl even when they were just saying I'm just having fun it's not just having fun after a while though oh child my hair is shedding look this is all this is a good thing though all right y'all so that's who all I'm watching on YouTube TV tender swindler what the hell is wrong with these women have y'all seen me on Netflix I cannot and for for a while they're always like what I saw the jokes I saw the shade rooms I'm like who is this Israeli man what what are they why are they giving him help baby let me tell you something I literally had to start over watching this stuff this um movie excuse me on Netflix at least three times because I just cannot believe that women would fall for something like this I'm not trying to victim blame or anything like that but I just I'm just scratching my hand like who so those of you who don't know tender swindler is a man a supposedly billionaire who was meeting these women through a tender multiple women mind you and scamming them for money so you're like baby how's he scamming them for money well apparently he's coming up as a billionaire the son to a billionaire diamonds okay let me see if I have any notes you guys um and he was going by the name of Simone LaVe so this is my thing and they are looking up LaVe in the LaVe family and of course if you google LaVe you'll see that um he is in the diamond industry but I'm crazy I would have gone a step further the LaVe Mr. LaVe has eight children and none of those kids named Simon shimon none of them are named that so that red flag number one okay so he got these women but seeing you know his life was in danger um he's showing pictures of his body bodyguard Peter it was his bodyguard and Peter Chetl I don't know bodyguard is in that ambulance and that stuff was true he wasn't in ambulance but was his life in danger not true so he's like hey can I borrow some money um because I you know all my stuff is locked up I don't know you know he's like hey I need some I need some cash because I gotta get out of this country and go here and so these women are like sure after only a few weeks of knowing this man sure let me take out a loan do what you know how much money you have to be making to take out a 25,000 loan so they would take out a loan giving the money and sometimes he will actually give the money because I believe one woman she let him borrow I don't know like a little bit of little like five or six thousand dollars I don't know the exact amount but let's just say she let him borrow five six thousand dollars he paid her back like 10,000 but what it was you guys was a Ponzi scheme so he would borrow money and then pay this person what this person let him borrow and that's what he did for years he swung through these women and it was crazy and he definitely had a type if you could tell by their personalities even the way they look sorter not necessarily I wouldn't say plain James but not this is not anything this is not being mean these women were not memorable I actually don't even remember what they I don't even remember their hair color I believe most of them were blonde but I don't even remember what their faces look like so that's what I'm talking about they weren't strikingly beautiful women so not to say he had a physical type but he definitely had a type had a type and so he served hardly no money on this these all these women basically went into horrible debt like what quarter of a million dollars he's what how much time did he what did he do like three months seven months to jail he's back out making money having courses on how is he I don't know I just make that up does he have courses now you guys he's out here living his best life he has a girlfriend model she is really model and so you know it's just crazy like how can you but you know what this is where and it's not being judging this is not me judging anybody I really am not you guys but this is where you really have to set get a take a seat back and allow your brain to make decision for you that you know your heart is not going to be as good on okay so as women oftentimes we want to be in love and we want we are in we are in love with the idea of being in love you know what I mean and so sometimes that can cloud our judgment so to speak so girl none of these girls could be my friends because at the end of the day I'm gonna let you know he ain't shit so if you want to be with that and ride down then go right ahead you know go go ahead go ahead and do it so anyway y'all tend to swim um also wrote um also watched a great movie on Netflix called intrusion y'all and true intrusion which is basically what it's about not to give any spoilers some people intrude get into this person's this couple's house out in the middle of nowhere he's an architect his wife is there I believe his wife is a psychiatrist and he's an architect and they have this beautiful new home right this movie has so many twists in and I was like wow it's good it's really good um my sister's still trying to get me to watch The Witcher I'm not watching it I don't know why but yesterday I rewatched Planet of the Apes beneath the planet of the apes I'm like girl it was interesting though I love you get your hand love me you dirty ape I'm like oh oh inventing Anna is on my to-do list it is from the shit from Ozark the UK girl um let me tell you something the woman in that um house the woman in the window in the house across from the street that series and again another one that has some twist again the title is the woman in the window in the house from across the street so it's about this woman she's nosy as hell she went through a divorce I'm not going to give all the spoilers and so she sits in front of her window with a big glass of wine and join herself and on her cell phone I'm like yes this we could be friends that's the type of life I like you know you got your wine you sitting in front but she's an alcoholic because she's yeah so she sees some things going on she sees a crime that is committed and it spirals downhill from it spirals downhill from there I seriously thought she was crazy I still think she's a little crazy but again one of those series that has some twists and turns and I did enjoy that um can't really get into sweet magnolia right now but it's on my to-do list so I will I guess I will watch it you know but it's on my to-do list but just not right now so that is it you guys um let me know what y'all watching let me know how you guys are doing I'm gonna end the video by saying this please be mindful you guys of how much time you spend on social media social media can be toxic it could be almost like living in a fantasy world um there are still so many people out there that are hurting silently and they put on a happy face I'm okay I'm like I know I'm okay now that's a good go about the situation but there are so many people out there who are hurting silently just know you don't have to do that okay find someone to combine two if you don't have any friends or write it out pour it out write it down um tell a family member just just it just breaks my heart to know that there are so many people that are in a place to where they don't have anyone you know and not to make everything about me but that's one of the reasons why we chose this town because I my best friend was going through a lot and she still is going through a lot and so when she was over here a couple of days ago I said you know we chose this city because I wanted to be near you and she was like really I said yes I said I want to be able to sit in it with you I may not understand it but just know you don't have to go through it by yourself so just know that you guys you don't have to go through anything by yourself you know I mean you really don't you shouldn't have to so that is it I hope you guys are well and I hope you guys have a great week take care bye