 In this video I am going to be discussing Narciss and their addictions. Please like, comment, share and subscribe, click the bell icon to receive all of the notifications. If you would like to make a donation or if you are interested in coaching, the links are in the video description. First I am going to read a definition of addiction from Wikipedia. Addiction is a brain disorder characterized by compulsive engagement in rewarding stimuli despite adverse consequences. Narciss always have some form of addiction, whether it is in the use of a substance or in a behaviour. Addicts are narcissistic. Having an addiction is a narcissistic behaviour. Addicts are self-absorbed and lack empathy. You cannot have relationships with addicts. Because their addictions always come first, narcissistic supply is their main addiction. I am not going to mention that here as that will be for a separate video but what I am saying here could also relate to the addiction to narcissistic supply. The rewarding effects of this substance or behaviour provides them with a compelling incentive to repeatedly pursue the behaviour despite the potentially harmful consequences. It's a form of escapism dissociating from reality. It's self-sabotaging and it involves an extreme disregard to consequences. This is what keeps them locked into the addiction. For it to be an addiction there must be a consistent pattern of behaviour. This means that a narcissist or anyone else could be addicted to anything. The person must also continue using this substance or doing this behaviour knowing that it will negatively impact their lives. Not all narcissists are going to have addictions to drugs or alcohol but they may have an addiction in another area of their lives. Here are a few other addictions that the narcissist might have. Prescription drugs. Narcissists will abuse prescription drugs which can lead to an addiction that can be very difficult to break. Depending on the drug there can sometimes be severe withdrawal symptoms. Gambling. Narcissists are always looking for a way to escape reality. So naturally they become thrill seekers. Because of this they can become addicted to the thrill of gambling. Gambling addicts do not realise they have a problem until it is too late and they are in serious financial trouble. As narcissists are self-absorbed and lack empathy they do not consider the devastating consequences that this may have on their family or the people around them. Shopping. A shopping addict is someone who shops compulsively. They may feel like they have no control over their behaviour and like the gambling addict they may not consider the consequences of this behaviour and the negative impact it may have on their lives. Going on a shopping spree once in a while does not make you a shopping addict. Narcissists may try to hide their shopping addiction from you. They will spend large amounts of money on themselves to portray a desired image. Because they are self-absorbed and lack empathy they will not consider the potential consequences that this may have on you. Pornography or Sex. An addiction to pornography or sex is very serious and could potentially destroy lives. If you are in a relationship with a narcissist who has an addiction to pornography or sex you may feel betrayed or devastated. An addiction to pornography or sex isn't just something you do once a day or a few times a week. Pornography or sex addicts think about it for much of their day in inappropriate times and places. The cause of sexual addiction can be found in sexual repression. Sexual repression is often associated with feelings of guilt or shame and I believe that this can also lead to cheating. With time pornography addicts may feel the need to watch more and more graphic images and material which could involve illegal or even extreme pornography. As time goes by they can no longer get the same fulfilment as they once did. Social media, mobile devices and video games. Social media can be considered to be quite a narcissistic environment. Adjections are typically addicted to the dopamine fuelled social validation loops in social media and video games. An addiction to this can result in them becoming socially withdrawn and isolated. Those with severe addictions may neglect other responsibilities such as personal hygiene or work. Any social media, mobile devices and video games addicts will struggle with sleep which can result in health problems. Food. Food addictions are related to eating disorders. In extreme situations they can destroy lives. The most common eating disorders are anorexia and bulimia. Any eating disorder is in a healthy or abnormal attitude towards food. Adjections are more likely to be bulimic or overweight as they are commonly addicted to release of dopamine upon eating. Narciss always have some form of addiction. I am now going to discuss some symptoms that narcissists may experience as a result of their addiction. Over time the substance behaviour or activity has to be used in larger amounts or for long periods of time than was originally intended. If there is a desire to cut down on their use of the substance behaviour or activity. In most situations there will be unsuccessful efforts to do it. Their pursuit of the substance behaviour or activity consumes a significant part of their time. This intense motivation is fuelled by the release of dopamine within their brains. There is an uncontrollable craving or strong desire for them to use the substance or activity. Their use of the substance behaviour or activity may even disrupt their work or other significant part of their lives. Their use of the substance behaviour or activity will continue despite the social problems it may cause and it may even occur in risky situations. Their use continues despite knowing it is causing psychological, emotional and even physical health problems. Over time the narcissists will experience tolerance to their use of the substance behaviour or activity. Tolerance is defined as a diminished response to a substance behaviour or activity that is the result of repeated use as well as substances, behaviours and activities. Narcists can also be addicted to people in general or even a specific person. In this situation they will experience the same symptoms as they would if it were a substance behaviour or activity that they were addicted to. For more information on this topic please check out my video Narcists are addicted to people. These addictions are the narcissists' coping mechanisms to deal with their low self-esteem, low self-worth, insecurities, guilt and shame. They will rarely acknowledge that they have a problem. Narcists are emotionally immature and do not accept responsibility or accountability for anything that they do, even things that they do to themselves. This means that they can never learn from their faults and mistakes so they can never grow because they deny or block any acknowledgement, responsibility or accountability for anything that they do. They remain locked in this endless addiction as well as addictions. Narcists also engage in obsessive behaviour. When narcissists are obsessing their ritualistic routines become a part of their everyday lives. You may notice this where they constantly replay the same conversations over and over again as though they are just trying to figure something out. Obsessive behaviour is very repetitive. The root of these types of behaviours is fear. They believe that if they do not engage in this obsessive behaviour there will be a negative consequence. Fear, whether real or imagined, leads to obsessive behaviour. It is very difficult for the narcissists to recover from their obsessive and addictive behaviour because this is something they often experience together. For them to separate their obsessive behaviours from their addictive behaviours they would have to trace them back to the root cause of the problem if they wish to stop doing the undesirable behaviour. Of course, narcissists do not have any desire to change as there is no acknowledgement responsibility or accountability for anything that they do. If you confront them on their obsessive and addictive behaviour this will be met with the usual manipulative tactics which potentially becomes another addiction of theirs. For more information on the topic of confronting the narcissist please check out my video trying to explain to the narcissist. Addicts are always going to be narcissistic at the very least. Having an obsession or an addiction is a narcissistic behaviour. Addicts also always have some form of addiction, whether it is in the use of a substance, activity or behaviour. You will never experience a healthy, loving relationship with a person who has all of these obsessive and addictive behaviours. Addicts are self-absorbed and lack empathy. You cannot have relationships with addicts because their addictions always come first. Please like the video, share your thoughts in the comments, share it with anyone who you believe may help, subscribe if you haven't subscribed yet, click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you would like to make a donation please click the paypal link in the video description. If you are interested in a one-on-one coaching session with me, Narx Viver, you can send me an email at NarxViverCoaching at gmail.com. I hope this video resonated with you and thank you for watching.