 my name is by Moses or it's by more Navy social media platform and this is Social Friday and this is KOT Open Day and this lady has been trending on Twitter for a while for some of the right reasons and some wrong reasons but she's here to tell her story herself and involve us in some in some discussions concerning Twitter and concerning Kenyans on Twitter she goes by the name Bossy Borey and she's live on Y254 on Y in the morning. Alright so I like to give people a chance to introduce themselves because you never know their alias their AK is so your camera is number four take it away yeah my name is Bossy Borey Nehmer I'm 20 years old and yeah I'm an influencer on Twitter mm-hmm alright so influencer on Twitter as another thing that people don't know about you that you have a whole different whole different life that goes on off Twitter and you do your own thing so Twitter is not your only place but we are not going to be talking about that today all right they'll figure that out on themselves you've been trending for a better part of for a better part of last week and was this a surprise to you first when you saw yourself trending yeah all right so who gave you the news who brought the news yeah that you're trending okay I'm on Twitter I'm on Twitter so you so mentions mentions mentions yeah yeah and they were increasingly the request in a increasingly longer zeka so they were becoming so many and suddenly I noticed on top trends I was trending then slowly it came on Kenan trends and slowly up to number one all right yeah so you saw yourself move up slowly and slowly slowly slowly up to number one yeah all right so your reason for trending and not so many people understand what happened from where you're sitting what's took place in a few words just tell the story briefly so people can get to understand because people have mixed opinions about this you know Chukia not how I do when in any not how do you keep meaning gap and so I'll give you the chance to tell us the story okay yeah I started trending sometime on Saturday it started on Saturday there was an image that I had supposedly was taken on sometime last year when I got a scholarship with a step aside the Nairobi women rep and that image was cropped with the image on my RV profile on Twitter and there's some difference this one on my profile had filters and maker and the other one was yeah and there was some big difference and that was the that was the thing yeah so that is the thing so some people need to get to our online villages online villages work I'm working on the trend work I'm working cool put it people say you were misquoted when you commented on Steve of simple boys post yeah what did you say exactly on the post me come up a co-foundation I come up a co-foundation no I quote oh you quote we're a co-foundation come as well yeah all right so what was your intention when you asked this question like way you see on Twitter they are banters and it's okay with banter unless they go to far and I didn't expect something like that would go to far it was just like a simple comment and of course I apologized and I didn't expect it to hurt someone in a way which did which supposedly did and I regret and I apologize you apologize to this person yeah all right it was a very light question a very innocent question for that matter and you were just trying to create a light moment yeah but things came and blew up on your face you didn't see this coming yeah all right have you seen this happen to another person before it happened to you on Twitter since you're very heavy on Twitter yeah you've seen this happen to us yeah yeah so did you ever imagine it was it would happen to you sometime I expected that because on Twitter okay you're prone to cyberbullying at times and some some I get personal and just I just may just take it to further knowledge like mine okay I didn't expect it to come so personal I just at first when I saw the images I just took it off as a meme and laughed but I think we're just getting out of hand they were getting so personal and that's when I noticed okay this is not okay this is not okay and this should not happen to anybody else yeah alright so moving from this they they say humans are learning creatures yeah so there's so much you've learned from this experience and just by the fact that you walked in here you face up and you're not scared to talk about this people are expecting you to be locked up in your room somewhere but by the mere fact that you came here it means you have learned something and you walked out of this stronger what would you tell first somebody was faced cyberbullying what I can tell someone was faced cyberbullying these things happen they happen and that's not the end of it I believe I believe there's something positive you can come out of it it doesn't you don't have to go to depression just because of cyberbullying it's not worth it the life ahead so being bold and getting all the that's not the end of it there's a future ahead so just just ignore the main comments and just go with the positive and you'll you'll go far yeah so what would you tell the cyberbullies themselves what I'd say what do harm what what have the power to harm destroy they can humble and they can encourage so choose your path to destroy or to bring an impact choose all right so what's up the power to humble to destroy to destroy encourage and encourage yeah so pick a struggle yeah if you want to be the person that destroys like Saturn if you want to be the person that encourages like Jesus or if you want to be the person that builds like God pick a struggle I want to bossy boy yourself how can they find you on Twitter now that we can take advantage of this and get you more following on Twitter since your business is on Twitter as well yeah just look them straight into that I'm at bossy boy underscore ke on Twitter on Facebook bossy boy name and on Instagram bossy boy underscore ke all right so another thing that I just got to learn is that there's no legislation for for prosecuting cyberbullies or reporting cyberbullies there's no law per se and did you did you feel like we need the law when this happened to you yeah okay there are Twitter rules and I believe when you go through through their Twitter rules and regulations you can see there's a part for cyberbullying and I think they have indicated they are working to put more measures under the Twitter rules and regulations all right but this is under Twitter but as as a sovereign state we don't have that do you think it's something that we need as a country or this is going to infringe into our freedom of expression yeah I think we really need it because there's a lot of cyberbullying there's a lot not only on Twitter I'm I mean in other apps too there's a lot on cyberbullying and people hiding behind the keyboards to I think they want to defame it's it does affect real life so cyberbullying can can even lead someone to depression so I believe there should be rules all right last week I had a conversation with the psychologist what's her name but she runs this organization called FaceUp and this application is for for schools or institutions where people can get to report bullying to to to the authorities all right so the app is is very genius but I don't think it can work for for Twitter but what she told me is that bullies have have a problem that they're dealing with personally so that is what she told me bullies have have in common what have you seen that bullies cyberbullies have in common what is that one thing you've seen cyberbullies having in common okay something I've noticed you get these there's a lot of hate or something abiding they've been carrying inside and they just want to throw it on someone yeah so these days they like they come up to do all right yeah energy they have in inside that they'd like to spread out or reduce theirs by spreading spreading to other people yeah so that is something you've noticed with them all right thank you very much for the insight and thank you very much for being strong and thank you very much for sharing your story the next questions are more or less and knowledge best you're going to help understand Twitter a little bit more because people are complaining there's pornography on Twitter is it true and should we be worried about living on kids on Twitter okay pornography on Twitter I believe I believe if there is pornography on Twitter there is a there is a there's a message that comes along this may include sensitive content and I think there's less pornography on Twitter yes I agree there is but there's less and once before viewing it you're told this content may contain all right so Twitter is trying its best to have regulations to to cap this when it comes to pornography and nudity so you're in support of Twitter right there all right we are told there's a lot of deformation on Twitter and this is something you experienced is it something that happens on a daily is it a lot as people pre-seem okay I don't think as a person it's a lot but there is deformation on Twitter but it isn't a lot all right politics on Twitter what do you think about politics on Twitter I believe Twitter Twitter Twitter is an app that's most people have taken advantage to speak to their leaders and yeah there's lots of politics on Twitter and I I think it's a it's a platform that they have taken advantage to talk to their leaders maybe in a positive way or trying to correct something these Twitter brings a lot of impact on politics so yeah thank you very much boss boy you couldn't have said it better we appreciate you so much I'll give you another chance to tell them your Twitter handle and the other handles that you have so they can follow you and just have a figure of a taste of who bossy boy is in person without that with the deformation aside yeah so my handle art at bossy boy underscore ke on Twitter and Instagram and Facebook bossy boy never yeah that's my handle all right thank you very much bossy boy mr. 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