 Come on everybody. Are we really surprised that Tanimojo screwed up Tanacon? Like imagine if I would just like change my whole name to like TanTanMotion. Hey buddy this is Chris from the Rewired Soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is all about mental health and what I try to do is pull different topics from the youtube community to try to teach you how to improve your mental and emotional well-being. So if you're into that kind of stuff make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell and some exciting news this morning the first mental health email blast went out. So if you're signed up on my mailing list go check it out. I sent out the first email and it's just about how to deal with negative thoughts and the title of the email is Don't Trust Your Thoughts. So check that email out. I will have a link to the actual email that you can like just click on or you can sign up because I'm going to try to do these at least a few times a week totally free a little extra mental health motivation to kickstart your day. Alright so anyways this is a video I've wanted to make for a while yes I know the Tanacon thing is over even though Michael Weist's video came out not that long ago but there's something I've wanted to talk about for a while and there's some very important mental health lessons to be learned. So a lot of you I don't know what happened youtube works in such mysterious ways. A lot of you have found me through my Tanimojo abusing prescription medications video I made that back in February. So anyways for those of you who watch that video and you're now here let me correct two things yeah I screwed up I meant Lil Peep passed away not Lil Pop. The second correction from that video is that I said Lil Peep passed away from a Xanax overdose and a lot of you have been oh so kind to correct me and say that it was fentanyl. His Xanax was laced with fentanyl. Now listen to me very carefully okay like first off first off that video was made before the toxicology report was sent out but second off this is part of the stigma with substance abuse and overdoses like I don't care I don't care what it was laced with. I do not care if Lil Peep overdosed on unicorn pee the truth of the matter is is that this dude passed away from substance abuse alright but I see this all the time and it's something I just want to vent about because like people like oh they didn't die from you know percussets they died from you know shooting up heroin or whatever it is you guys people are dying from drugs okay everybody knew Lil Peep was doing drugs then he died of drugs and that actually is something that we're talking about in this video like people were surprised people were surprised that Lil Peep died right and like why his music was about getting loaded right his music was about abusing substances everybody in his life abused substances like that's something that's really sad to me working in the addiction treatment field like when people are surprised that someone they knew was abusing medications or abusing substances of any kind then they die like what are you surprised about and that's what I want to talk about with Tana like how are we surprised that she screwed up TanaCon like is anybody really surprised like let's just lay out the facts real quick and by the way this isn't a video like trying to spill the tea or anything like that like I'm gonna tell you because a lot of you are getting caught off guard by some really dumb stuff that shouldn't be happening the signs are there all right so Tana Mojo let's think about her what's her career made off of all right her career is made off of a lot of videos and story times about crazy situations happening he fucks me with a toothbrush and everything going to crap right like that's what her reputation is built off of then her reputation is also built off of exaggerated stories and lies immaturity walks up to me and he kind of like locks his arm around me like around my neck like this and it wasn't like it was like a choke or anything it was it was very like firm and like tight like okay like this is who we're talking about here then she actually has a hit song that she made titled because I'm a girl and I'm so dumb and all these voices in my head won't shut the because I'm a girl and I'm so and it's 5 p.m. and I just won't go then this young woman tries to plan a vidcon level event in a month and people are shocked that it didn't turn out well like let's put the pieces together people like was anybody really that shocked all right I think it was Megan Ton just who talked about it post Tana ask questions please know that there's more than one person to get in contact with if something goes wrong because it's probably gonna go wrong that's the rule of running a conference and you shouldn't have to be tweeting out hey is my panel still today is my performance still today and then just hearing cricket like are you guys really that surprised you know so funny story Tristan and I were actually in LA for my birthday that weekend and we were contemplating going to Tana con because we heard Shane Dawson was gonna be there but instead we went to Corgi beach day much better decision all right but like when we were driving back we were listening to all the Tana con nonsense it was like oh my god like yeah I'm not surprised but again this isn't about Tana this is about you listen listen listen this is something that like I have a lot of experience with see like there was Tana's video that has kind of been swept under the rug but it was when Tana and her friend found somebody who had overdosed which was awful um it was similar to the Logan Paul situation but anyways like Tana makes this video about like only us only us the craziest things only happened to us right I used to think that way I used to think the craziest situations only happened to me why does everything go to crap around me and it was my fault it was my fault like you guys I hung around a lot of scumbag people so guess what happened a lot of scumbag things happened to me right I hung around people who are into lying cheating and stealing so when they lie or cheated or stole from me how can I act shocked how can I act surprised these are the people that I'm hanging out with like that is the type of person they are right I think I mentioned it in a Jeffrey star video like if you're hanging around a bunch of people who are into drama and gossip don't be surprised when they gossip about you like think about this your choices and who you're hanging out with who you decide to follow why are you so shocked when something happens like a great example is I've known countless people who have got into a relationship with somebody that they met who was cheating right so let's say a guy cheated on his girlfriend with this girl and they got together now they're all in love and they're gonna have a relationship then next thing you know the guy cheats on her and she is flabbergasted just straight flabbergasted do people use the word flabbergasted anymore flabbergasted right like how are you surprised you met this guy through a cheating act and now you think it's going to be different with you like I know we hang around people who are like oh they're wild they're zany they like to do crazy stuff they like to go party they like to do this like if that's what you're into like I'm not saying like hey don't get me wrong like if that's your thing you want to hang out with those type of people go for it but don't act shocked don't act shocked when these things happen like something that I teach my my clients like in treatment is is to look for the signs like especially when it comes to drug addiction and recovery you see a relapse happening miles away like part of my position was to talk to people after they relapsed right or I would but mainly I was trying to help them so to prevent a relapse but people would call me up people would call me up month two months three months after treatment and I'll make up a name here they're like oh my god Chris Chris Chris did did you hear did you hear John relapsed I'm like oh did he okay I'll try to reach out to him they're like yeah I just don't get it it's just such a shock it's such a surprise and I'm like really really you mean the guy who slept through like every single group you mean the guy who didn't take this seriously you mean to tell me that that guy that guy relapsed color me surprised right like this is what I'm trying to say so like when people are like were shocked that Tana Mojo and Tana Khan failed like what are you talking about that's who she is she is that person you know like I know like you know Shane said at when he interviewed her like you know she shouldn't even be allowed to like organize like a birthday party like yeah yeah exactly like why would you put anything in her hands but how many other things are you doing like that how many how many times are you putting your your faith or trust or expectations in somebody like there's something where if somebody keeps letting you down and you keep putting your faith in them like eventually it's your fault like I'm sorry to say that but it kind of goes that same for me once shame on you for me twice shame on me right you know to just put this in a more perspective because I know I got some parents out there I'll tell I teach this to my son my son's about to turn 10 years old my son plays a game called fortnight some of you might have heard of it and he likes to play in a game in a mode called playground mode with his friends and he does that and some of his friends in there they do stuff and you know it makes Dylan upset and like it's his same friends and like Dylan would get upset about it and then he comes to cry to me about it and I'm like Dylan you know that's what they do every time you go in they do that to you like so how do you want me to sympathize with you when you know that that's what they do right but think about that like I have to teach that to my 10 year old son like what are you doing you have way more logic and experience than my 10 year old son quit hanging out with the people who are hurting you or screwing you over quit putting faith and expectations on people who are hurting you and screwing you over okay leave that guy or leave that girl who keeps screwing up in your relationship how many of you have waited around for someone to change right like it's not surprising when this things happens that's why sobriety is such a shock when a drug addict doesn't use drugs that is amazing you know what I mean but oftentimes when somebody relapses I'm like hmm that's what drug addicts do you know what I mean but anyways I just wanted to use this as a point of reference like quit being shocked when crazy stuff happens to people living a crazy life all right like speaking of crazy just last example last example I used to and some people don't like when I say this but anyways I used to have a type my type used to be crazy women right I would love dating crazy women but when crazy it happened I'd be shocked by it but when you date crazy people crazy stuff happens that's why I got my beautiful Tristan sitting right over here you know no more crazy stuff happens anyways anyways let me know let me know down in the comments below like do you have people who are like this like Tana who keep messing up and then other people are shocked are you shocked did this video provide you with some clarity where the person who keeps doing these things that's just the type of person they are and you no longer can be shocked about it let's have a conversation down in the comments below if you can relate all right but anyways that's all I got for this video if you like this video please give it a thumbs up and if you're new here make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell because I make a ton of videos and a huge thank you to everybody supporting the channel over on patreon and everybody over on patreon who is in the five dollar tier and up there are some brand new exclusive content up there for you to go check it out and if you would 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